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Loving Him without Losing You: How to Stop Disappearing and Start Being Yourself

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Personal Development

Are you a Disappearing Woman?

Do you frequently find yourself putting your lover's needs ahead of your own? Do you tend to lose yourself in your romantic relationships? Have you ever neglected your career, your friends, or even your health while in the midst of a love affair?

Now, in this landmark book, Beverly Engel examines the intricate reasons why so many women submerge themselves in their relationships with men—and offers a straightforward, empowering program that you can use to free yourself from the powerful grip of this all-too-common problem and rediscover yourself as a Woman of Substance.

© 2020 Tantor Media (Audiobook): 9781705241509

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Audiobook: 30 June 2020

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