Dr. Theresa J. Covert

DO THE FOLLOWING SYMPTOMS SOUND FAMILIAR?

- Doubting yourself and your sanity

- Feeling like you’re losing your mind

- Feeling like you’re always apologizing

- You’re second-guessing your memory

- Feeling like you aren’t good enough

- Feeling misunderstood

- Feeling lonely

- Ruined self confidence

- Extreme weight loss or weight gain

- Uncharacteristic jealousy/ insecurity

- Feeling like you don’t know the difference between right and wrong

- Extreme paranoia (being turned into an obsessive detective)

- Endless, repetitive obsessive thinking about your ex

- Constantly trying to find explanations for what has happened

- Feelings of helplessness and despair

- A desire to self isolate

- Feeling desperately misunderstood

- Overwhelming feelings of loss and grief

- Extreme bouts of rage

- An inability to be comfortable with yourself

- Strange dreams

The list goes on….

“NOBODY UNDERSTANDS!”

I hear this frustrated cry from abused people a lot.

I felt the same way when I was recovering from emotional abuse at the hands of a narcissistic/borderline psychopath. If you try and tell people who have NO EXPERIENCE with a narcissist (there is no experience like being with a narcissist, its not their fault they can’t understand) about it they will either deny your experience, tell you you are exaggerating or look at you like you were crazy.

I can’t promise you that reading to this book is going to be a “total cure”, but I can promise that if you APPLY YOURSELF DILLIGENTLY, take notes, read and re-read the chapters, follow all instructions to the letter, with a tenacious resolve to get better you will feel an instant decrease in anxiety within the first 24 hours and should see huge improvements within the first 3 days.