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Jillian Turecki | QCODE

Let’s build healthier and more fulfilling romantic relationships. Jillian is on a mission to teach people how to completely transform their love life, and where you start is by addressing the relationship you have with yourself. 
Whether you’re looking to strengthen the relationship you’re in, heal your heartbreak and choose better partners, develop a stronger sense of self, or move away from dysfunctional patterns into highly functioning ones this show is for you.
Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has guided others on journeys toward fulfilling relationships.
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Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book
Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman
Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove
Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com
Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon
Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations
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Follow Jillian Turecki on
Instagram: @jillianturecki
Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki
Twitter: @JillianTurecki
Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com
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Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. 
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Jillian on Love

Jillian breaks down one of the most talked-about topics in modern psychology: attachment styles. But instead of sticking to labels, she challenges the oversimplified ways we use them—and offers a more grounded, compassionate way to understand why we love, cling, or pull away. Jillian shares personal insights into how she healed her own attachment wounds and explains the deeper influences of culture, family conditioning, trauma, and life context on our relationships. This is your guide to moving beyond “anxious” or “avoidant” and toward true emotional security and connection.

Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook 

Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman

Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 

Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book

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Follow the show on:

Instagram: @jillianonlove

Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com 

Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon

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Follow Jillian Turecki on:

Instagram: @jillianturecki

TikTok: @jillian.turecki

X: @JillianTurecki

Visit her website at jillianturecki.com

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Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE.

To advertise on the show, contact us!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Anxious or Avoidant? The Truth About Your Attachment Style

What happens when you love your partner but the passion is gone? In this episode, Jillian dives deep into one of the most common struggles in long-term relationships — losing physical and emotional spark. She breaks down why attraction fades, what it really takes to rekindle chemistry, and how to tell if it can truly come back.

Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook 

Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman

Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 

Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book

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Follow the show on:

Instagram: @jillianonlove

Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com 

Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon

~~

Follow Jillian Turecki on:

Instagram: @jillianturecki

TikTok: @jillian.turecki

X: @JillianTurecki

Visit her website at jillianturecki.com

~~

Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE.

To advertise on the show, contact us!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

DO NOT BREAK UP: When Staying Is the Better Choice

Sometimes, the hardest truth to face is that the person you love is the one you need to walk away from. Today, Jillian answers three listener letters from people stuck in relationships where love, addiction, betrayal, or avoidance are keeping them trapped. She dives deep into what it means to trust yourself again, why you can’t save someone who’s drowning, and how self-respect—not attachment—is what sets you free.

Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook 

Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman

Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 

Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book

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Follow the show on:

Instagram: @jillianonlove

Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com 

Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon

~~

Follow Jillian Turecki on:

Instagram: @jillianturecki

TikTok: @jillian.turecki

X: @JillianTurecki

Visit her website at jillianturecki.com

~~

Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE.

To advertise on the show, contact us!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

RUN: How to Know When It’s Time to Leave a Toxic Relationship

Jillian teaches how to truly manifest a soulmate—without the “woo.” She shares a proven step-by-step method that has helped thousands of people attract emotionally healthy, aligned relationships—complete with simple daily practices to calm your system, raise your standards, and date with intention. Jillian reframes manifestation as an intentional, grounded process of co-creation: She breaks down what a soulmate actually is (and isn’t), why waiting keeps you disconnected from your power, and how nervous system regulation becomes the foundation for clarity, confidence, and discernment in love. 

Download Bumble today. http://bumble.com 

Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman

Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 

Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book

Download Bumble today. http://bumble.com 

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Follow the show on:

Instagram: @jillianonlove

Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com 

Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon

~~

Follow Jillian Turecki on:

Instagram: @jillianturecki

TikTok: @jillian.turecki

X: @JillianTurecki

Visit her website at jillianturecki.com

~~

Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE.

To advertise on the show, contact us!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How to Actually Manifest Your Soulmate

This is my most vulnerable episode yet. For the first time, I open up about my relationship with my father and the deep impact it had on how I saw myself, my relationships, and my life. I share what it was like growing up with a difficult parent, the ways it shaped my identity, and the healing process I had to go through to finally make peace. If you’ve ever carried pain, anger, or grief toward a parent — whether narcissistic, emotionally unavailable, or simply unable to meet your needs — this episode is about finding freedom, reclaiming your power, and choosing not to let your past control your future.

Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman

Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 

Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book

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Follow the show on:

Instagram: @jillianonlove

Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com 

Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon

~~

Follow Jillian Turecki on:

Instagram: @jillianturecki

TikTok: @jillian.turecki

X: @JillianTurecki

Visit her website at jillianturecki.com

~~

Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE.

