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I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.

I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

In this episode, Jay talks about a side of gratitude we rarely acknowledge, the kind that isn’t shiny or uplifting, but the kind that helps when life feels heavy, complicated, or far from what you expected. He explains how, for years, he treated gratitude like something meant to fix pain or override his feelings, and how that mindset only added pressure instead of bringing any real peace.
 
Jay talks about what real gratitude actually feels like, not the kind that tries to cancel out your struggles, but the kind that can sit beside them. He shares how acknowledging both things at once, what hurts and what’s still good, builds real resilience. Jay breaks down why phrases like “at least…” shut your feelings down, while using “even though…” or “and…” keeps you present with your emotions instead of pushing them away.
 
Jay also shares the small, practical habits that help him reconnect with gratitude when it feels far away: paying attention to what stayed instead of what disappeared, taking 10-second pauses to notice something good in the moment, borrowing someone else’s joy when you can’t access your own, and writing a thank-you note to the version of you who got through the harder seasons.
 
Jay reminds us that gratitude isn’t supposed to hide what’s hard, it’s meant to help you steady yourself. It’s the quiet admission: “Life is messy, and there’s still something I can hold onto.”
 
In this episode, you’ll learn: 
 
How to Stop Using Gratitude to Mask Your Feelings
 
How to Hold Pain and Gratitude Together
 
How to Notice What Stayed, Not What Left
 
How to Use 10-Second Pauses to Reset
 
How to Borrow Gratitude When You Can’t Feel It
 
How to Thank the You Who Survived 
 
You’re not doing gratitude wrong, you’re just learning to do it honestly. Keep showing up with awareness, gentleness, and patience. You’re not rebuilding from zero, you’re rebuilding from experience.
 
With Love and Gratitude,
 
Jay Shetty.
 
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What We Discuss:
 
00:00 Intro
 
01:00 How to Practice Gratitude 
 
02:39 Gratitude Without Hiding Your Emotions
 
06:46 Don’t Use Gratitude As Your Escape 
 
09:17 Focus On What You Still Have
 
11:11 Finding Gratitude in the Gaps
 
14:43 Gratitude Reset: Take A 10 Second Pause
 
18:26 The Art Of Borrowing Gratitude
 
21:15 Stay Thankful To Your Past Self

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8 Simple Mindset Shifts to Feel Gratitude Even When Your Life Isn’t Where You Want it To Be

Reaching 5 million subscribers is more than a milestone, it’s a testament to the shared journey of growth, healing, and curiosity this community has built together. In this special episode, Jay revisits the conversations that shaped On Purpose, moments where global icons, artists, world leaders, and visionaries shared the truths that made them human.
 
Jay reflects on the life-changing conversations that continue to echo long after the recording ends. Tom Holland opens up about the quiet struggle behind giving up alcohol, teaching us that letting go of what no longer serves us is an act of bravery not loss. Kobe shares how to look past fear by facing it with stillness and curiosity, revealing that discipline and consistency are the real foundations of excellence. Emma Watson invites us to build relationships from wholeness, not need, and reminds us that asking the hard questions can lead to the most liberating truths.
 
Madonna shows how spirituality can be the grounding force beneath ambition, while Benny Blanco and Selena Gomez model how relationships grow when honesty becomes a shared practice. Former President Joe Biden closes with a timeless lesson, that presence is often the greatest form of love, and that resilience is born through community.
 
In this episode, you'll learn:
 
How to Break Free From Addictive Habits
 
How to Build Discipline Through Consistency
 
How to Face Fear by Unpacking It
 
How to Ask the Hard Questions That Can Change Your Life
 
How to Ground Yourself With Spiritual Practices
 
How to Communicate Maturely in Relationships
 
How to Support Someone Through Grief
 
How to Replace Old Patterns With Healthier Alternatives
 
You are allowed to evolve, to outgrow old versions of yourself, and to step into a life that feels more aligned, more peaceful, and more true. Keep leaning toward the choices that bring you closer to who you want to be. Your next chapter is already waiting, and you are more than ready for it. 
 
