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Provocative manipulation is the unique tool. If you don’t notice the provoker’s behavior in time, you can quickly become a victim of his tricks. Every person has one odd habit that, on the one hand, helps us to survive (being an evolutionary mechanism, after all), and on the other, makes us defenseless against the ‘provokers…’

Any provoker has a purpose, and this use is forcing us to do what he needs. And that's wonderful! Excellent if you have no goals and you are willing to spend your precious life on servicing the other people's interests. Provocative scenarios can be all sorts, different but they all mean one thing – shake the selected victim to make it show emotions, do all the best to switch on the emotional intelligence and disable the left logical hemisphere of the cerebral cortex, to weaken criticality. And we, women, being the loving creatures, are so easy to get caught on this ‘bait’! And not just us…

Emotions are a great ‘thing, ' important and necessary, but not when your health, peace of mind and precious time are on the chopping block. A provoker causes several unhealthy states. This can be a state of excitement, when a person starts proving something, not noticing anything around him. For example, when you hear the hint that you’re ‘bad. ’ But, remember how often parents and society were telling us to be ‘good. ’ At the same time, no one gave us this ‘goodness’ criteria. But this is an imprint experience, so it’s so important for us to be ‘good, ' to give a good account of ourselves to the society. This is what an experienced manipulator uses so often.

When a provoker uses ‘pathos, ' it is comparable to humiliation followed by a strong emotional response, and the provoker assigns the required meaning to it. As a rule, then your behavior is interpreted as weakness, helplessness, and worthlessness. And in a state of intense ‘swinging on emotions, ' your unconscious mind is ready to ensure that the provoking manipulator has put any suggestion in it – this is where many psychosomatic diseases originate.

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Psychology Manipulation: Stages of Personality Development: Mental Health, Feeling Good, Self Esteem, Personality Psychology

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The parents’ attitude of to the child makes the grounds of his behavior in adult life. It’s simply to prove: compare attitudes in your family and the relationship between your parents. You will find that scenarios, scenes, situation, as well as your reactions to them, are very similar. A conclusion is that children take into adulthood not what you would like them to take but just everything.

The reality we’ll have to take, whether we like it or not, is as follows: there are no proper education recipes for all advice have nothing to deal with the child's personality, behavior, family members, educators, teachers. Whatever we do, mistakes and responsibility for them will always accompany us.

The basic principles making you friends with your children are attention, respect, and support. Focus implies that the adult observing the child's behavior makes conclusions about his interests and hobbies. Respect is the recognition of the child's right to have his feelings, interests, hobbies, and wishes. Support is help and stimulation of the child's interests.

My Child - My Friend: Child Development, Child Support, Positive Parenting, Simplicity Parenting, Mental Health

The science-based fact is that a person gets acquainted with on average of 4,000 people during a lifetime. This does not mean, however, that he or she knows well everyone, whom he/she has ever seen, worked or studied with, or just said hello. The question “How to know what a person is?” is currently becoming more and more relevant than, say, twenty years ago. One of the reasons is that people have become much harder to see through, and it’s not just we. And the problem is not the modern moral. The main reason lies in the new modernized forms of communication. Today people increasingly give their preference to new media. The Internet has replaced the usual form of conversation, and nowadays communication is based on the interactive principle. 

In the world of today, virtually nobody writes letters on paper. But earlier, it was from the letter that people could learn about the mood and feelings of the author, could recognize the state of his/her soul, reveal the emotions he/she was experiencing while writing the letter by handwriting. Nowadays, traditional means of communications have been replaced by text messages where the abundance of characters and symbols makes it difficult for us to know who the person is with whom we communicate. A few people can now be found reading books or newspapers. Because in fact the book is the primary information source, and only due to the beautiful literature people have learned to understand other people by projecting their attitude to characters endowed with certain personality traits on real characters. In fact, a book has served as a unique form of a dialogue between an author and a reader.

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Researchers from Yale University say that, in fact, people who are not afraid of old age and who look at aging as at something natural, age and die later than others. In scientists’ opinion, good humor can extend human life by 7 and even more years. And this applies even to people whose health is not perfect, in general. Such is the "magic" of good humor, the scientists say. It prolongs life, even of those who already have a whole bunch of diseases. These are causes of health dependence on patients’ mood, which interest the doctors most of all. As, provided that they understand how it works, scientists can simulate processes occurring in an optimist’s body with the purpose to treat pessimists. But there are only hypotheses here so far. According to one of them, optimists are more intent to take good care of themselves – eat smart, go in for sports, and avoid bad habits. This explains both their good mood and good health.

Everyone knows that being an optimist is right, and being a pessimist is wrong. But how often do we long for developing our way of positive thinking? I am referring to the specific examples and showing you only a few traits of a real optimist, which help him in difficult situations! In general, we always try to treat ourselves as people not alien to positive thinking. We sigh and say, "Everything that happens happens for good," and spend many tears over our miserable lives. Or we think, "Time heals," and recall the happy moments of time, which cannot be returned, for the hundredth time. That is, we are not successful in becoming optimists. Meanwhile, it is positive thinking, which helps to survive in the most circumstances, which seem to be harsh at first glance! So, Let's Start!

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