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Lindsey Metselaar

We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.

We Met At Acme

MEL ROBBINS HAS ENTERED THE BUILDING! I had an out of body experience interviewing Mel. She is everything I wanted her to be and more. Mel and I discuss her own relationship - how it started and how she makes it work, how to apply Let Them and the 5 second rule to modern dating, relationship lessons she’s learned the hard way, her favorite age of her kids, why she hates dating rules, and so much more.

Get More We Met At Acme!

Youtube: @wemetatacme

IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

Website: @wemetatacme

Chapters

02:23 The Importance of Communication in Relationships

07:14 Mel's Relationship Story: Meeting Christopher Robbins

43:08 Effective Communication in Relationships

43:26 The Importance of the First Call Parent

45:37 Applying the Five Second Rule to Dating Anxiety

53:00 The Let Them Theory and Personal Growth

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How We Should Handle Modern Dating ft. Mel Robbins

Lindsi Lane is on the podcast today! Lindsi is a fashion, motherhood, and beauty influencer. We discuss finding a partner in your 30s, weeding out the bad ones when dating, second child infertility, the “perfect time” to be a mom, and so much more.

Get More We Met At Acme!

Youtube: @wemetatacme

IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

Website: @wemetatacme

Chapters:

06:49 Family Planning and Pregnancy Challenges

23:33 The Struggles of Sharing Personal Journeys on Social Media

25:08 Balancing Privacy and Openness in Relationships

29:20 Navigating Motherhood and Family Dynamics

35:00 Rapid Fire Questions and Life Advice

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Love Is Better In Your 30s ft. Lindsi Lane

For part 2 of this series, I scoured TikTok for more dating advice. We discuss what makes the happiest relationships, why you should choose a partner like you choose a puppy, if they are avoidant or just not into you, why you have to want to be friends with your partner, and so much more. 

Get More We Met At Acme!

Youtube: @wemetatacme

IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

Website: @wemetatacme

Chapters

14:45 Current Priorities and Family Time

14:58 Accepting and Normalizing Feelings

15:07 Giving Yourself Grace

15:20 Embracing Seasonal Changes

Sponsors

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I Found The Best Dating Advice On TikTok So You Don’t Have To Part 2

Taylor Dome Lautner is a registered nurse, mental health advocate, and digital content creator. She hosts The Squeeze podcast with her husband Taylor Lautner. We discuss how to have better communication in your relationship, meeting her husband at a game night, therapy and the ways it’s healed Tay and also her communication, love languages, and so much more!

Get More We Met At Acme!

Youtube: @wemetatacme

IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

Website: @wemetatacme

Sponsors:

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If you're in the market for a beautiful new sofa, dining table or bed, head over to Article.com

Skylight is offering our listeners $20 off their 10inch frames by going to myskylight.com/ACME

Chapters:

02:06 Love Stories and Relationship Advice

22:04 The Benefits of Couples Therapy

23:58 Navigating Modern Dating

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It All Comes Down to Communication ft. Tay Lautner

I sit down with Andy and Katie Mant from Bon Charge and we discuss all things sleep and relationships. How important your sleep compatibility is, how couples can improve their bedroom energy, and what it’s like running a business with your significant other. They also share the sneaky changes we can make to change our sleep habits for the better. Better sleep, better relationships!

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Get More We Met At Acme!

Youtube: @wemetatacme

IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

Website: @wemetatacme

09:04 The Birth of BonCharge

25:53 DNA Testing and Sleep Insights

27:25 Human Connection and Modern Life

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Your Sleep Habits Are Hurting Your Love Life ft. Andy and Katie Mant

Nate Berkus joins us to talk about the beautiful intersection between love, design, and the spaces we call home. He shares the story of how he met his husband Jeremia, and opens up about what it really takes to maintain a healthy relationship. We dive into how someone’s personal taste can shape attraction, what your home might reveal about your dating style, and the subtle green and red flags you can spot just by stepping into someone’s apartment. Nate also offers his take on manifesting love through your space, how to intentionally “design” a relationship that lasts, and even the one design trend he’d happily see disappear forever.