With Love and Gratitude,
 
Jay Shetty.
 
Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here.
 
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What We Discuss:
 
00:00 Intro
 
01:31 The Challenges of Sobriety 
 
06:49 Practical Steps to Stay Committed to Sobriety
 
11:23 How Alcohol Quietly Impacts Your Well-Being
 
16:59 How to Stop Letting Emotions Run Your Life
 
19:26 Growth Requires Trial and Error
 
21:03 Why Greatness Is Never an Accident
 
23:28 Understanding the Difference Between Wanting and Needing
 
26:32 The Power of Asking Yourself Hard Questions
 
30:08 Why Lifelong Learning Keeps You Grounded
 
37:29 How Spirituality and Success Work Together
 
41:45 Setting Healthy Boundaries in Relationships
 
44:09 Using Past Relationships to Build a Better You
 
48:03 How to Show Your Partner You’re Truly Present
 
53:37 Practicing Compassion in Every Day 
 
54:37 Finding Strength Through Loss and Grief
 
56:41 How to Be Fully Present in Your Child’s Life

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I Reached a Major Milestone! 8 Life-Changing Lessons I’ve Learned From Incredible Guests Along the Way

What do you need from a partner that you haven’t been getting?
 
How can someone show up for you in a way that meets that need?
 
Today, Jay sits down with renowned divorce attorney and author James Sexton for a conversation that redefines what it means to love and be loved. With over twenty-five years spent guiding couples through heartbreak and separation, James has witnessed both the beauty and the brutality of human connection. Together, he and Jay explore the paradox of marriage: how something that begins with so much hope can unravel through silence, misunderstanding, and unmet needs. James shares that the greatest threat to relationships isn’t cheating or money, it’s disconnection: the slow fading of curiosity, gratitude, and presence that turns partners into strangers.
 
Jay and James invite listeners to look past the fairytale version of romance and into the real work of partnership. They talk about how we’re taught to plan weddings rather than marriages, and why the most meaningful moments come from small, steady acts of care, not grand romantic gestures. Whether it’s remembering to replace a partner’s favorite granola or reaching for their hand without being asked, James shows that a strong marriage isn’t about avoiding conflict, but about staying close even in the uncomfortable moments. He reminds us that love isn't for the faint of heart. It’s an act of courage, one that asks for honesty, vulnerability, and the discipline to keep showing up, especially when it’s hardest.
 
The conversation becomes less about divorce and more about what love is really made of. Jay and James uncover how relationships can serve as mirrors, revealing our insecurities, our longing to be seen, and our deepest fears of unworthiness. They remind us that to truly love another person, we must also learn to love ourselves, flaws, imperfections, and all.
 
In this interview, you'll learn:
 
How to Stay Connected in Love
 
How to Keep the Spark Alive in Marriage
 
How to Recognize When Disconnection Begins
 
How to Argue Without Breaking the Bond
 
How to Rebuild Trust After Betrayal
 
How to Talk About Difficult Topics with Compassion
 
How to Choose Courage Over Comfort in Relationships
 
Whether you’re married, single, healing, or starting over, this episode is a masterclass in emotional intelligence, offering timeless wisdom on how to nurture connection, protect what matters, and find courage in the vulnerability that love demands. 
 
With Love and Gratitude,
 
Jay Shetty
 
Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here. 
 
Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast 
 
What We Discuss:
 
00:00 Intro
 
00:29 The Real Reasons Marriages Fall Apart
 
02:39 Why Do We Still Get Married?
 
04:40 The Truth About the Wedding Industry
 
08:54 What Divorce Really Looks Like
 
13:16 The Hard Conversations Bring You Closer
 
15:44 What is the True Cause of Divorce?
 
22:48 The Power of Small Gestures in Love
 
28:52 Simple Ways to Appreciate Your Partner
 
32:09 How We Repeat Our Parents’ Patterns
 
38:41 Navigating Love After Having a Child
 
42:55 How to Reconnect with What Brought You Together
 
46:17 Why Does Asking For Love Feel Needy?
 
