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Welcome to Pretty Basic, a weekly podcast hosted by multi-hyphenate creators and best friends, Alisha Marie and Remi Cruz. From TMI conversations about dating to big sister chats on how to feel more confident to the dark reality of influencing; each week you'll be left wanting more "content, baby, content." New episodes every Wednesday!

Pretty Basic with Alisha Marie and Remi Cruz

On this week’s episode of Pretty Basic, Remi is joined by her fiancé, Cal, for a hilarious dive into the male psyche. They’re spilling guy secrets you’ve always wondered about but never dared to ask—like what really gives them the ick, why they secretly love taking orders, and whether they actually think about nothing (spoiler: maybe).From breadcrumbing and "rosters" to interracial dating and juicy sex Q&A (yes, post-nut clarity included), it’s the ultimate crash course in decoding dudes. 

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​​Exposing What Men Really Think About You

This week on Pretty Basic, Alisha and Remi are joined by Ashley and Taryne from the Unsolicited Advice podcast for a crossover episode full of sisterly chaos and tactics on how to level up your communication. From Ashley skipping math tutoring to an extremely awkward invasion of “private time” (if you know what we mean ;) . Let’s just say this episode is full of fling-ing and flung-ing and if you don’t quite know what we’re referring to — you will know after you listen. 

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Follow Ashley Nichole: https://www.instagram.com/ashnichole

Follow Taryne Renee: https://www.instagram.com/tarynerenee

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​​Help! I’ve Outgrown My Best Friend with Ashley and Taryne

It’s a holly jolly advice fest as Ashley and Taryne return for part two of Pretty Basic’s Christmas Spectacular! The girls spill tea on everything from navigating friends with benefits to Remi’s enneagram plot twist. They’re serving up tips on finding love (without swiping), making friends, anxious thoughts and telling your BFF they’re tragically eyebrow-blind—all while juggling your friends with benefits and existential 30s crises. Grab your cocoa; it’s about to get festive and unsolicited!

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Follow Ashley Nichole: https://www.instagram.com/ashnichole

Follow Taryne Renee: https://www.instagram.com/tarynerenee

Sponsors: 

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Cotton is The Fabric of Now. Learn more at TheFabricOfOurLives.com

Discover Drunk Elephant’s C-Luma Hydrabright Serum at Ulta Beauty Stores and online at ulta.com. 

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​​Giving You Big Sister Advice with Ashley and Taryne Pt. 2

New year, new us! Alisha and Remi are setting the vibe for 2025 with their words for the year and goals – beyond just Remi’s dream of no longer being allergic to avocados. They reveal what they’re manifesting and investing in, the surprising science behind shower thoughts, and celebrate making it through the infamous seven-year friendship hump. Get ready to feel inspired and start your year with intention!

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​​New Year, New Me: Our Goals for 2025

Trigger Warning: Just a quick heads-up—this episode touches on eating disorders, self-harm, and drug and alcohol use. Please listen with care, and feel free to skip this episode if these topics may be triggering for you. Take care of yourself first. 💖

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On this 2025 kickoff episode, Alisha and Remi are joined by transformation expert, Mimi Bouchard to dive into manifesting your dream life and becoming your future self (hint: it’s all about your bounce back rate). Mimi shares her powerful two-step strategy for radically changing your life, insights on habit stacking, and her personal journey from failed companies and eating disorders to living her most enriched (and rich) life. From scientific approaches to quantum physics and classical conditioning, discover how to simplify your path, embrace main character energy, and unlock the shortcut to your best year yet. 

Spoiler Alert: Leveling up isn’t about hustling harder—it’s about feeling better!

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Mimi Bouchard IG: https://www.instagram.com/mimibouchard/?hl=en

Mimi Bouchard Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2Lq6SYx69uhphX4Y-NGkOQ

Check out Mimi’s book ‘Activate Your Future Self’ coming April 2025. 

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Make 2025 the Year You Achieve Your Goals + Dream Life with this Manifestation Formula ft. Mimi Bouchard

We’re BACK from our much-needed break and have so much to catch up on! 

On this week’s episode, Remi takes us through her very affirming psychic reading and how she almost didn’t ask Alisha to be her maid of honor (drama, we know). Alisha opens up about her ADHD struggles and Onyx Storm excitement, while we demand a January do-over. We’re also pulling back the curtain on how creators actually make their money and diving into the wild trend of guys giving themselves vasectomies (because… why?!) And of course, we’re asking the real questions—should Remi’s bachelorette theme be Brides & Botox?! Oh, and don’t worry, we’re also making space for labia puffs in 2025. Buckle up, it’s a good one!

