app_store_button

google_play_button

is Device Banner Block 894x1036

Stígðu inn í heim af óteljandi sögum

Hlustaðu og lestu

Dr. Emily Morse

Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Join SmartSX, her exclusive membership community, for expert-led workshops, intimate discussions, and everything you need to elevate your pleasure! Order her book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.

Sex With Emily

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order!
https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast

Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx
Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/
Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99)

Want more?
Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/

In this Sex with Emily episode, wellness educator Lauren Roxburgh explains why Western medicine discarded the body system that might be blocking your orgasms—and how to bring it back online.

Lauren reveals fascia: the communication network your body uses to record trauma, send arousal signals, and feel everything. Medical schools in the 1900s threw it away as "packing wrap" without studying it. Now we know it's your sixth sense, and when it's congested, you age faster and feel less.

A woman with a tilted uterus faces sudden stabbing pain with her well-endowed partner after a decade of great sex—discover why the diagnosis isn't the whole story. Someone's tried every technique for premature ejaculation with zero results—learn why most solutions create the opposite effect and what pro athletes know about lasting longer. A post-menopausal woman on hormones still bleeds during painful sex—hear which ancient practices work when Western medicine falls short.

Lauren teaches the reverse Kegel (why opening beats squeezing), how stress clenches your pelvic floor without you knowing, why Brazilians walk differently than Westerners and what that reveals about sexual energy, and the breathing pattern that pumps toxins from your brain while awakening sensation below.

If pain during sex, premature ejaculation, or post-menopausal dryness have stumped your doctors, this reveals what they're missing.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:16 - What is Fascia? The Body's Communication Network Explained

5:05 - Why Western Medicine Ignored Fascia Until Now

9:36 - How Fascia Impacts Sexual Pleasure and Embodiment

15:03 - Releasing Trauma Stored in Your Body's Tissues

21:27 - The Blood Flow Problem Behind Sexual Dysfunction

27:34 - Pain During Sex: Understanding Your Pelvic Floor

30:24 - The Reverse Kegel Technique for Better Orgasms

33:40 - Painful Sex with Tilted Uterus: Solutions Beyond Positions

38:38 - Fixing Lifelong Premature Ejaculation with Body Work

43:07 - Postmenopausal Pain: When Hormones Aren't Enough

The Reverse Kegel That Pro Athletes Use for Better Sex

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order!
https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast

Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx
Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/
Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99)

Want more?
Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/

Dr. Emily answers the questions keeping you up at night: Can bodies be trained to orgasm only one way? When does a kink cross from preference to problem? Is interactive masturbation cheating?

Someone orgasms easily alone but never with partners in her open marriage—the neural pathway explanation might surprise you. A husband discovered a humiliation kink after 20 years and his wife doesn't understand why degradation equals arousal—learn what core erotic desires reveal about childhood and why shame keeps most people silent.

A woman caught her boyfriend on interactive sex sites after they'd set boundaries—discover when getting curious works better than getting angry, and whether online encounters count as infidelity. Someone raised in sexual repression feels guilty choosing masturbation over partner sex—hear why solo pleasure threatens no one and why that guilt isn't really yours.

Then there's the couple having sex twice daily but she rarely orgasms—find out why more isn't better and how to ask for what you need without killing desire.

The episode tackles when preference becomes selfishness, why communication about kinks matters more than understanding them, and how bodies get wired to expect certain pleasure patterns. If you've been wondering whether your desires are normal or your boundaries are valid, this gives you permission to stop wondering.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:15 - Charlie's Question: How to Orgasm with a Partner

2:34 - Understanding Your Body's Neural Pathways

4:08 - Teaching Multiple Partners Your Pleasure

6:32 - The Value of Mutual Masturbation

7:56 - Ricky's Question: Small Penis Humiliation Kink

10:32 - Understanding Core Erotic Desires

13:33 - Erica's Question: Partner Using Chatterbait

16:24 - Setting Boundaries Around Interactive Sex Sites

20:40 - Rachel's Question: Guilt About Masturbating in Relationships

23:35 - Why Solo Sex Matters Even When Partnered

25:05 - Giovani's Question: Sex Twice Daily But Not Orgasming

27:11 - Quality Over Quantity: Prioritizing Foreplay

Why I Can Only Orgasm Alone (But Not With Partners)

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order!
https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast

Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx
Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/
Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99)

Want more?
Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/

Dr. Emily and producer Erica judge whether you're the asshole when sex drives don't match, and the verdicts might surprise you.
A woman daydreams about affairs while her older husband's libido fades—but is desire actually the problem? A man's wife refuses both sex and therapy because he doesn't earn enough—discover why money complaints are never really about money. Someone only wants to receive pleasure, never give it—where's the line between preference and selfishness?

