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Filter out 98% (or more) of users, abusers, liars, and jerks.

Yes, you read that right! In today's world of swipe rights and swipe lefts, the old ways of dating don't work anymore (if they ever did).

Picture this: you're swiping and chatting and doing coffee meets and drinks. Just when you think you've found a diamond in the rough, you realize they're just another Pickup Artist (PUA) in disguise. UGH!

There is hope, though. With "Start With No," you'll learn to spot the red flags from a mile away and filter out those sneaky manipulators with ease.

Discover the power of saying no early and saying no often. From personal information to sexy talk, there are SO MANY ways to say no and protect your heart in the process.

Meet the cast of unsavory characters you're bound to encounter in the dating world. From "I can't take no for an answer" to "Well, farkle you, you nasty canker blossom!"—each personality type comes with its own chracteristics you'll be thrilled to filter out of your life.

Of course no dating strategy is foolproof. But "Start With No" isn't about finding the perfect formula—it's about empowering you to take control of your dating journey and set boundaries that honor your worth.

On the other side... And hey, guess what? Saying no isn't just about protecting yourself—it's also about opening yourself up to the possibility of something real and meaningful. So embrace the journey, embrace the no's, and get ready to level up your dating game like never before.

Whether you're swiping left, right, or somewhere in between, "Start With No" is your ultimate guide to dating with confidence, clarity, and a whole lot of sass. It's time to rewrite the rules and start saying yes to the love—and the life—you truly deserve!

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Start With No: For those who give too much—a new plan for dating.

Stop begging for what you want and need in relationships!

Are you tired of being a doormat? Do you find yourself constantly putting others' needs ahead of your own, only to end up feeling drained and unfulfilled? It's time to break free from the cycle of people pleasing and reclaim your life and relationships!

In "People Pleaser No More! Reclaim Your Life And Relationships By Putting Yourself First—Without Guilt!" you'll discover the disastrous impact of people pleasing on your life and how it's been holding you back from true happiness and fulfillment. From emotional exhaustion and burnout to strained relationships with family, friends, and romantic partners, you'll learn to recognize the holes in your boundaries and take proactive steps to mend them.

Delve into the HEART of the matter as we uncover the reasons behind your people pleasing tendencies. Whether it's a fear of conflict and rejection, a desire for approval and validation, or lingering trauma from childhood experiences, you'll gain valuable insights into why you've been sacrificing your own needs for the sake of others'.

But fear not! It's time to put yourself first and learn to love and live authentically. With practical tips and actionable strategies, you'll make a plan to identify triggers and patterns of people pleasing, develop a sense of self-worth and self-compassion, and set boundaries that prioritize your own needs and desires.

From effective communication techniques to cultivating healthy relationships built on mutual respect and support, you'll discover how to navigate the challenges of change and embrace a life of authenticity and fulfillment. And with the support of the buddy system, self-care strategies, and guided meditations, you'll have the tools you need to maintain your progress and avoid relapsing into old habits.

So say goodbye to the endless cycle of people pleasing and hello to a life filled with confidence, empowerment, and authenticity. It's time to rewrite the script and become the heroine of your own story. Are you ready to take the first step towards reclaiming your life?

Lucky In Love

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