Caroline Madden

Fool Me Once: Assessing Your Marriage After Infidelity

You've discovered that your husband has cheated on you. Your world is crashing down. You feel like a nuclear bomb just decimated your entire world, and you are trying to shield yourself from the fallout. You've been sucker punched in the soul. Your confidence is shaken, and you're doubting everything, including your own judgment.

You have a life together—home, children. He seems sincere about wanting to work things out, and you want to stay married. But then you think, "Only weak women stay with cheaters. Strong women walk!" You go back and forth, considering divorce, then thinking of your kids being split between two homes.

You will never get unstuck until you develop criteria around if your husband is sincere in wanting your marriage to recover after infidelity.

In Fool Me Once, Dr. Caroline Madden, a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist with 20 years of experience, shares the criteria she uses to determine if a man is truly remorseful and committed to saving his marriage or likely to cheat again.

Learn:

 • 5 Things That Look Suspicious (But Probably Aren't)
 • 5 Signs You Should Consider Giving Him Another Chance
 • 7 Signs He is Going to Cheat Again (And You Will Be Hurt Again)

Infidelity is traumatic, and you need time to assess the situation. Fool Me Once provides the tools to evaluate your relationship, determine if your husband’s desire to repair the marriage is sincere, and decide if your marriage is worth saving.

As they say, "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." Don't be a fool.

Cathi Colas

Train of Thought Press

(Surviving Infidelity, Advice From A Marriage Therapist) ()

Fool Me Once: Should I Take Back My Cheating Husband?

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