50:10 Designing the Ideal Contract for Modern Love
 
57:55 Understanding the Connection Between Desire and Disconnection
 
01:01:13 Commitment vs. Passion
 
01:07:07 How to Begin the Conversations You’ve Been Avoiding
 
01:11:47 The Lies We Tell Ourselves in Love
 
01:16:05 Should You Get a Prenup?
 
01:22:26 How to Bring Up The Prenup
 
01:29:45 Talk Through Your Anger, Don’t Act On It 
 
01:31:18 Using Love As a Weapon
 
01:36:17 Should You Fight for It or Let Go?
 
01:42:59 How Parental Conflict Affects Children
 
01:48:59 Be the Calm Your Child Needs
 
01:59:09 The Real Problems Marriage Can’t Solve
 
02:02:52 Who Files For Divorce More: Men or Women?
 
02:07:46 How Divorce Impacts Men and Women Differently
 
02:13:39 James on Final Five
 
Episode Resources:
 
James Sexton | Website
 
James Sexton | Instagram
 
James Sexton | TikTok
 
James Sexton | LinkedIn
 
James Sexton | X
 
How to Stay in Love: A Divorce Lawyer's Guide to Staying Together

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Divorce Lawyer James Sexton: #1 Conversation Every Couple Should Have Before it’s Too Late (Use THIS 3-Step Script TODAY!)

In this fun and unfiltered episode, Jay and Radhi dive into the world of “icks,” those oddly specific little turn-offs that make us cringe for reasons we can’t quite explain. From baby voices and socks with sandals to the blurry line between confidence and cockiness, they laugh their way through the most random dating deal-breakers and what they secretly reveal about us. Amid the jokes, they slip in a few truth bombs too, like how we sometimes use icks to avoid real vulnerability. It’s light, hilarious, and uncomfortably relatable, because honestly, we’ve all had an ick… and we’ve definitely been someone else’s.
 
In this episode, you'll learn:
 
How to Tell the Difference Between an Ick and a Red Flag
 
How to Communicate Honestly About What Bothers You
 
How to Recognize When You’re Using an Ick as an Excuse
 
How to Appreciate Imperfections in the People You Love
 
It’s easy to get caught up in small things that bother us, but true connection isn’t built on perfection, it’s built on patience, humor, and understanding. Everyone has quirks, and sometimes those quirks are what make relationships real.
 
With Love and Gratitude,
 
Jay Shetty
 
What We Discuss:
 
00:00 Intro
 
00:19 What is an Ick?
 
03:07 The Funniest Icks
 
05:21 How Seriously Should People Take Icks?
 
09:39 Can You Get Over an Ick?
 
12:55 Personal Hygiene is Important
 
14:26 Arrogance Versus Confidence
 
15:40 Childishness and Immaturity 
 
17:25 Is It Just Poor Communication?
 
21:43 Top 5 Icks Men have About Women
 
23:38 The Guy with a List (@wyszkay)
 
Episode Resources:
 
Radhi Devlukia | Website
 
Radhi Devlukia | YouTube
 
Radhi Devlukia | Instagram
 
Radhi Devlukia | Facebook
 
Radhi Devlukia | TikTok
 
Joyfull
 
A Really Good Cry

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Jay & Radhi Talk About Icks vs. Red Flags (How to ACTUALLY Know the Difference)

What’s one thing you wish you learned earlier in life?
 
What do you think would’ve changed for you if you learned it sooner?
 
Today, Jay reflects on the lessons he wishes he’d learned in his twenties and thirties, wisdom shaped by mistakes, growth, and years of inner work. He opens up about how easy it is to get swept up in chasing outcomes or living for other people’s expectations, and how those patterns can quietly pull us away from our true path. Jay also explains why success and happiness are completely different skill sets, and how understanding that early on can save you years of unnecessary frustration.
 
