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Get ready to unlock your full potential and become the ultimate champion of your life! The Coachable Podcast is your one-stop-shop for unparalleled personal and spiritual development. Join host Tori Gordon as she takes you on a journey of self-discovery through intimate conversations and inspiring stories from the world's most successful leaders in business, health, sports, science, and entertainment. Discover the tools, resources, and motivation you need to push beyond your limits and achieve greatness in every aspect of your life. Don't settle for mediocrity - tune in to The Coachable Podcast and unleash your inner champion today!

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In the second episode of our new mini-series for WomanIsHer, Tori Gordon and Avery Valentine delve into the world of personal liberation as they discuss their new program. This program aims to support women in reclaiming their feminine power, pleasure, and voice by embracing raw authenticity and sensuality. Throughout the conversation, Tori and Avery provide an exploration of tantric embodiment's transformative power and the importance of integrating one's darkness and light.

Together, they examine the societal and self-imposed limitations hindering women's personal growth, emphasizing the significance of embracing their true selves. Tori and Avery address topics such as the spiritual and sacred aspects of sex, the concept of sex as a ceremony, and the role of tantra in personal liberation. They also explore the idea of awakening to the truth and the possibility of achieving energetic orgasms through tantric practices.

By merging psychological and spiritual understanding, Avery presents a vision of personal liberation transcending societal norms and self-limiting beliefs. This inspiring conversation offers listeners a deeper alignment of heart and mind, providing valuable insights on embracing feminine power, pleasure, and voice as a catalyst for a life filled with depth, passion, and unbridled freedom.

Sign up for the WomanISHer Program!

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Avery Valentine is a dynamic force in the realm of personal liberation, celebrated for her unapologetic passion and boundless energy. As a fearless embodiment coach, facilitator, and educator, she dedicates herself to empowering individuals to break free from societal and self-imposed limitations. Creating transformative events and immersive experiences, Avery fosters profound connections, awakens sensuality, and fuels personal growth.

With a mission to inspire others to embrace their raw, authentic selves, Avery delves into the world of tantric embodiment, helping individuals uncover the intoxicating liberation that arises from integrating their darkness and light. Her work challenges, inspires, and transforms, guiding people towards a life teeming with depth, passion, and unbridled freedom.

Follow Avery on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/avery.maie

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0:00 Is Sex Spiritual?

3:00 Sex is Sacred

5:00 What is tantra?

8:15 Awakening to the truth

9:50 Can you make your life the ceremony?

12:55 Energetic Orgasms

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181. WOMANISHER MINI-SERIES - Normalizing the Taboo with Avery Valentine

Defining the “Good Girl” Archetype
The "good girl" archetype is a socially constructed identity that pressures women to conform to expectations of perfection, compliance, and selflessness. Rooted in patriarchal systems, this archetype encourages women to:

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Seek validation from others • (especially authority figures or men).

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Suppress their desires, emotions, and needs • to maintain harmony or avoid conflict.

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Prioritize caregiving and people-pleasing • over personal fulfillment.

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Avoid risks or "unladylike" behavior, • opting for safety and predictability over boldness and authenticity.

While society celebrates "good girls" for being polite, responsible, and agreeable, these traits often come at the expense of authenticity, empowerment, and joy.
How Society Conditions Women Into the "Good Girl" Archetype
Cultural Narratives
Familial Expectations
Religious and Moral Conditioning
Workplace Dynamics
Media and Social Conditioning
Deeper Exploration: The Consequences of the "Good Girl" Trap
Loss of Authenticity
Emotional Suppression
Sexual Shame
Fear of Failure and Judgment
Overwhelming Guilt

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**The Coachable Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachablepodcast/ Website: https://www.torigordon.com Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ToriGordon**

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182. Breaking Free from the “Good Girl” Trap

In the latest episode of the WomanIsHer mini-series, Tori Gordon and Avery Valentine engage in a captivating discussion about reclaiming desire and pleasure in the context of their new program. Their mission is to empower women to embrace their raw authenticity and sensuality, ultimately reclaiming their feminine power, pleasure, and voice. Throughout the episode, Tori and Avery emphasize the transformative power of understanding and embracing one's desires.

