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Life is challenging for Christian singles. How do you balance work and personal life? How do you own your faith? How can you date with a purpose? And prepare for marriage? All while honoring God through it all? Hit up The Boundless Show, a Christian podcast for young adults, for some good, honest conversation. The young adult years are full of possibility and choices that shape who you become. Join host Lisa Anderson to discuss the highs and lows, lean on each other, and trust God in this important season of adulthood.

The Boundless Show

Boomers dispense advice for young adults, plus navigating sexual desire as a single in your 30s, and the hallmarks of a thriving faith. 
 
Featured musical artist: David Dunn
 
Roundtable: Life Lessons for Young Adults
 
What would Christians in their 60s and 70s tell their younger selves? We find out this week as our guests dispense some of their best life advice and perspectives. From spiritual rhythms to life hacks to navigating regrets to staying hopeful, listen in and get wisdom from those who’ve gone before you. 
 
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Culture: Sexual Integrity for the 30-Something
 
Counselor M.T. Wilson was single until age 38. He has great advice for navigating the tricky decade of your 30s as a Christian who wants to honor God with your sexuality. From stewarding sexual desire to understanding intimacy, longing for companionship, and struggling to trust God with His timing, M.T. shares lessons from his own journey as well as his expertise as a relationship and sex therapist. 
 
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Surrendered Sexuality: How Knowing Jesus Changes … Everything
 
Inbox: Is Your Faith a Blessing or a Bore?
 
Why do some people seem to have a thriving relationship with God, while others struggle? Pastor Mark Bates weighs in. 
 
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Advice From Seasoned Saints: Episode 927

How to respond when your friends deconstruct, plus creative ways for men to build friendships, and keeping healthy boundaries with coworkers. 
 
Featured musical artist: Nathan Tasker
 
Roundtable: Discouraged by Deconstruction
 
Your friend who once loved Jesus is struggling to keep the faith. He or she has written off parts of the Bible, or stopped going to church, or is excusing sin as not a big deal. All of us go through seasons of doubt, but how should you respond when you see someone drifting away from biblical truth and Christian community? Our guests have experienced this firsthand, and share how to love your friends and entrust them to God in the midst of their struggles. 
 
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Culture: Finding Great Friendships as a Man
 
How do men, especially single men, find meaningful friendships in church and beyond? Ty Dannenbring and Jeff Dillon learned how to cultivate community by sharing activities they love, being more visible in their spheres of influence, and reaching out to neighbors. Because guys do friendship differently than women, the practical ideas Ty and Jeff bring to the table are immensely helpful and attainable for men who crave meaningful connection. Ladies, we dished out friendship ideas for you last week!
 
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Party in the Front!: Overcome Loneliness and Build Community Right Where You Are 
 
Inbox: TMI on the Job
 
What’s appropriate to share at work, and what’s TMI (or worse)? HR expert Marshonda Dixon weighs in. 
 
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When Friends Leave the Faith: Episode 926

What it takes to be a full-time missionary, plus creative ways for women to find friendship, and should you be involved in a church plant? 
 
Featured musical artist: Aaron Shust
 
Roundtable: Are Overseas Missions Meant for Me?
 
All Christians are called to fulfill the Great Commission, but not everyone is meant to be a missionary in a foreign country. How can you find out if you are? This week’s panel features seasoned missionaries, a missions agency leader, and a prospective missionary to share their journeys toward serving overseas, plus the unique temperament and qualification needs of a missionary, and what to expect in the preparation and candidating process. 
 
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Culture: Finding Great Friendships as a Woman
 
How do women, and especially single women, find meaningful friendships in church and beyond? Melissa Zaldivar has creative ideas that focus on being intentional, asking questions, meeting needs, and being open to women in other stages of life. She’ll also list some qualities that are necessary for a real friendship to thrive. Men, next week we’ll have ideas for you!
 
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Get Over Here: A Single’s Guide to Building Meaningful Community 
 
Inbox: Should I Help Plant a Church?
 
How do you know if you’re supposed to join a church plant? Pastor Mark Bates weighs in. 
 
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Missionary Mode: Episode 925

How churches are reaching 20- and 30-somethings, plus a woman’s quest to love her sisters in Christ, and tips for paying off student loans.
 