Jay also talks honestly about what healing really feels like, the side no one prepares you for. He explains that growth doesn’t always look inspiring; sometimes it shows up as exhaustion, confusion, or feeling like everything is falling apart. But that discomfort is often just old patterns breaking down so new ones can take shape. Through empathy, personal stories, and practical insights, Jay walks us through the “decade of firsts,” from first jobs to first heartbreaks, and reminds us that feeling lost isn’t failure. It’s a natural part of becoming someone stronger, clearer, and more aligned with who you’re meant to be.
 
In this episode, you'll learn:
 
How to Hear Your Inner Voice Again
 
How to Define Success on Your Own Terms
 
How to Build Confidence Through Self-Trust
 
How to Turn Rejection Into Insight
 
How to Break Free From Others’ Expectations
 
How to Heal Even When It Feels Messy
 
You’re not behind, you’re growing at the pace your life is asking you to grow. Keep showing up with curiosity, patience, and compassion for yourself. You’re building something meaningful, even on the days it doesn’t feel like it.
 
With Love and Gratitude,
 
Jay Shetty
 
Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here.
 
What We Discuss:
 
00:00 Intro
 
00:42 #1: Results Are Overrated
 
04:54 #2: Tune Out The Noise
 
07:44 #3: Success Doesn’t Equal Happiness
 
10:30 #4: Confidence Comes From Self-Trust
 
12:47 Four Habits That Will Transform Your Life
 
14:10 #5: Rejection Isn’t Personal
 
17:20 How to Handle Rejection Better
 
22:32 Four Signs You’re Healing
 
24:51 Confusion in Your 20s Isn’t Failure
 
25:29 How to Protect Your Peace
 
26:07 #6: Anchor to Values, Not Validation

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6 Lessons I Wish I Knew in My 20’s & 30’s (This Will INSTANTLY Give You Direction!)

What’s one habit that’s helped you succeed lately?
 
What made you decide to stick with that habit?
 
In this special live conversation, at The Theater at Bill Graham Civic Auditorium in San Francisco, Jay sits down with entrepreneur and industry leader Emma Grede for a conversation every builder, creator, and business-minded thinker needs to hear. Together, Jay and Emma unpack a challenge that holds so many talented people back, caring too much about what others think. Emma shares the early moments in her career when she stayed quiet in rooms where she deserved to speak, the times she underestimated her own value, and the double standards she had to navigate as a woman in business. This episode is a powerful reminder that confidence isn’t something you wait to feel, it’s something you build through action, decision-making, and showing up for the opportunities in front of you.
 
As the conversation deepens, Emma shares the mindsets that shaped her path, from a kid obsessed with fashion magazines to a visionary leader with a global reach. She breaks down why excellence starts with showing up fully in whatever role you’re in, how competence is the foundation of real confidence, and why chasing “passion” isn’t always the most strategic move. Jay adds powerful reflections on focus, leaning into your strengths, and accepting that you don’t need to be great at everything to succeed. This is an honest and refreshing look at what it really takes to trust yourself, take bigger swings, and grow into the person you’re meant to be.
 
In this interview, you'll learn:
 
How to Stop Caring What Others Think
 
How to Build Confidence Through Competence
 
How to Use Fear as Fuel, Not a Setback
 
How to Become Excellent at What You’re Doing Now
 
How to Set Your Own Standards, Not Society’s
 
How to Start Before You Have It All Figured Out
 
You don’t have to wait until you feel fully ready, fully confident, or fully “enough.” Start where you are, use what you have, and trust that focus, effort, and self-belief will do more for your future than fear ever will. 
 
With Love and Gratitude,
 
Jay Shetty
 
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Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast 
 
What We Discuss:
 
00:00 Intro
 
00:44 Why Do We Worry About Others’ Opinions?
 
02:12 Opportunities Lost to Comparison
 
04:09 The Double Standards for Women in Business
 
07:19 Why You Must Start With Yourself
 
09:57 The Three-Word Mantra for Career Growth
 
11:58 Visualize the Life You Want
 
14:27 Follow What Gives You Energy
 
16:47 How Competence Builds Real Confidence
 
18:23 What’s Actually Distracting Us From True Focus?
 