Together, they delve into the societal and self-imposed limitations that hinder women's personal growth, highlighting the significance of acknowledging and pursuing one's true desires. Tori and Avery address topics such as the importance of recognizing personal desires, understanding the connection between pleasure and empowerment, and the role of tantra in cultivating desire and pleasure.

By merging psychological and spiritual understanding, Avery presents a vision of personal liberation that transcends societal norms and self-limiting beliefs. This thought-provoking conversation offers listeners a deeper alignment of heart and mind, providing valuable insights on embracing desire and pleasure as a catalyst for a life filled with depth, passion, and unbridled freedom.

Sign up for the WomanISHer Program!

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Avery Valentine is a dynamic force in the realm of personal liberation, celebrated for her unapologetic passion and boundless energy. As a fearless embodiment coach, facilitator, and educator, she dedicates herself to empowering individuals to break free from societal and self-imposed limitations.

Follow Avery on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/avery.maie

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3:30 What Do I Really Want?

9:00 You Deserve What You Desire

11:30 How to Identify if You’re Disconnected from Your Desire

 • When is the last time you did something just because you wanted to?

 • Who taught you that desiring something was wrong?

25:00 The Power of Physical Touch

33:00 Cleaning up the Emotional Debris

42:00 You Deserve to Feel Good, Pleasure if Your Birthright

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The Coachable Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachablepodcast/ Website: https://www.torigordon.com Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ToriGordon

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183. What A Girl Wants: Reclaiming Desire + Pleasure

In the latest episode of the WomanIsHer mini-series, Tori Gordon and Avery Valentine delve into the importance of connecting to one's womb wisdom. They explore the concept of developing a deeper understanding and appreciation of the womb, encouraging women to embrace their raw authenticity and sensuality to reclaim their feminine power, pleasure, and voice.

Throughout the conversation, Tori and Avery discuss various aspects of womb connection, such as understanding the significance of connecting to the womb, addressing feelings of disconnection, and acknowledging the grief stemming from a lack of education surrounding this topic. They also touch on the importance of healing one's relationship with their menstrual cycle and the impact of not processing emotions.

By integrating psychological and spiritual understanding, Avery presents a vision of personal liberation transcending societal norms and self-limiting beliefs. This enlightening conversation offers listeners a deeper alignment of heart and mind, providing valuable insights on embracing seasons of the womb, the menstrual cycle, and womb connection as a catalyst for a life filled with depth, passion, and unbridled freedom.

Sign up for the WomanISHer Program!

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Avery Valentine is a dynamic force in the realm of personal liberation, celebrated for her unapologetic passion and boundless energy. As a fearless embodiment coach, facilitator, and educator, she dedicates herself to empowering individuals to break free from societal and self-imposed limitations.

Follow Avery on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/avery.maie

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1:45 What does connecting to your womb mean?

5:25 Feeling disconnected

10:00 Grief from lack of education

17:00 Healing your relationship with your bleed

27:40 Breath, Sound, Movement, Touch

38:00 Impact of not processing our emotions

44:00 Reclaiming your voice

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Sign up for the WomanISHer Program!

The Coachable Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachablepodcast/ 

Website: https://www.torigordon.com 

Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ToriGordon

Listen to all episodes on Audio: 

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4e62a5zpupdFpkErMiEimz?si=e7fb00845d874ac8 

Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-coachable-podcast/id1475408897

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184. Connecting to Your Womb Wisdom

In the newest episode of the WomanIsHer mini-series, Tori Gordon and Avery Valentine engage in a discussion surrounding the themes of motherhood, money, relationships, and the masculine. Their mission is to empower women to embrace their raw authenticity and sensuality while reclaiming their feminine power, pleasure, and voice.

Throughout the episode, Tori and Avery delve into the complexities of these interconnected topics, highlighting the significance of acknowledging and healing the wounded feminine. They discuss various aspects such as the influence of motherhood on personal identity, the role of money in shaping relationships, and the importance of fostering balance between masculine and feminine energies.