Featured musical artist: Mosaic MSC
 
Roundtable: What Does Your Church Do for Young Adults?
 
Does your church have a strong young adult ministry? Does it have one at all? Regardless of your specific scenario, young adults belong at church, and it’s the responsibility of church leadership plus young professionals (that’s you!) to ensure that you’re fed, included, serving, giving and committing. What does that look like? What are some creative ways to reach and enfold 20- and 30-somethings into the life of your local body of believers? Our panel of two young adult leaders and one pastor to young adults gives tips for being seen and heard and then engaging with your church community. 
 
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Culture: The Power of Women Helping Women
 
As a former worship leader, Natalie Runion has lots of experience with the highs and lows of Christian service and culture. But when her pastor offered her a women’s ministry role, she panicked. “I don’t even like women!” she blurted in response. Over time, God changed her heart, and she’s now seen God use her role in women’s ministry in ways she never expected. In our candid conversation, Natalie gives inspiration and advice for women to nurture and lift up other sisters in Christ — and then see what God does. 
 
 I Don’t Even Like Women: And Other Lies That Get in the Way of Sacred Sisterhood
 
Inbox: Strategies for Paying Off Student Loans 
 
Many grads spend years, if not decades, paying off their student loans. Is there a way to short-circuit the process and get ahead? Financial expert Jay Blackman weighs in. 
 
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Young Adults at Church: Episode 924

Being salt and light when you’re mostly around Christians, plus hope for those who lack career ambition, and making career and family work.
 
Featured Resource: Know Your Why: Finding and Fulfilling Your Calling in Life
 
Featured musical artist: Danen Kane
 
Roundtable: Finding the Lost Around You
 
If you go to church and small group and have mostly Christian friends, you may need to be really intentional about seeking relationships with those who don’t know Christ. Our guests have lived in various aspects of the “Christian bubble” but have gotten creative when it comes to befriending and sharing Jesus with non-Christians. Listen in to learn from their example and gain courage to represent Christ where you live, work and play. 
 
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Culture: I Don’t Have Career Goals
 
You have a job but you’re not ambitious, and you can’t really think of any lofty career goals. Is something wrong with you? Ken Lane has transitioned multiple times in his career. From technology to non-profit to executive coaching, Ken answers whether you have to be passionate about your job, what it looks like to be open to opportunity, and how to trust God in the process of crafting your career, regardless of how excited you are about it. 
 
Inbox: Do Career and Family Mix?
 
How do you balance a desire for a career with settling down and having a family? Bry Shirin weighs in. 
 
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Ambition Ambivalence: Episode 923

Things your grandma and grandpa should have taught you, plus having patience for God’s plan, and what “soft” skills do you need to succeed? 
 
Featured musical artist: Ginny Owens
 
Roundtable: Adulting Know-How You Should Learn
 
Do you know how to sew a button? Change a tire? Cook a roast? Make a budget? Sure, you’ve mastered Instagram and Monster Hunter Wilds, but those skills won’t help you when you have to host a dinner party, write a thank-you note or negotiate a car sale. Some life skills seem to be relics of the past, but there are useful things that our grandparents and parents learned that perhaps got lost in translation when they came to us. Our “seasoned” guests share some basic life skills that have proved immensely useful in adulthood — and how you can learn them yourself. Get ready to take notes, because things are about to get real. 
 
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Culture: Why Waiting’s Not a Waste
 
After being in 12 weddings, Rebecca George wondered when it would be her turn. In singleness, job transitions, moves and more, Rebecca has learned a lot about waiting. She shares advice and encouragement for those of us wondering if we’ve been left behind or if trusting God is worth the effort. 
 
You’re Not Too Late: Trusting God’s Timing in a Hurry-Up World 
 
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Inbox: The Value of “Soft” Skills
 
We’re all trying to grow in EQ and people skills, but we rarely think about how crucial they actually are to our interpersonal and career success. What are these “soft” skills, and how do we get them? Career expert Ken Lane weighs in. 
 
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Lacking Life Skills?: Episode 922

Joy and purpose in singleness, plus a single guy’s take on being unmarried, and is it ever time to give up on marriage completely? 
 