20:52 Build a Circle That Complements Your Strengths
 
24:46 Teaching Kids to Chase Their Own Dreams
 
28:38 Defining Your Life’s Non-Negotiables
 
32:25 How to Choose What Truly Matters
 
37:46 Owning Your Truth Creates New Opportunities
 
40:59 Start Small: Scale Down and Test Your Idea
 
Episode Resources:
 
Emma Grede | Website
 
Emma Grede | Instagram
 
Emma Grede | Facebook
 
Emma Grede | LinkedIn
 
Emma Grede | TikTok
 
Emma Grede | YouTube
 
Good American

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Emma Grede: #1 Trick Successful People Use Every Day (THIS Will Open Doors You Didn’t Know Existed!)

Today, Jay sits down with Kris Jenner for a raw and candid conversation about her roots, family, and the incredible lessons she’s learned. Kris was raised by her mother and grandmother, two driven and hardworking women who modeled independence, discipline, and purpose. She shares how those early lessons in responsibility and perseverance laid the foundation for the life she would later build, both as a businesswoman and as the matriarch of a global family brand.
 
Throughout their conversation, Kris speaks about her devotion to family, her faith, and her unshakable sense of gratitude. She reflects on the importance of being present in a fast-paced world that often glorifies busyness and distraction. Jay and Kris explore what it means to slow down and truly feel present in each moment, to look beyond the screens, the schedules, and the noise, and to rediscover joy in the simple things.
 
Kris opens up about motherhood and the unique bond she shares with each of her six children, how she worked intentionally to raise them with structure, compassion, and drive while fostering unity instead of competition. She talks about her daily prayers for guidance and peace, finding meaning even in moments of hardship, and choosing to lead with love, even when met with misunderstanding or pain.
 
In this interview, you'll learn:
 
How to Lead with Gratitude Every Day
 
How to Raise Ambitious but Grounded Kids
 
How to Slow Down and Be Fully Present
 
How to Build a Family Rooted in Love, Not Competition
 
How to Balance Success with Inner Peace
 
How to Protect Your Peace in a Noisy World
 
Life has a way of reminding us that true success isn’t measured by status or possessions, it’s found in the quiet moments of gratitude, in the love we give, and in the peace we choose to protect. Each challenge we face holds a lesson, each chapter an invitation to grow with grace and faith. 
 
With Love and Gratitude,
 
Jay Shetty
 
Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here. 
 
Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast 
 
What We Discuss:
 
00:00 Intro
 
01:15 Welcome Kris Jenner
 
02:38 Growing Up with Strong Women
 
08:49 Doing Your Best in Every Role
 
11:24 Family Traditions and Christmas Joy
 
12:51 Lessons from Humble Beginnings
 
16:24 The Power of Slowing Down
 
20:42 The Trap of Instant Gratification
 
24:19 Embracing Life at 70
 
26:47 Raising Passionate, Independent Children
 
32:37 Timeless Parenting Lessons
 
35:10 Learn to Forgive Those Who Hurt You
 
40:25 Mental Health Has Become a Silent Pandemic
 
44:38 Are You a Disney Fan?
 
45:36 How Do You Forgive Someone Who Hurt You?
 
50:44 Finding Peace Through Prayer
 
53:01 Finding Growth in Every Challenge
 
54:28 The “Rule of 12” for Letting Go
 
58:48 Protecting Your Inner Peace 
 
01:00:35 Respecting Time and Commitment
 
01:01:48 Showing Up Fully as a Parent
 
01:04:52 Starting Over After Motherhood
 
01:07:41 Making Sure No One’s Left Behind
 
01:08:16 What Motherhood Has Taught Me
 
01:13:42 Healing from Miscarriage and Loss
 
01:15:41 Compassion for Those Facing Infertility
 
01:17:43 Leading with Love and Kindness
 
01:19:26 Choosing Where to Invest Your Energy
 
01:20:27 Seeing Yourself Through Others’ Eyes
 
01:22:16 Kris on Final Five
 
Episode Resources:
 