By merging psychological and spiritual understanding, Avery presents a vision of personal liberation transcending societal norms and self-limiting beliefs. This thought-provoking conversation offers listeners a deeper alignment of heart and mind, providing valuable insights on embracing the multifaceted nature of womanhood as a catalyst for a life filled with depth, passion, and unbridled freedom.

Sign up for the WomanISHer Program!

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Avery Valentine is a dynamic force in the realm of personal liberation, celebrated for her unapologetic passion and boundless energy. As a fearless embodiment coach, facilitator, and educator, she dedicates herself to empowering individuals to break free from societal and self-imposed limitations.

Follow Avery on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/avery.maie

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2:30 What does the mother wound look like?

7:15 Impact on personal identity

15:00 Navigating relationships and money

22:30 Embracing balance between masculine and feminine energies

30:00 Healing the wounded feminine

38:15 Reclaiming feminine power, pleasure, and voice

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Sign up for the WomanISHer Program!

The Coachable Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachablepodcast/ 

Website: https://www.torigordon.com 

Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ToriGordon

Listen to all episodes on Audio: 

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4e62a5zpupdFpkErMiEimz?si=e7fb00845d874ac8 

Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-coachable-podcast/id1475408897

Tori Gordon Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetorigordon/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thetorigordon?lang=en

 

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185. The Mother, Money, Men + The Masculine - Healing The Wounded Feminine

Watch as he opens up about overcoming childhood bullying, weighing 348 pounds, and finding his path to becoming one of social media's most beloved magicians.

In this raw and honest conversation, David reveals how he turned magic into both a shield and a bridge, using it to connect with others and eventually build a thriving career across multiple social platforms. From his early days as a child actor on Malcolm in the Middle to becoming a viral sensation, his story proves that passion and persistence can transform any dream into reality.

Get ready for mind-bending magic tricks, behind-the-scenes insights into the world of social media stardom, and powerful lessons about staying true to yourself no matter what life throws your way. David shares his secrets to building genuine connections online, protecting your energy, and creating content that truly resonates.

Don't miss this inspiring episode packed with laughter, vulnerability, and yes - plenty of magic! Perfect for aspiring creators, magic enthusiasts, or anyone looking to turn their passion into purpose. David's journey from bullied kid to social media magician shows that with authenticity and determination, anything is possible.

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Intro

00:42 - David’s Origin Story

06:10 - The Man Behind the Magic

09:10 - Is David the Same On and Off Camera

10:07 - Owning Your Energy

14:30 - How David Got Into Magic

16:48 - The Magic Crasher

19:28 - Magic Trick Performance

24:00 - Magic Shows in Las Vegas

25:30 - Observing Other Magicians

27:20 - Being a Role Model

30:40 - Starting on Social Media

33:18 - Importance of Consistency

37:14 - Future of Magic Crasher

42:30 - Final Magic Trick

43:43 - Magic Trick Tutorial

45:22 - OFTV Platform Insights

48:10 - Most Lucrative Platforms

50:11 - Being on PR Lists

52:46 - Relationships and Career Focus

56:51 - Legacy and Remembrance

58:30 - Outro

 

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186. From Bullied Kid to Social Media Magician: An Inspiring Journey with David Bonfadini

Your choices shape your life 🌟 Start now!

In this transformative episode of The Coachable Podcast, Tori Gordon sits down with Jared Smith, a sports broadcaster and longtime listener, to explore how small, intentional choices can lead to monumental shifts in your life. From personal growth to embracing authenticity, this conversation is packed with powerful insights and practical advice to help you unlock true freedom and step into your highest potential.

Jared shares his inspiring journey of overcoming adversity, finding clarity, and choosing a new path that aligns with his authentic self. Together, Tori and Jared discuss the importance of self-love, mindset shifts, and creating a life that feels as good as it looks. They reveal how embracing your truth, even when it's uncomfortable, can lead to personal liberation and lasting empowerment.

