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Raising a Secure Child: How Circle of Security Parenting Can Help You Nurture Your Child's Attachment, Emotional Resilience, and Freedom to Explore

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9H 17min
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English
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Personal Development

Today's parents are constantly pressured to be perfect. But in striving to do everything right, we risk missing what children really need for lifelong emotional security. Now the simple, powerful "Circle of Security" parenting strategies that Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper, and Bert Powell have taught thousands of families are available in self-help form for the first time.

You will learn:

● How to balance nurturing and protectiveness with promoting your child's independence.

● What emotional needs a toddler or older child may be expressing through difficult behavior.

● How your own upbringing affects your parenting style—and what you can do about it.

Filled with vivid stories and unique practical tools, this book puts the keys to healthy attachment within everyone's reach—self-understanding, flexibility, and the willingness to make and learn from mistakes.

© 2017 Tantor Media (Audiobook): 9781541480520

Release date

Audiobook: 10 October 2017

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