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Sponsors:

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Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/acme

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Nate's Favorite Romantic Gesture

00:58 Meeting Jeremiah and Early Relationship

06:48 Navigating Long Distance and Family Life

20:30 Navigating Relationship Dynamics

24:02 Lessons from Oprah

26:04 Design Tips and Personal Insights

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Manifesting A Partner Into Your Space ft. Nate Berkus

Today’s solo is about the loneliness we feel throughout different stages of our lives. I talk about the post-college void, the mid 20s relationship and splinter era, and the post-baby or settled down loneliness. I also discuss rules for dating around the holidays, texting habits in the talking stage, and so much more!

Get More We Met At Acme!

Youtube: @wemetatacme

IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

Website: @wemetatacme

Sponsors:

Get 25% off your first month of Ritual at ritual.com/ACME

Start paying rent through Bilt and take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits by going to joinbilt.com/acme

Winx Health is now nationwide at Walgreens! Visit hellowinx.com/acme for 25% off.

Go to kachava.com and use code ACME for 15% off your next order.

Chapters:

02:46 Navigating Post-College Loneliness

13:49 Mid-Twenties Relationship Shifts

24:22 Settling Down and Parenthood

36:38 Dating and Holiday Rules

45:15 Texting Habits

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The Loneliness Between Life Stages

Married couple Mosheh Oinounou and Alex Sall join Lindsey on the podcast today to discuss breaking generational molds, conscious parenting, starting a relationship when you come from different fighting styles, how to be patient with a new partner, not “bringing the news home,” and so much more. Mosheh is the creator and founder of the Mo News network, https://www.mo.news/, which you should absolutely check out if you haven’t already!

Get More We Met At Acme!

Youtube: @wemetatacme

IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

Website: @wemetatacme

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:09 The Last Name Dilemma

03:34 Romantic Gestures and Love Languages

33:29 Starting a Family: Preconception and Fertility Journey

37:40 Parenting Challenges and Joys

42:07 Dating Rules and Relationship Insights

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The Work That Makes Love Work ft. Mosheh Oinounou and Alex Sall

I sit down with the internet’s favorite guy in his car, Davide De Pierro. We discuss what is wrong with the current state of dating right now, why more religious couples stay together, how honest we should be during the dating process, why he’s not on the apps, what he wishes he knew in his 20s, what he is looking for when dating now, and so much more.

Get More We Met At Acme!

Youtube: @wemetatacme

IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

Website: @wemetatacme

Sponsors:

Head to coterie.com and use code ACME20 at checkout for 20% off your first order.

Give yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince! Go to quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.

Start paying rent through Bilt and take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits by going to joinbilt.com/acme

Winx Health is now nationwide at Walgreens! Visit hellowinx.com/acme for 25% off.

Chapters:

06:17 Journey into Social Media and Dating Insights

30:45 Setting Boundaries in Relationships

33:09 The Future of Dating

36:21 Challenging Romantic Beliefs

43:30 Navigating Modern Dating

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What Everyone Hates About Dating Right Now ft. Davide De Pierro

In today’s solo episode, I’m talking all about the difference between a boyfriend and a husband. I also discuss if we are all having enough sex. 

Get More We Met At Acme!

Youtube: @wemetatacme

IG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbaby

Substack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbaby

Website: @wemetatacme

Sponsors:

Head to coterie.com and use code ACME20 at checkout for 20% off your first order.

Start your love story on Bumble. #bumblepartner

Use code ACME at monarchmoney.com for 50% off your first year.

Simplify your kids' mealtimes. Go to: littlespoon.com/ACME and enter our code ACME at checkout to get 50% OFF your first Little Spoon order.

Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/acme

Chapters:

00:30 Celebrating Eight Years of We Met at Acme

01:32 Boyfriend vs. Husband: Key Differences

04:25 Real-Life Examples and Anecdotes

07:47 Listener Insights and TikTok Discussion

19:54 Are We Having Enough Sex?

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The Difference Between A Boyfriend And A Husband

In this episode, Joe and I talk about being a 51 year old bachelor, getting away with things because of your looks, using your phone on dates, shrooms, sex on a first date, and so much more! 

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Being A Bachelor at 51, Why It's Not Ok To Use Your Phone On Dates, and Shrooms ft. Joe from Nadkins

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