Kris Jenner | TikTok
 
Kris Jenner | Instagram
 
Kris Jenner | Facebook
 
Kris Jenner | X

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KRIS JENNER: The Untold Story of Family, Love, and Forgiveness

Today, Jay and Radhi explore the delicate balance between sharing and oversharing, both online and in everyday life. They talk about what it really means to be authentic, how to protect your energy when opening up, and why not every moment needs to be shared to be meaningful. Together, they reflect on the intention behind vulnerability and the peace that comes from keeping certain parts of life sacred. How much do we share to feel seen? And when does sharing start to take more than it gives? This conversation invites us to slow down, listen to ourselves, and choose connection over performance.
 
In this episode, you'll learn:
 
How to Protect Your Energy When Sharing
 
How to Be Vulnerable with Intention
 
How to Keep Private Goals Sacred
 
How to Find the Right People to Confide In
 
How to Balance Openness with Privacy
 
True connection begins when we honor what feels right to keep close and what feels right to release. Whether through words, art, or quiet reflection, choose to share from a place of peace, not pressure.
 
With Love and Gratitude,
 
Jay Shetty
 
What We Discuss:
 
00:00 Intro
 
01:01 Are You Sharing Too Much?
 
04:07 The Real Reason Behind Your Vulnerability
 
09:21 Create in Private Before You Share Publicly
 
13:45 Oversharing Looks Different on Every Platform
 
16:01 Be Intentional About What You Share and With Whom
 
18:24 Does Holding Back Make You Feel Alone?
 
23:52 Why We Make Big Judgments from Small Details
 
26:51 When Sharing Becomes Healing, Not Draining
 
32:06 Choosing Who Deserves to Hear Your Story
 
Episode Resources:
 
Radhi Devlukia | Website
 
Radhi Devlukia | YouTube
 
Radhi Devlukia | Instagram
 
Radhi Devlukia | Facebook
 
Radhi Devlukia | TikTok
 
Joyfull
 
A Really Good Cry

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Jay & Radhi Talk About Why People Feel the Need to Overshare

What truth about the relationship have you been ignoring?
 
What makes that truth hard for you to accept?
 
Today, Jay opens up about one of the hardest things we go through, trying to get over someone we once loved. He reminds us that healing isn’t about pretending we’re okay or trying to move on too quickly. It’s about realizing that what we often miss isn’t the person themselves, but how we felt when we were with them: seen, loved, and alive. Jay gently walks us through why breakups hurt so deeply, how our minds are built for connection, and why finding closure really starts with reconnecting to ourselves.
 
Jay also shares how to stop replaying the past and start finding your rhythm again. He reminds us that healing isn’t about erasing the love, it’s about learning from it. You don’t need to have it all figured out today, you just need to take one small step back toward yourself. Because the real journey after a breakup isn’t about getting over someone else, it’s about remembering who you were before them, and discovering who you’re becoming next.
 
In this episode, you'll learn:
 
How to Stop Romanticizing the Past
 
How to Let Go When You Still Miss Them
 
How to Rebuild Your Life After a Breakup
 
How to Move On Without Losing Yourself
 
How to Remember You Were Enough All Along
 
You are not broken for still feeling; you are human for still caring. One day, the memories that hurt will simply remind you of how far you’ve come. Keep showing up for yourself, because the love you’re searching for begins with you.
 
With Love and Gratitude,
 
Jay Shetty
 
Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here.
 
Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast 
 
What We Discuss:
 
00:00 Intro
 
00:53 The Heartbreak After the Breakup
 
01:24 What to Do When You Can't Get Over Your Ex
 
05:07 Why Do Breakups Hurt So Bad?
 
