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Dr. Emily Morse

Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Join SmartSX, her exclusive membership community, for expert-led workshops, intimate discussions, and everything you need to elevate your pleasure! Order her book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.

Sex With Emily

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily brings back holistic psychologist Dr. Scott Lyons for live caller coaching sessions that'll change how you think about sex and dating. 

A woman married 10 years whose husband won't explore sexually at all—why "I want to try new things" might sound like "what we're doing isn't good enough" to a partner raised in a conservative home. 

What "deepthroating" really represents when your partner grew up being told sex was wrong—and the outside-the-bedroom conversation they need to have before anything changes in bed. 

A woman terrified about her first date after a breakup because she thinks the sex will be "unwilling"—the breathwork practice that gets you out of your anxious mind and into your confident body. 

Why a first date is just a "warm-up" to see if you're having fun, not an audition for marriage—and how to tell if someone's worth seeing naked just by watching how they treat wait staff. 

The reframe that takes all the pressure off dating: ditch the checklist, get present in your body, and remember you're the gatekeeper with all the power.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

2:11 - Growing Up Conservative: How Family Beliefs Kill Your Sex Life

6:39 - The Compliment Sandwich: How to Ask for What You Want

9:46 - Antidepressants Killed Our Sex Life: Now What?

12:44 - Medical Issues vs. Sexual Needs: Finding Balance

16:03 - The Power of Hope: Changing Your Sexual Dynamic Instantly

19:03 - Beyond Penetration: Alternative Ways to Stay Connected

24:57 - Dating After Great Sex: Overcoming Fear of Bad Partners

29:44 - First Date Anxiety: Embodiment Practice Before Going Out

34:47 - Stop Performing on Dates: Be Your Authentic Self Instead

Terrified of Dating After Divorce (How To Bounce Back)

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily and producer Erica dive into your questions about sex and relationships. 

A woman who's been living with her partner for over a year and can't stand his unsexy pecks on the lips anymore—why moving in together kills sexual tension and the surprising move she needs to make instead of waiting for him to change. 

The listener who ended a relationship because their partner refused to give oral sex—why sexual dealbreakers are valid and the one question Dr. Emily wishes she'd asked before walking away. 

A man in England with a specific fetish whose girlfriend gets "nasty and defensive" every time he tries to talk about sex—the cultural shame around sex talk that's blocking exploration and whether therapy books can replace actual therapy. 

Why "I don't want to seem pushy" is code for "we have a communication problem"—and the difference between a fantasy you'd like to explore and a fetish that's a requirement for arousal. 

The real reason your partner gets defensive when you bring up sex (spoiler: it's not about you).

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

3:14 - Why Living Together Kills Sexual Tension (And How to Fix It)

8:43 - Dating Someone with Herpes: What You Need to Know

10:32 - The Truth About Herpes Transmission and Risk

15:00 - My Partner Won't Give Oral: Should I Break Up?

17:43 - How to Have the Difficult Oral Sex Conversation

21:56 - When Your Partner Won't Explore Your Fetish

23:15 - Defensiveness in Sex Talks: Red Flag or Fixable?

25:54 - When Sexual Incompatibility Becomes a Deal Breaker

Why Cohabitation Destroys Intimacy (And How To Bring It Back)

Why I Opened My Marriage After 20 Years

Why Your Partner Refuses Intimacy (And What To Do)

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily tackles why starting intimate conversations early matters more than waiting for the "right time"—and how your sex life begins long before you get to the bedroom.

A 51-year-old in Spain has been dating someone gorgeous for six weeks with incredible chemistry but zero penetrative sex—discover why having the "are we ready?" conversation over dinner (not after making out) prevents months of unnecessary confusion. 

Someone married for years realizes they're bisexual but fears coming out will end everything—learn the gradual approach that starts with general sex conversations, not dropping identity bombshells. 

A long-term couple has never discussed desires or fantasies despite years together—find out why waiting until there's a problem to talk about sex means you've already waited too long.

Timestamps:

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily tackles why starting intimate conversations early matters more than waiting for the "right time"—and how your sex life begins long before you get to the bedroom.

A 51-year-old in Spain has been dating someone gorgeous for six weeks with incredible chemistry but zero penetrative sex—discover why having the "are we ready?" conversation over dinner (not after making out) prevents months of unnecessary confusion. 