Then the hardest question: what do you do when you've tried everything for a decade and still have sex twice a year with someone who recoils at your touch but swears you're their person?

Dr. Emily delivers tough love about the "everything but sex" trap, why refusing therapy while refusing intimacy is relationship sabotage, and the brutal truth about waiting for people to change. She breaks down the progression from frustration to resentment to contempt, and issues a wake-up call about the information you're ignoring right now in your own relationship.

If you're walking on eggshells, wondering if your needs are unreasonable, or waiting for things to magically improve, this tells you what you need to hear.

Timestamps:

She Only Wants to Be Serviced in Bed (Is That Fair?)

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order!
https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast

Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx
Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/
Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99)

Want more?
Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/

Sex educator Susan Bratton reveals why the #1 complaint in heterosexual relationships—"she can't orgasm during intercourse"—isn't about broken bodies, but broken information. With techniques that have her inbox flooded with exclamation points, Susan dismantles everything you thought you knew about penetrative sex.

Discover why rushing is killing your pleasure, what ancient Daoists knew about rhythm that porn never taught you, and the counterintuitive move that makes orgasm easier (hint: it's not what you're doing now). Susan explains the arousal gap nobody talks about, reframes the vagina in a way that will change how you touch it, and teaches the "Heart Tongue" approach that transforms mechanical sex into connection.

A 50-year-old man asks why his girlfriend can't climax during sex despite trying everything. A 25-year-old wonders if she's ever actually had an orgasm and why "squirting" feels like nothing. Susan guides both through tissue activation, sacred self-pleasure, and why the entrance to the vagina needs to be courted, not conquered.

Susan claims her best sex ever and credits specific practices for looking a decade younger than her peers. She shares the "Lips-Nips-Clit Axis," why opening matters more than tightening, and her most-thanked technique involving a 10-count that toggles the nervous system.
If you've been chasing sensation instead of connection, this episode rewrites the playbook.

Timestamps:

The Heart Tongue Technique That Changes Everything"

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order!
https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast

Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx
Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/
Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99)

Want more?
Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/

In this Sex with Emily Q&A episode, Dr. Emily and producer Erica tackle listener questions about fantasies, relationships, and navigating sexual compatibility.

They explore cuckolding—one of America's most common fantasies—discussing why partners want to watch their significant other with someone else, the importance of comprehensive pre-negotiation, and why "one and done" promises rarely hold true. A listener living with his ex-boyfriend learns why moving on sexually is so difficult when you're still sharing space, and gets permission to stop pressuring himself during the healing process.

The conversation addresses adult baby/diaper fetishes, distinguishing between core erotic desires that are requirements versus nice-to-have fantasies, and explores creative solutions like working with specialized sex workers when partners aren't compatible. Finally, they dissect a toxic relationship pattern where one partner constantly shifts between attraction and rejection, helping a listener recognize when it's time to walk away.

Throughout, Dr. Emily emphasizes that early relationship sex fueled by new relationship energy doesn't last forever, the importance of understanding your own pleasure rather than just servicing a partner's wants, and why we need to stop dating people based on their potential to change.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:25 - My Boyfriend Wants to Watch Me Have Sex with Another Man

6:02 - Why Cuckolding is One of America's Most Common Fantasies

8:55 - How Do I Move On When I'm Still Living with My Ex?

14:59 - My Wife Thinks My Fetish is Demonic - Is This Marriage Over?

20:53 - He Says I'm Not Attractive Enough Anymore - What Do I Do?

