I Shouldn't Feel This Way: Name What’s Hard, Tame Your Guilt, and Transform Self-Sabotage into Brave Action

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Learn to see through the haze of conflicted feelings and move forward in your life with confidence.

In I Shouldn't Feel This Way, licensed therapist and bestselling author Dr. Alison Cook guides you through a groundbreaking 3-step process to find the emotional freedom you've been longing for.

When you're tangled up inside, it's hard to find clarity. Yet so many of us guilt-trip or gaslight ourselves instead of working our way through complicated feelings. You should be a good friend, even though you feel hurt by past betrayals. You should be content, even though you feel lonely or unfulfilled. You should just have faith, even though you feel discouraged by unanswered prayers. This jumbled-up knot is a cry for gentle care and patient attention, but most of us haven't been given the tools required to unravel it.

Drawing from over twenty years of research and clinical practice, I Shouldn't Feel This Way guides you through a groundbreaking 3-step process that has helped tens of thousands of people find emotional freedom and surprisingly simple breakthroughs. Dr. Alison shows you how to:

• Identify guilt and know what to do with it • Trade feeling stuck in your head for clarity • Move from comfortable numbing to courageous conversations • Make decisions that break cycles of defeat

Change starts when you finally stop beating yourself up for the way that you feel and say, You know what? I do feel this way! And I can finally do something about it. I Shouldn't Feel This Way will help you see through the haze of conflicted feelings and move forward in your life with freedom and confidence.

The exercise can be found in the audiobook companion PDF download.

© 2024 Thomas Nelson (Lydbok): 9781400234820

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Lydbok: 7. mai 2024

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