Someone married for years realizes they're bisexual but fears coming out will end everything—learn the gradual approach that starts with general sex conversations, not dropping identity bombshells. 

A long-term couple has never discussed desires or fantasies despite years together—find out why waiting until there's a problem to talk about sex means you've already waited too long.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:17 - When to Have "The Sex Talk" in a New Relationship

3:26 - Building Sexual Anticipation vs. Rushing Into Sex

5:25 - How to Talk About Sex Before You've Had Sex

8:14 - Faking Orgasms: Why It Hurts Both Partners

11:31 - Reader Question: Navigating Painful Sex & Communication

16:42 - Creating Safety When Past Experiences Were Painful

20:38 - The Importance of Lube and Going Slow

24:16 - Reader Question: Coming Out as Bisexual in Marriage

28:36 - Starting Conversations About Desires & Fantasies

30:38 - Living Your Sexual Truth at Any Age

32:24 - Practical Steps for Difficult Conversations

Why Couples Never Talk About Sex (And How to Start)

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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily breaks down why the sex positions everyone asks about aren't actually the secret to great sex—but learning to move your body intentionally might be.

A 21-year-old people pleaser can't stop until her boyfriend finishes (even when exhausted) but worries constantly when he's pleasuring her—discover why treating sex like a finish line kills orgasms. Someone's uncomfortable being on top because she feels exposed and on display—learn the slow-motion approach that makes cowgirl about grinding pleasure, not bouncing performance.

A woman's boyfriend has a strongly curved penis causing discomfort, plus he can't orgasm during sex despite being fine alone—find out why curved penises are actually G-spot advantages and why sex lasting "too long" damages vulva owners.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:04 - People Pleaser Advice: Breaking Sexual Double Standards

2:46 - The Importance of Being Present During Sex

3:40 - Reframing Sex as a Dance, Not a Finish Line

5:04 - The 69 Position: Practical Tips & Variations

6:25 - Side-by-Side 69: The Game Changer Position

11:42 - Doggy Style Deep Dive: Angles & Modifications

18:09 - Missionary Reimagined: Why It's Underrated

25:07 - Cowgirl Position: Taking Control of Your Pleasure

28:02 - Debunking the Coconut TikTok Trend

29:15 - The Lotus Position: Intimacy & Tantric Connection

Why She's Uncomfortable Being on Top (And How to Fix It)

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In this Sex with Emily episode, wellness educator Lauren Roxburgh explains why Western medicine discarded the body system that might be blocking your orgasms—and how to bring it back online.

Lauren reveals fascia: the communication network your body uses to record trauma, send arousal signals, and feel everything. Medical schools in the 1900s threw it away as "packing wrap" without studying it. Now we know it's your sixth sense, and when it's congested, you age faster and feel less.

A woman with a tilted uterus faces sudden stabbing pain with her well-endowed partner after a decade of great sex—discover why the diagnosis isn't the whole story. Someone's tried every technique for premature ejaculation with zero results—learn why most solutions create the opposite effect and what pro athletes know about lasting longer. A post-menopausal woman on hormones still bleeds during painful sex—hear which ancient practices work when Western medicine falls short.

Lauren teaches the reverse Kegel (why opening beats squeezing), how stress clenches your pelvic floor without you knowing, why Brazilians walk differently than Westerners and what that reveals about sexual energy, and the breathing pattern that pumps toxins from your brain while awakening sensation below.

If pain during sex, premature ejaculation, or post-menopausal dryness have stumped your doctors, this reveals what they're missing.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:16 - What is Fascia? The Body's Communication Network Explained

5:05 - Why Western Medicine Ignored Fascia Until Now

9:36 - How Fascia Impacts Sexual Pleasure and Embodiment

15:03 - Releasing Trauma Stored in Your Body's Tissues

21:27 - The Blood Flow Problem Behind Sexual Dysfunction

27:34 - Pain During Sex: Understanding Your Pelvic Floor

30:24 - The Reverse Kegel Technique for Better Orgasms

33:40 - Painful Sex with Tilted Uterus: Solutions Beyond Positions

38:38 - Fixing Lifelong Premature Ejaculation with Body Work

43:07 - Postmenopausal Pain: When Hormones Aren't Enough

The Reverse Kegel That Pro Athletes Use for Better Sex

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Dr. Emily answers the questions keeping you up at night: Can bodies be trained to orgasm only one way? When does a kink cross from preference to problem? Is interactive masturbation cheating?