07:52 The Stories You Replay Are Keeping You Stuck
 
08:39 Myth #1: Time Doesn’t Heal Everything
 
10:16 Myth #2: Why Closure Isn’t the Answer
 
13:12 Myth #3: Moving On Doesn’t Mean You Didn’t Care
 
15:12 Myth #4: Why Getting Back Together Won’t Fix It
 
17:26 Step #1: The First Step to Real Healing
 
19:12 Step #2: It’s Okay Not to Be Okay!
 
20:05 Step #3: Rebuild the Rituals That Ground You
 
21:14 Step #4: Ask Better Questions to Help You Grow
 
22:37 Step #5: Turn Your Pain Into Purpose
 
24:02 What to Do When You Fall Back

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How to Move On When You Still Miss Your Ex (4 Hard Truths That Will FINALLY Set You Free)

Have you been feeling anxious lately?
 
Do you notice when your mind starts to spiral?
 
Jay welcomes back his good friend and New York Times bestselling author Gabrielle Bernstein for a deep and inspiring conversation about true inner healing. Together, they unpack Gabby’s latest book, Self-Help, which reimagines Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS) as a practice anyone can bring into their daily life. Gabby shares how the parts of us we often judge, the anxious part, the perfectionist, the people-pleaser, the one who needs control, aren’t our enemies. They’re parts that have been trying to protect us, even if they sometimes get in the way.
 
As the conversation unfolds, Jay and Gabby unpack why so many of us get caught in cycles of burnout, self-criticism, and emotional disconnection. Gabby shares her simple four-step “check-in” practice, a way to pause, look inward, and start building a kinder relationship with ourselves. Through this process, she explains, we can start to recognize our patterns, meet them with compassion and find peace even in the midst of life’s noise.
 
Together, they unpack powerful questions we can all relate to: Why is it easier to comfort others than ourselves? Could our inner critic actually be trying to protect us? And how can we set boundaries without losing our empathy or warmth?
 
In this interview, you'll learn:
 
How to Befriend Every Part of Yourself
 
How to Recognize Your Inner Protectors
 
How to Heal Through Compassion, Not Control
 
How to Calm Your Inner Critic
 
How to Create Boundaries Without Guilt
 
How to Self-Soothe When You Feel Triggered
 
Healing doesn’t mean fixing what’s broken, it means learning to see every part of yourself with compassion and curiosity. The parts of you that once felt heavy or hard to love are often the same ones that carried you through the toughest moments. 
 
With Love and Gratitude,
 
Jay Shetty
 
Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here. 
 
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What We Discuss:
 
00:00 Intro
 
03:29 What is Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy?
 
06:00 Healing Deep Trauma Through IFS
 
08:38 Where Real Healing From Trauma Begins
 
10:17 Blending Therapy with Spiritual Connection
 
13:38 Strengthen Your Own Spiritual Foundation
 
16:57 The Four-Step Self Check-In Practice
 
20:32 The Journey Toward Feeling Truly Great
 
25:39 Finding Peace Without External Validation
 
26:46 We All Have An Inner Spiritual Power
 
31:00 Seeing Self-Judgment as a Form of Protection
 
33:40 Stop Being So Hard on Yourself
 
36:24 Connecting with the Parts That Protect You
 
41:45 Why Facing Yourself Feels So Hard
 
47:33 Healing Starts When You Do the Work
 
49:54 The Power of Forgiving Yourself 
 
55:57 Every Part of You Serves a Purpose
 
57:46 What Changes When You Befriend Your Inner Parts
 
59:00 The Truth About High Performers and Inner Peace
 
01:01:45 How to Set Boundaries with Love and Clarity
 
01:08:47 Gabby on Final Five 
 
Episode Resources:
 
Gabrielle Bernstein | Website
 
Gabrielle Bernstein | TikTok
 
Gabrielle Bernstein | Instagram
 
Gabrielle Bernstein | Facebook
 
Gabrielle Bernstein | YouTube
 
Dear Gabby
 
Self Help: This Is Your Chance to Change Your Life
 
Gabby's 21-day Manifesting Challenge

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Jay & Radhi Talk About Icks vs. Red Flags (How to ACTUALLY Know the Difference)

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