Sure, I'll Be Your Black Friend: Notes from the Other Side of the Fist Bump

A biting, hilarious memoir in essays chronicling a lifetime of being the Black friend* in white spaces. (*see also: foreign kid, boyfriend, coworker, student, teacher, enemy)

“Flat-out funny. . . This is a great next-book for fans of What Doesn’t Kill You Makes You Blacker and We Are Never Meeting in Real Life, but if a reader hasn’t turned to either of those yet, Philippe’s disarming, illuminating, and hilarious chronicle is a great place to start.” —Booklist

In an era in which “I have many Black friends” is often a medal of wokeness, Ben Phillipe hilariously chronicles the experiences of being on the receiving end of those fist bumps. He takes through his immigrant childhood, from wanting nothing more than friends to sit with at lunch, to his awkward teenage years, to college in the age of Obama, and on to adulthood during the first Trump administration—two sides of the same American coin.

Ben takes his role as your new Black friend seriously, providing original and borrowed wisdom on stereotypes, slurs, the whole “swimming thing,” how much Beyoncé is too much Beyoncé, Black Girl Magic, the rise of the Karens, affirmative action, the Black Lives Matter movement, and other conversations you might want to have with your new BBFF.

Sure, I’ll Be Your Black Friend is a conversational take on topics both light and heavy universal, and deeply personal that reveals incisive truths about the need for connection in all of us.

“I still mute Ben’s texts, but I inhaled his hilarious book, which is so full of razor-sharp wit and punches to the gut that it almost made me sick. In a good way!” —Samantha Irby, New York Times–bestselling author of Wow, No Thank You

“Philippe has created a funny, and at times harrowing, memoir of his experience as a Black man.” —Library Journal

© 2024 Harper Perennial (Ebook): 9780063026452

Release date

Ebook: 19 March 2024