Someone orgasms easily alone but never with partners in her open marriage—the neural pathway explanation might surprise you. A husband discovered a humiliation kink after 20 years and his wife doesn't understand why degradation equals arousal—learn what core erotic desires reveal about childhood and why shame keeps most people silent.

A woman caught her boyfriend on interactive sex sites after they'd set boundaries—discover when getting curious works better than getting angry, and whether online encounters count as infidelity. Someone raised in sexual repression feels guilty choosing masturbation over partner sex—hear why solo pleasure threatens no one and why that guilt isn't really yours.

Then there's the couple having sex twice daily but she rarely orgasms—find out why more isn't better and how to ask for what you need without killing desire.

The episode tackles when preference becomes selfishness, why communication about kinks matters more than understanding them, and how bodies get wired to expect certain pleasure patterns. If you've been wondering whether your desires are normal or your boundaries are valid, this gives you permission to stop wondering.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:15 - Charlie's Question: How to Orgasm with a Partner

2:34 - Understanding Your Body's Neural Pathways

4:08 - Teaching Multiple Partners Your Pleasure

6:32 - The Value of Mutual Masturbation

7:56 - Ricky's Question: Small Penis Humiliation Kink

10:32 - Understanding Core Erotic Desires

13:33 - Erica's Question: Partner Using Chatterbait

16:24 - Setting Boundaries Around Interactive Sex Sites

20:40 - Rachel's Question: Guilt About Masturbating in Relationships

23:35 - Why Solo Sex Matters Even When Partnered

25:05 - Giovani's Question: Sex Twice Daily But Not Orgasming

27:11 - Quality Over Quantity: Prioritizing Foreplay

Why I Can Only Orgasm Alone (But Not With Partners)

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Dr. Emily and producer Erica judge whether you're the asshole when sex drives don't match, and the verdicts might surprise you.
A woman daydreams about affairs while her older husband's libido fades—but is desire actually the problem? A man's wife refuses both sex and therapy because he doesn't earn enough—discover why money complaints are never really about money. Someone only wants to receive pleasure, never give it—where's the line between preference and selfishness?

Then the hardest question: what do you do when you've tried everything for a decade and still have sex twice a year with someone who recoils at your touch but swears you're their person?

Dr. Emily delivers tough love about the "everything but sex" trap, why refusing therapy while refusing intimacy is relationship sabotage, and the brutal truth about waiting for people to change. She breaks down the progression from frustration to resentment to contempt, and issues a wake-up call about the information you're ignoring right now in your own relationship.

If you're walking on eggshells, wondering if your needs are unreasonable, or waiting for things to magically improve, this tells you what you need to hear.

Timestamps:

She Only Wants to Be Serviced in Bed (Is That Fair?)

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Sex educator Susan Bratton reveals why the #1 complaint in heterosexual relationships—"she can't orgasm during intercourse"—isn't about broken bodies, but broken information. With techniques that have her inbox flooded with exclamation points, Susan dismantles everything you thought you knew about penetrative sex.

Discover why rushing is killing your pleasure, what ancient Daoists knew about rhythm that porn never taught you, and the counterintuitive move that makes orgasm easier (hint: it's not what you're doing now). Susan explains the arousal gap nobody talks about, reframes the vagina in a way that will change how you touch it, and teaches the "Heart Tongue" approach that transforms mechanical sex into connection.

A 50-year-old man asks why his girlfriend can't climax during sex despite trying everything. A 25-year-old wonders if she's ever actually had an orgasm and why "squirting" feels like nothing. Susan guides both through tissue activation, sacred self-pleasure, and why the entrance to the vagina needs to be courted, not conquered.

Susan claims her best sex ever and credits specific practices for looking a decade younger than her peers. She shares the "Lips-Nips-Clit Axis," why opening matters more than tightening, and her most-thanked technique involving a 10-count that toggles the nervous system.
If you've been chasing sensation instead of connection, this episode rewrites the playbook.

Timestamps:

The Heart Tongue Technique That Changes Everything"

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I advise a woman on how to overcome feeling insecure around her partner, because we all suffer from self-doubt from time to time, especially in the bedroom. I also tackle how porn can impact your relationship and ways to safely explore your fantasies.
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