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LOS ANGELES FIRE RELIEF 

Los Angeles Fire Department Foundation: Addresses needs and equipment that firefighters need in real time.https://supportlafd.org/

California Community Foundation: Manages both short and long term recovery for those displaced and effected by the wildfires.https://www.calfund.org/

California Fire Foundation: Coordinates with local fire departments and organizations to provide financial relief to impacted residents.https://www.cafirefoundation.org/

Los Angeles Regional Food Bank: Accepting both food contributions and volunteers at multiple locations. https://www.lafoodbank.org/

LA Works: Focuses on mobilizing volunteers to disaster affected areas. https://www.laworks.com/

The League of California Community Foundations: A coalition of California nonprofits coordinating relief efforts, including rebuilding homes and dealing with the mental health impacts of the disaster. https://lccf.org/

NORTH CAROLINA DISASTER RELIEF

Samaritan’s Purse: The organization is mobilizing staff and equipment and enlisting volunteers to provide emergency aid out west. They often stay behind afterward to rebuild or restore houses for displaced families. https://www.samaritanspurse.org/article/pray-for-those-in-helenes-path/

American Red Cross: The American Red Cross is on the ground helping people who have been impacted in Western North Carolina. Visit their site to find a shelter or make a donation. You can also call 1-800-RED-CROSS (1-800-733-2767) or text “Helene” to 90999 to request assistance anytime.

https://www.redcross.org/local/north-carolina.html

North Carolina Disaster Relief Fund: Donations go to nonprofits working to meet the immediate needs of Hurricane Helene victims in the state, such as food and water, cleaning supplies and other emergency supplies. All donations will directly support disaster relief. Learn more about the fund.

MAUI FIRE RELIEF 

Maui United Way: Maui fire relief fund that will go directly to support Maui fire victims.

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The Salvation Army: Providing food and resources to those in need, The Salvation Army is accepting Maui donations on its Hawaiʻi site, hawaii.salvationarmy.org.

Hawaiʻi Red Cross: https://www.redcross.org/donate/to/donation-to3.html/?alloy_redirect=eyJ2IjoxLCJhZCI6IjU5NTg1MjowOjB8MCw1OTU4NTI6MDowfDIsNTk1ODUyOjA6MHwxIn0%3D

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Alisha Was Almost Not Remi's Maid of Honor!

Buckle up, besties, because this week’s Pretty Basic is pure chaos in the best way! We’re talking Grammy rule-breaking (oops, we LIED), Remi’s accidental flashing, and a surprise run-in that left Alisha shook. Plus, spicy book recs (we LOVE the smut), fantasy castings (Fourth Wing, anyone?), and a little DM sliding. Oh, and did Korean BBQ almost induce labor?! From birthday shenanigans to Sabrina Carpenter’s lowkey obsession with Remi—this episode is iconic behavior at its finest!

Alisha’s OOTD: 

House of CB Top: https://bit.ly/4gzFErJ

Urban Outfitters Skirt: https://bit.ly/3Qd8ByN (similar) 

Dolce Vita Cowboy Boot: https://bit.ly/4jQ2jTs

Remi’s OOTD: 

Norma Kamali Top: https://bit.ly/3EHK821

Outkast Skirt: https://bit.ly/4aTDcLj

Dolce Vita Black Suede Boot: regular https://bit.ly/42R8mkO wide calf https://bit.ly/4hSifmh

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Remi’s Wardrobe Malfunction + Alisha Sliding Into This Actor’s DMs

This week on Pretty Basic, Remi is joined by her wedding planner—and viral Tiktok sensation—Jason Rhee! They dive into the glitz and chaos of wedding planning, from wild industry secrets to the biggest “zilla” moments. Jason spills on his dream wedding, the craziest wedding fiascos he’s witnessed, and the surprising truth behind those sky-high venue prices. Plus, he dishes on the ultimate splurge-or-save guide, and how to make your big day truly unforgettable! Oh, and did we mention oysters and brain-eating amoebas? Buckle up—this one’s a ride!

Follow Jason Rhee: @jasonroars

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How to Plan a Wedding w/ Remi’s Celebrity Wedding Planner

Prepare yourself to hear about the ultimate Dubai experience! Alisha was flown out by Forbes for the World Governments (yes, that) Summit—rubbing elbows with icons like Nara Smith and indulging in the bold flavors of Arabian cuisine. Meanwhile, Remi is deep in Bachelorette Party planning mode (spoiler: jousting may or may not be involved?) and binging a new Netflix show—can you guess which one? Oh, and we are officially heading back to Asia—but this time, we’re not keeping it a secret! Moral of the story? Just say yes… within reason, of course. 😉✨

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Alisha Was Flown Out to Dubai…

In this juicy episode of Pretty Basic, we spill all the tea from Heath and Mariah’s unforgettable wedding weekend. From a wild mall rollercoaster ride to Remi discovering her new favorite food, we share every hilarious and chaotic moment—including the drama with our lost (and possibly stolen) cameras. Plus, Alisha dishes on her unexpected wedding hookup (oh, who could this be?) and the reason why Zane, Remi, Cal, and Alisha were screaming at the reception. Oh, and a PSA to all homeowners—clean your dryer vents before you almost set your house on fire like Remi!

Are you in the Southern California area? Come see us this Saturday, March 8 at The Farmers Market by The Grove at 11am for a live Q&A, limited Meet & Greet, and your opportunity to win cute merch, hosted by Barebells. 

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Alisha’s Wedding Hookup + Heath & Mariah’s Wedding Drama!!!

On this episode of Pretty Basic, Alisha and Remi dive into the world of situationships, exploring the low-level commitment and fantasy that often surrounds them. They discuss why we're more protective of others than ourselves, the importance of staying true to who we are, and how chasing the wrong person can lead to "dumb b*tchitis." Plus, Alisha steps into her lawyer mode, breaking down attachment styles and relationship red flags, with a special call from Cal for some wholesome man advice!

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Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.

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