23:29 - Red Flags: When Your Partner Wants You to Change Your Body

26:10 - Closing Thoughts: Stop Fighting for Approval, Start Honoring Your Needs

The Most Common Fantasy in America (You'd Be Surprised)

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order!
https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast

Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx
Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/
Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99)

Want more?
Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/

In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily's first guest in the new studio is psychologist Dr. Scott Lyons, author of Addicted to Drama: Healing Dependency on Crisis and Chaos in Yourself and Others.

Dr. Lyons reveals how drama addiction isn't just obvious chaos—it's overscheduling, inability to tolerate stillness, and sabotaging intimacy when vulnerability feels threatening. He explains the biology: drama provides energy, numbs pain, and creates sensation that makes us feel alive. 

Listener questions address a 21-year-old spiraling after her boyfriend called an actress sexy, and a 30-year-old wanting kinkier sex but getting triggered. 

Dr. Lyons and Dr. Emily emphasize distinguishing sensation-seeking from authentic connection, coming back to the body when triggered, and recognizing how childhood patterns shape adult sexuality and relationships.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

3:32 - The Hidden Signs of Drama Addiction You Might Be Missing

9:24 - How Trauma Lives in Your Body and Shapes Your Behavior

13:36 - Why Drama Shows Up in Your Relationships and Sex Life

15:37 - Why Do I Feel Terrible When My Partner Comments on Other People?

27:35 - The Currency of Love: How Childhood Chaos Affects Adult Relationships

33:48 - I Want Freaky Sex But My Body Keeps Freezing Up

42:52 - Understanding Dissociation and Finding Your Way Back Home

50:00 - How Drama Addiction Blocks True Sexual Pleasure and Intimacy

52:32 - Five Quickie Questions with Dr. Scott Lyons

Why You're Addicted to Drama (And How It's Hurting You)

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order!
https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast

Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx
Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/
Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99)

Want more?
Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/

In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily and producer Erica answer listener questions covering intimate challenges from anal play to mismatched libidos.

The episode addresses a woman whose boyfriend wants to try receiving anal rimming but can't relax into it, examining masculinity myths around pleasure. They cover penis cage safety during chastity play and what to watch for during extended use. Listeners also hear from a woman whose partner never initiates sex despite therapy, someone experiencing numbness during oral sex, and a recently divorced woman struggling to reclaim her sex drive.

Throughout, Emily emphasizes communication outside the bedroom, understanding our bodies' responses, and reclaiming sexuality as something we own for ourselves—not something tied exclusively to our partners.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:15 - Helping Your Partner Feel Comfortable with Anal Play

6:38 - Penis Cage Safety & Chastity Play Guidelines

13:49 - When Your Partner Never Initiates Sex

18:45 - Numbness & Tingling During Oral Sex Explained

23:07 - Reclaiming Your Sex Drive After Divorce

Locktober: How to Do Chastity Play Safely

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order!

https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast

Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx

Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/

Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99)

Want more?

Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/

In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily teams up with anthropologist Dr. Wednesday Martin to tackle pornography—one of modern sexuality's most polarizing topics. From addressing listener concerns about partners who need porn to climax, to exploring how porn shapes our sexual behaviors and expectations.

The episode examines real listener scenarios including a woman feeling inadequate because her boyfriend requires porn and dirty talk about other women to orgasm, and another struggling with her partner's search history filled with degrading terms. Emily and Wednesday also dive into the research on porn's actual impact on sexual aggression, the rise of choking and other behaviors in mainstream sexual culture, and the difference between ethical porn and typical productions.

Throughout the discussion, they emphasize that porn itself isn't the problem—it's often a communication issue. The episode explores how couples can use porn as a tool for sexual exploration and self-knowledge rather than a source of shame or conflict, while acknowledging the legitimate concerns about how mainstream porn represents sexuality and consent.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

4:27 - Historical Context: Porn Has Always Existed

8:23 - First Porn Experiences

17:20 - Research Findings: Porn's Actual Impact on Behavior

27:47 - Case Study: When Porn Becomes a Relationship Issue

37:32 - Ethical Porn vs. Mainstream

41:56 - Using Porn as a Learning Tool for Self-Discovery

50:42 - Communication Strategies: Talking About Porn Preferences

57:17 - Final Thoughts

How Porn Can Actually Improve Your Sex Life

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order!

https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast

Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx

Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/

Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

7 Signs of Sexual Compatibility: https://sexwithemily.com/7-signs-of-sexual-compatibility-2/

SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99)

Want more?
Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/

Episode Description:
In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily and producer Eric tackle listener-submitted "Am I The Asshole" scenarios focused on sex, dating, and relationships. From a wife refusing threesomes her husband demands to fix their struggling marriage, to a boyfriend dismissing his girlfriend's painful sex as exaggerated.

