Allison Bottke

Writing from firsthand experience, Allison Bottke identifies the lies that kept her, and ultimately her son, in bondage—and how she overcame them. Additional real-life stories from other parents appear throughout the text.

A tough-love guide to coping with dysfunctional adult children, Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children will empower families by offering hope and healing through S.A.N.I.T.Y.—a six-step program to help parents regain control in their homes and in their lives.

 • S = STOP Enabling, STOP Blaming Yourself, and STOP the Flow of Money

 • A = Assemble a Support Group

 • N = Nip Excuses in the Bud

 • I = Implement Rules/Boundaries

 • T = Trust Your Instincts

 • Y = Yield Everything to God