To advertise on the show, contact us!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Steps to Heal From a Narcissistic Parent

Do you ever wonder why you keep attracting the wrong person? In this episode, Jillian unpacks the unconscious blocks that prevent us from finding healthy love. She shares why distrust and resentment poison connection, how fear of not being “enough” sabotages relationships, and why wasting time with the wrong partner only delays the right one.

Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman

Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 

Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book

This episode is sponsored by https://bumble.com/https://bumble.com/

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Follow the show on:

Instagram: @jillianonlove

Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com 

Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon

~~

Follow Jillian Turecki on:

Instagram: @jillianturecki

TikTok: @jillian.turecki

X: @JillianTurecki

Visit her website at jillianturecki.com

~~

Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE.

To advertise on the show, contact us!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How to Attract a Healthy Partner

Jillian welcomes Sheleana Aiyana—author of Becoming the One and founder of Rising Woman—for a deep dive into conscious relationships, healing attachment wounds, and nervous system regulation. Sheleana shares personal stories of trauma, resilience, and transformation, offering powerful insight into how we can move from survival patterns to secure connection. They explore everything from how to know you’re ready for a relationship to how to navigate triggers, abandonment fears, and the work of parenting after a difficult childhood. 

Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman

Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 

Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book

~~

Follow the show on:

Instagram: @jillianonlove

Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com 

Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon

~~

Follow Jillian Turecki on:

Instagram: @jillianturecki

TikTok: @jillian.turecki

X: @JillianTurecki

Visit her website at jillianturecki.com

~~

Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE.

To advertise on the show, contact us!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How to Self-Soothe Your Anxiety with Sheleana Aiyana

Feeling stuck, lost, or like life just isn’t turning out how you hoped? In this personal episode, Jillian shares practical tools to help you navigate life’s harder seasons—whether you’re in a crisis or simply in a rut. She explores how movement, connection, mindset shifts, and boundaries can help you break free from emotional burnout and rediscover joy. Drawing from her own upbringing, client experiences, and hard-earned lessons, Jillian reminds us that it’s never too late to create a more fulfilling life.

Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman

Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 

Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book

~~

Follow the show on:

Instagram: @jillianonlove

Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com 

Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon

~~

Follow Jillian Turecki on:

Instagram: @jillianturecki

TikTok: @jillian.turecki

X: @JillianTurecki

Visit her website at jillianturecki.com

~~

Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE.

To advertise on the show, contact us!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What I Do When I Feel Sad, Stuck, and Lost.

Breaking up is never easy—especially when the person you’re leaving isn’t toxic, cruel, or a bad partner, but simply not the right match. In this episode, Jillian shares her personal story of ending a relationship with a “good person” and the powerful lessons she learned about values, lifestyle alignment, friendship, and trust. She explores the subtle red flags we often ignore, the fear of becoming “the villain” in someone else’s story, and why staying with the wrong partner ultimately hurts both people. If you’ve ever struggled with knowing when to walk away—or questioned a breakup after the fact—this conversation will give you clarity, courage, and self-trust.

Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman

Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 

Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book

~~

Follow the show on:

Instagram: @jillianonlove

Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com 

Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon

~~

Follow Jillian Turecki on:

Instagram: @jillianturecki

TikTok: @jillian.turecki

X: @JillianTurecki

Visit her website at jillianturecki.com

~~

Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE.

To advertise on the show, contact us!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Why I Broke Up With a Good Person

Dating can stir up all kinds of insecurities, but it doesn’t have to cost you your self-worth. In this episode, Jillian walks you through seven practical steps to help you date with confidence, protect your heart, and stay rooted in your values. You’ll learn how to spot tests that reveal old patterns, challenge the limiting beliefs holding you back, and avoid over-investing in the wrong people. If you’re tired of dating from a place of fear or anxiety, this episode will help you show up with clarity, courage, and self-respect.

Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman

Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 

Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book

~~

Follow the show on:

Instagram: @jillianonlove

Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com 

Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon

~~

Follow Jillian Turecki on:

Instagram: @jillianturecki

TikTok: @jillian.turecki

X: @JillianTurecki

Visit her website at jillianturecki.com

~~

Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE.

To advertise on the show, contact us!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How to Date with Self-Worth and Confidence

Jillian welcomes marriage and family therapist Vienna Pharaon to the show to discuss communication, attachment, and how to figure out if one's relationship is fixable or beyond repair. This is a fascinating conversation you definitely do not want to miss.
Vienna Pharaon is a licensed marriage and family therapist and one of New York City’s most sought after relationship therapists. Her book The Origins of You is a National Bestseller, and she is the host of the new podcast This Keeps Happening. Follow Vienna on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @MindfulMFT.
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Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove
Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com
Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon
Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations
Follow Jillian Turecki on
Instagram: @jillianturecki
TikTok: @jillian.turecki
Twitter: @JillianTurecki
Visit her website at jillianturecki.com
~~
Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE.
To advertise on the show, contact us!
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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