Jess Devi

While relationship experts often recommend choosing partners who share your values and interests, I believe this model can inadvertently limit personal growth. When partners have similar interests, there are fewer opportunities to question and challenge your own beliefs. In contrast, couples who come together whether consciously or unconsciously with diverse or opposite traits, often face challenges that push them to reconsider their prejudices, likes, and dislikes. Their differences force them to confront and question their beliefs, as their partners continuously present opposing perspectives. This dynamic can lead to conflict, but if approached consciously, it provides fertile ground for growth and transformation for both individuals. Grow Through The Nuisances & Unfulfillment is a trilogy. Book one explores the foundation of every relationship. No, I’m not referring to those established by relationship experts—I’m talking about the very intent and desire that ignite the longing within us to experience intimacy, connection, belonging, association, and interaction with others. Book one also delves into what protects these intents and desires—the seasoning that adds taste and pleasure to the experience, much like a delicious, yummy meal. I’m talking about boundaries and expectations. You will understand what they are, why they matter, and how to set and express your desires and healthy boundaries in an intimate relationship. Book two, which I call the Bricks addresses what happens when our needs and expectations are unmet. Book three, The Pillar, focuses on how to use those broken bricks to build an anchor for your next evolution. Book three suggests new habits and routines that will empower you to face challenges with awareness, observation, and full presence.

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