Emanuele M. Barboni Dalla Costa

If until now you have believed that your sensitivity, shyness and impulsiveness have interfered negatively in the development of your relationships, well, it is time to change your perspective.

What you have in your holster is the most powerful weapon of seduction, attraction and communication in the world. The bad news is that you have never learned how to properly manage all the power that runs through your veins and is called “emotion”. In short, you have been an ‘emotional kamikaze’ until now. 

Think for a moment: how many opportunities have you wasted because of your shyness? How many toads have you swallowed because you were unable to respond in kind? How many times have you felt blocked and unable to handle a dialogue properly? How much more time are you going to waste in the limbo of the “unspoken”, of inner suffering, of regret with no possibility of appeal?

We are all in search of the ‘Lost Emotion’ and you, as a sensitive being, have a stratospheric advantage over the rest of the world. This will allow you to achieve personal satisfaction, higher self-esteem and more satisfying and lasting relationships. The point is that you don’t know this yet.

The good news is that thanks to this manual you will be able to see with new eyes the enormous potential that lies within you. A potential you didn’t even think you had. 

Thanks to the “mechanism” explained in this book, you will learn how to channel your impulses and emotions in the correct way, transforming what you thought was your “factory defect” into a skill capable of radically changing, immediately and without any effort, the way you communicate in sentimental, friendship, work and family relationships.

Because remember that every relationship failure is a communication failure. 

If, up to now, your sensitivity has created more disasters than opportunities, if your relationships are poor because you struggle to communicate your inner self in the right way, if you want to know the secret to transform what you thought was your worst flaw into an irresistible tool for seduction and attraction, don’t hesitate. 

Continue reading this book.

CONTENTS

THE EMOTIONAL KAMIKAZE

About the Author

In Search of Lost Emotion

Breaking the Schema

The Primordial Need to Give and Receive Emotions

Doesn’t “I Love You” Mean Anything?

Just One Word: Transformation

The Power of the Word

You Have Never Communicated Truly Emotionally

You Think and You Say

Subconscious Penetration

Communication and Targets

Only if You Can Manage Emotions Can You Convey Them

Forgetting Impulsivity to Embrace Reflection

Sparking Emotional Memories Through Stories

The Mechanism. What You Say is not What You Think

The Misconceptions of the Sensitive and Emotional Man

Why We All Fear Approach

Shyness is Often an Excuse Not to Act

Shame: An Emotion Difficult to Control

Mental Approach, Fear and Benefits of Communicating with Emotions

Zero to One Hundred (with Handbrake Pulled)

Using Sensitivity to Stand Out

Being Sensitive is a ‘Plus’ (which has to be properly managed)

Logical and Metaphorical Language

Re-Learning to Communicate

Orienting the Emotional Spyglass

Emotional Discussion Topics

Deep Talk

How to Develop a Quality Dialogue

A Few Final Tips

Conclusions

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