This episode isn’t just a conversation—it’s a call to action. Whether you’re navigating change, seeking clarity, or ready to transform your mindset, this is an episode you can’t afford to miss. Discover how your choices can be the gateway to a more fulfilling, purpose-driven life.

Take the first step toward embracing your authentic self and reshaping your life today. Share this episode with a friend, leave a review, and let us know what resonated with you. Remember—your life is yours to create, one choice at a time.

Don’t miss this inspiring journey of self-discovery and empowerment—hit play now!

#expandingperspectives #selfimprovement #embracingnewideas #spiritualgrowth #transformationaljourney

00:00 - Welcome Jared Smith

01:00 - How Did You Find Me

07:10 - Growing Up in New York

09:25 - Moving to Vegas: Did You Have a Plan?

13:44 - The Power of Choice in Life

17:05 - Embracing Voluntary Adversity

19:36 - Addiction to Change Results

25:53 - The Importance of Being Unreasonable

27:19 - Leaving It All on the Field

28:26 - How Health Affects Identity

29:50 - Dating Life in Vegas

33:56 - Discovering What You Want Through Experience

36:47 - Moving to San Diego for Love

41:00 - It’s Okay to Not Know What You Want

43:54 - Understanding Situationships

46:10 - The Impact of People Pleasing

49:19 - Exploring True Intimacy

52:40 - The Role of Accountability

56:37 - Letting the Good In

58:45 - How to Start Healing

1:00:30 - Finding the Right Partner

1:02:27 - Foundational Personal Development

1:05:50 - The Power of Intention

 

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187. How Discipline Unlocks True Freedom with Jared Smith

Dating can feel like navigating a whirlwind, but it all starts with courage, communication, and self-worth! 💕 In this episode, we tackle the unspoken challenges of modern dating, revealing transformative insights to help you unlock true freedom and embrace your authentic self. From personal stories to practical advice on setting boundaries, trusting your intuition, and fostering healthy connections, this conversation is packed with tools to shift your mindset and boost your confidence.

Discover why courage is the foundation of meaningful relationships, how clear communication builds trust, and why honoring your self-worth is the ultimate act of self-love. Whether you're seeking empowerment in your personal growth journey or looking to create deeper connections, this episode is your guide to leveling up your love life.

Don’t miss this impactful discussion—it’s full of heartfelt moments, unfiltered truths, and inspiring takeaways that will resonate deeply. Tune in now and start embracing the love and life you deserve!

#datingcourage #moderndating #highvaluewoman #datingrulesthatchangedmylife #datingapps

#selfimprovement #emotionalintelligence #highvaluewoman #moderndating #datingapps

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Dating Rumors Explained

03:48 - Tori's Dating Experience Insights

09:57 - Importance of Communication

14:07 - Future Goals and Values

17:06 - Settling vs. Relationship Preferences

19:51 - Partner Expectations and Desires

22:40 - Embracing Voluntary Adversity

23:59 - Overcoming Challenges for Growth

25:33 - The 3 C's: Avoidant Relationship Fears

31:27 - Significance of Your Second Ceremony

35:50 - Understanding the Last Ceremony

38:05 - Insights on Ceremony Experiences

40:40 - Navigating Fear of the Unknown

43:18 - Taking Risks in Dating

49:10 - Approaching Women Effectively

52:49 - Date Feedback Form Overview

53:45 - Closing Thoughts and Reflections

 

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188. How to Stop Settling and Lowering Your Standards in Dating with Jared Smith

Healing trust issues in relationships doesn't have to feel impossible. In this episode of the Coachable Podcast, I’m joined by Orlando Zuniga, a seasoned marriage and family therapist with over 13 years of experience, to explore how communication, attachment styles, and personal growth can unlock true relational freedom. Together, we unpack the root causes of trust issues, share practical advice, and offer actionable strategies for cultivating emotional safety and connection. 

Whether you're navigating past betrayals, working through power dynamics, or seeking to embrace your authentic self in relationships, this conversation is filled with transformative insights you don’t want to miss. Orlando also shares his personal journey of healing and self-love, offering a unique blend of professional expertise and lived experience to help you foster healthier, more empowering relationships. 

