I was intrigued by the book cover and immediately I thought of Chinese ghost marriages. But this book is written by an American, and what is this all about?It is a memoir of a woman whose life started and ended with a narcissistic husband, and the adversity she went through when she incurred debts that her late ex husband incurred, and at the same time taking care of her two children.However, the author seemed unable to leave her bad past behind. The negativity in her is evident in this book. I wished she described more of her encounter with her late husband after he has passed. More about forgiveness which isn't easy to pen it.It is an insightful memoir for me. I am particularly interested in the afterlife in which many think it is just naysayers.