The episode examines a daughter's shock at discovering her mother's 24/7 BDSM collar and addresses sexual compatibility deal-breakers, including a five-month relationship ending over asexuality versus mismatched libidos. They also tackle friendship boundaries when a well-meaning friend reveals intimate details about someone's sexual past to their new partner.

Throughout these scenarios, Emily emphasizes that most relationship conflicts stem from lack of sexual education and communication skills rather than malicious intent. The episode reinforces the importance of honest self-reflection, clear boundaries, and recognizing when patterns aren't serving your relationships.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:21 - Threesome Pressure in Struggling Marriage

4:45 - Why Threesomes Don't Fix Relationships

8:03 - Dismissing Partner's Sexual Pain During Sex

11:04 - Understanding Vaginismus and Vaginal Pain

14:09 - Anal Sex Pressure Despite Clear Boundaries

17:15 - The Importance of Consensual Partners for Anal

18:46 - Discovering Mom's BDSM Collar Bombshell

22:00 - How to Have Healthy Sex Conversations with Kids

24:46 - Breaking Up Over Sexual Incompatibility

28:18 - Sexual Compatibility by 5 Months Rule

30:33 - Oversharing Friend's Threesome History

33:14 - Never Share Others' Sexual Stories

When Your Friend Ruins Your Relationship By Sharing Your Past

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order!
https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast

Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx
Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/
Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99)

Want more?
Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/

In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with Violet Benson. Violet opens up about her intentional decision to step back from penetrative sex while working through attachment patterns that clouded her judgment in relationships.

How do you know when sex is creating unhealthy emotional attachment versus genuine connection? Violet shares her realization that sleeping with someone too quickly led her to ignore red flags and chase unavailable partners who mirrored her childhood feelings of being "not enough."

The conversation dives into Violet's egg freezing experience, including the intense hormonal and emotional effects that doctors failed to prepare her for. Violet takes Emily's Sex IQ quiz from the book Smart Sex, reflecting on how much her relationship with her body and pleasure has evolved.

They tackle a listener question about pursuing someone with major red flags just for physical chemistry, with both hosts emphasizing the importance of honest self-reflection over justification.

The episode explores embracing "clinginess" in dating, why vulnerability beats playing games, and how foreplay truly starts outside the bedroom. Throughout, Emily and Violet reinforce that understanding your patterns is the first step to breaking cycles that don't serve you.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

2:13 - Violet's dating hiatus

5:42 - Turning fears into boundaries

8:37 - Understanding attachment styles and childhood trauma in relationships

11:43 - Egg freezing experience

16:17 - Managing mental health during hormonal changes 

21:00 - Sex IQ Quiz

26:31 - Listener question: Detaching emotions from physical intimacy 

30:30 - Why being vulnerable beats playing games 

35:41 - Why people are having less sex and connection

38:15 - Top 3 tips for authentic dating and better relationships

40:42 - Rapid-fire questions: Turn-ons, turn-offs, and relationship advice

How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Sex Life

Today’s show is all about getting back into the driver’s seat of your sex life!
 Are you worried you’re doomed to a G-spotless bedroom existence? Are your impossibly high dating standards holding you back from meeting Ms. Right? Does “eye for an eye” really apply when it comes to marital infidelity? Emily and Anderson share sage advice to help steer you towards sex and relationship bliss, and uncover which careers are more likely to land you a Tinder date.
 If you’ve wandered off the desired sexual path, learn how to get back on track with tips from this podcast!
 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dating Dilemmas: Is It Them or Is It You?

Hlustaðu og lestu

Other podcasts you might like ...