This is your opportunity to shift your mindset, embrace vulnerability, and step into a deeper understanding of yourself and your partner. Don’t miss this episode! Hit play now and let’s take the first step toward emotional liberation and secure connections. 

If this episode resonates with you, please share it with someone who needs it, tag us @thecoachablepodcast, and don’t forget to subscribe for more weekly content focused on empowerment, personal growth, and authenticity. Let’s grow together!

#selfimprovement #couplestherapy #codependency #fearfulavoidantattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle

#couplestherapy #selfimprovement #selfcompassion #personaldevelopment #emotionalintegration

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Intro

01:09 - Power Struggles in Relationships

02:37 - Orlando’s Relationship History

07:57 - Importance of Transparency in Relationships

11:32 - Healing Before Entering a Relationship

17:26 - Coping Strategies for Triggers

23:14 - Overview of Attachment Styles

25:21 - Gender Differences in Avoidance

28:14 - Men's Current Needs

35:14 - Supporting Men in Personal Growth

37:40 - Spiritual Partnership Explained

44:00 - Setting Standards in Relationships

46:15 - The Art of Apologizing

49:05 - Call Her Daddy Discussion

50:20 - Apologizing for Expressing Needs

52:30 - Awareness of Actions in Relationships

57:40 - Final Thoughts on Relationships

58:35 - Outro

 

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189. Healing Trust Issues in Relationships with Orlando Zuniga

🌟 Life After Loss: Healing Through the Hero’s Journey 🌟 Embark on a transformative journey of personal growth as we uncover the profound power of healing, resilience, and finding purpose after loss. This week, I sat down with Myles Grossman, whose story of navigating unimaginable tragedy and embracing his authentic self will inspire and empower you. Together, we explore the raw realities of grief, the courage to rebuild, and the mindset shifts necessary to unlock true freedom and personal liberation.

In this deeply moving conversation, Myles shares how confronting loss—including the passing of his sister and his mother’s health challenges—led him to redefine his life, explore spiritual healing, and live with greater intention. From using transformative insights gained through global travel and powerful healing modalities, to embracing the lessons of love and surrender, Myles offers practical advice for anyone seeking to overcome adversity and reconnect with their purpose.

This episode is a beacon of hope for those navigating life's most challenging moments. It's packed with actionable tools for empowerment, self-love, and embracing your highest self. If you're ready to embrace your authentic self and discover how to turn pain into purpose, this is a conversation you need to hear!

💬 What resonated most with you? Share in the comments below! Don't miss this episode—your journey to healing and transformation begins here. Hit play now and take the first step toward a life of freedom and empowerment.

#selfimprovement #collectivetrauma #healingdiaries #grief #findinghopeafterloss

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Myles Grossman

01:24 - How Miles and I Met

04:18 - The Beginning of Miles’s Journey

05:36 - The Diagnosis

08:15 - The Awakening Process

11:27 - Pre-Trip Activities

15:31 - Pre-Trip Activities

19:57 - Pre-Trip Activities

23:15 - Exploring Cambodia

24:50 - Fear vs. Love

27:30 - Finding Peace in Chaos

29:45 - Good People and Life's Challenges

31:27 - Fear vs. Love

32:40 - The Hard Return

34:43 - The Hero's Journey

37:00 - Initiations and Growth

39:30 - Coming Full Circle

41:43 - Life in Vegas

44:04 - New Version of Myself

45:57 - Zooming Out

49:24 - Metric of Success

52:54 - Rachel

57:18 - Share This with a Friend

 

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Healing After Loss and The Heroes Journey with Myles Grossman

In this episode I unpack my Hawaii trip experience and what it was like going on my first "woo woo" wellness retreat with Christine Hassler and Stefanos Sifandos. I talk all about my expectations, fears and judgements as well as my life-changing transformation. I wanted to bring you my personal experience to help show others that investing in yourself doesn't have to be scary and why it's always worth the risk. 

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