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Ashley Gavin & Studio71

After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is.
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We're Having Gay Sex

This episode is an egocentric one, listener! Fan-favorite Georgia Bridgers is an actor, content creator, hot gay jester, and dear friend of the WHGS podcast, but today she’s finally joining us LIVE IN THE APARTMENT to get frisky with she, herself, and hers! We discuss touching yourself to the thought of yourself, having Tourette syndrome, and the ultimate pain of hitting your head while cleaning up after cats. Ashley burns her cooch. Maddie has butt cysts. 

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Georgia Bridgers Takes Self-Love Too Far | WHGS Ep. 250

This episode is a philosophical one, listener! Abigail Thorn (House of the Dragon, The Acolyte) is an actor, writer, and content creator that dives deep into ideas on “Philosophy Tube,” but today she’s phoning into the apartment to dive deep inside YOU! We discuss sexuality crises after good dates, the challenges of being a transgender actor, transphobia and freedom of expression in the UK, and getting banned from dating apps for being yourself. Ashley hits the red light district. Maddie unravels gender. 

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And you can watch Abigail’s film, “Dracula’s Ex-Girlfriend,” on Nebula: https://nebula.tv/videos/dex-film 

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Abigail Thorn Has a (S)existential Crisis | WHGS Ep. 251

This episode is for the bros, listener! Snow The Product is an incredible rapper, singer, and podcaster whose music has topped charts and gained millions of views, but today she’s in the apartment to get some views on your BODY! We discuss coming out late in life after having children with a man, being a woman in a male-dominated field, abstaining from sex when visiting in-laws, and how you should definitely NOT surround yourself with employees that are ugly. Ashley can’t find the boob. Kylie has a sugar daddy. 

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Snow Tha Product Will Do Bromance | WHGS Ep. 252

This episode is REMASTERED, listener! For a holiday special, we decided to highlight a classic from our early, audio-only podcast catalog, complete with remastered audio and exclusive video that was only on the Patreon! 

Breanne Williamson dishes on her favorite dirty talk and sexting techniques, and re-tells the story of how she met her girlfriend of 5 years. We also get into the perks of being in an "opposite hand" lesbian relationship. Ashley has phone sex and gets vulnerable. Gabriel goes too hard with baby talk and accidentally cancels himself.

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Breanne Williamson is Quick Switch Bre (REMASTER) | WHGS Ep. 253

This episode is REMASTERED, listener! For a holiday special, we decided to highlight another classic from our early, audio-only podcast catalog, complete with remastered audio and exclusive video that was only on the Patreon! 

It's our kinkiest episode yet with Mr. Kristofer and Pup Amp from the "Watts The Safe Word" podcast! We talk about puppy play, polyamory, butt plugs, and all things daddy. Ashley gets called daddy for the first time. Gabriel calls someone daddy for the first time.

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First Time Daddy w/ Watts the Safe Word (REMASTER) | WHGS Ep. 254

This episode is scandalous, listener! Our dear co-host and Canadian compatriot Breanne Williamson has RETURNED to the apartment from her mental health break, but today she’s in the apartment to break your BACK! We have a big catch up this week and discuss Bre’s sabbatical, lesbians in Florida, encountering vehement homophobes in the wild, and how Bre has been hiding a secret weapon: massive boobs. Even crazier, Ashley finally confronts “The Bachelor” cast member that dated her girlfriend and blocked her, and she may have gotten blacklisted by the entire franchise in the process.

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The Entire Cast of “The Bachelor” Hates Me… w/ Breanne Williamson | WHGS Ep. 255

This episode is genderless and asexual, listener! Irene Tu is a side-splitting comedian, writer, WHGS regular, and self-prescribed “nun” who never has sex, but today she’s in the apartment to spurn ace identity regardless. We go DEEP on philosophy this episode as we discuss rejecting both gendered AND genderless labels, reconciling how you perceive yourself vs. how people perceive you, and how the only thing stopping Irene from being asexual is that they’re dorks. Ashley bushwhacks a pubic forest. Maddie seeks the moon.

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Irene Tu DENIES Non-Binary Identity | WHGS Ep. 256

This episode will give you the ICK, listener! Lizzy Cassidy (Don’t Tell, Cracked) is a hilarious stand-up comedian, podcaster, and Maddie’s best friend/comedic equal, but today she’s in the apartment for some queer sex therapy after a date that RUINED IT ALL. We discuss cringe-inducing dates with non-binary people, addiction, replacing drugs with sex and love after going sober, and how Lizzy needs to embrace her true identity that she’s been shoving down: goth. Ashley gets gay in Thailand. Maddie investigates the link between neurodivergence and being queer.

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Lizzy Cassidy Unlocks the Most Vile Queer Ick | WHGS Ep. 257

This episode will touch you (literally), listener! Akeem Woods (The Late Late Show) is a sensational stand-up comedian, writer, and fan-favorite at Ashley’s weekly show, but today he’s in the apartment because he’s the favorite fan of most adult stars! We discuss hooking up with adult film stars on the regular, the nuances of strapping your partner, and how crazy it is that there are people who have probably and literally whacked off to this podcast. Ashley is the 5th wheel. Maddie starts GLP-1s.

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Akeem Woods Easily Attracts Porn Stars | WHGS Ep. 258

This episode is informative, listener! We switch up our typical format for a dedicated interview of Madam Tara Adkins, the manager of Nevada’s first legally licensed brothel — Mustang Ranch. We get into the nitty-gritty of everything you’ve ever wanted to know about organized sex work: how the business operates, how it does so safely, the life of courtesans, and the outrageous stories of the patrons who seek them out. This episode has it all: elderly lesbians using the brothel to explore polyamory, war veterans using it as a form of sex therapy, and even parents taking their children to lose their v-card. You won’t want to miss this! 
 
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Interviewing the Manager of a Legal Brothel (w/ Madam Tara) | WHGS Ep. 259

Alysia Brown (Tampon Rock Podcast) cancels Ashley on the podcast today, but also dives into the nitty gritty of her own sl*t phase. We get into not knowing your type, loving a "will they / won't they / push and pull", and whether or not having an all black cat makes you an ally. Ashley tries out some BDSM stuff. Someone had sex in Kate's house.
Alysia can be found @alysia.brown on ig, alysiabr0wn on twitter, and Iamalybrown on Spotify. Her podcast Tampon Rock can be found anywhere you listen to podcasts!

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