Featured musical artist: James Peden
 
Roundtable: What to Love About Being Single
 
Singleness isn’t a death sentence. The Bible considers singleness a noble calling, so whether you’re content as a single or you’re praying for a mate, use your single season to grow, serve, build relationships, learn and embrace adventure. In honor of National Singles Week, our guests, all single, share their best stories and advice for embracing singleness with confidence and joy — and taking time to enjoy the ride. 
 
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Culture: Making the Most of Singleness
 
Bob Wheatley was a pro baseball player. He’s now a brand strategist, author, speaker — and single guy. He recently wrote a book about navigating life as an unmarried man in his early 30s, and what it looks like to walk in faithfulness today while hoping for marriage in the future. Bob uses everything from the words of Paul to lessons from his own life to outline the advantages of singleness, the need for accountability and friendship, and the blessings of trusting God with your single season. 
 
Single-Minded: Finding Purpose & Strength in Your Season of Singleness
 
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Inbox: Is It Time to Become a Nun?
 
Our listener is discouraged and wants to know if she should give up on marriage and consign herself to a nunnery. Lisa Anderson weighs in. 
 
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Celebrating Singleness: Episode 921

Connecting with old friends, plus “Duck Dynasty’s” Mia Robertson, and wanting invites from families at church without being awkward. 
 
Featured musical artist: Ellie Holcomb
 
Roundtable: Friends From the Past
 
Childhood friends, high school friends, college friends — even friends from places you’ve lived in other parts of the country or world. You have shared memories, but is there value in actually reconnecting with pals from the past? Our guests talk about their successful and unsuccessful attempts to reach out to old friends, plus what they gained from doing so, and what they learned.
 
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Culture: Mia Robertson From “Duck Dynasty”
 
Daughter of “Duck Dynasty” stars Jase and Missy, Mia Robertson grew up in the Hollywood spotlight. Born with a cleft palate and the subject of public scrutiny, her personal journey hasn’t been easy. Now in her 20s and with multiple surgeries behind her, Mia is focusing on her college studies, fronting a busy charity, and living out her faith in the ups and downs. You’ll make a new friend in Mia as you hear her inspiring story. 
 
 Hold Hope: Encouragement for Christians with Chronic Pain 
 
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Inbox: Can I Hang With Your Family?
 
You want to be invited into the lives of families at your church, but is there a way to indicate interest without being awkward or invasive? Counselor Kari A weighs in. 
 
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A “Duck Dynasty” Daughter: Episode 920

Standing for your convictions without losing a relationship, plus hope for alcohol addiction, and should non-drinkers only date other non-drinkers? 
 
Featured musical artist: About a Mile 
 
Roundtable: When Friendship Tests Your Faith
 
As Christians, we’re called to be lights in a dark world. But when you have to stand up for truth among friends and colleagues who challenge your beliefs, how do you stay strong? What’s the motivation and means of making and growing friendships with those who are apathetic or hostile to biblical truth about life, sexuality — even the gospel itself? Guests Glenn and Kat have found a way to keep their faith front and center in friendships with non-Christians. You’re guaranteed to find their stories inspiring and challenging as you ponder how to love God and love others without selling out. 
 
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Culture: Straight Talk About Booze
 
Dr. Trent Langhofer has long been a licensed therapist and addiction recovery counselor — after years of being an addict himself. He knows the temptation that drugs and alcohol present in a culture where isolation, busyness, comparison and anxiety have a hold. So what’s the straight story on booze? What’s OK and what’s too much? Do your reasons for drinking matter? What about social drinking? How do you know you have a problem, and what’s the first step to doing something about it? Trent joins us to dole out facts, and more importantly, offer hope and healing steps for those ready to take a new look at their relationship with alcohol. 
 
 Love Life Sober: A 40-Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 
 
Article: The Latest Buzz Around Christians and Alcohol 
 
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Inbox: Can You Ask Your Date Not to Drink?
 
As a teetotaler, she’s wondering if she should only date guys who don’t drink. Or if they do, can she ask them to stop? Pastor Mark Bates weighs in. 
 
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Friendship Under Fire: Episode 919

Enjoying sports without letting them own you, plus career experts on common problems at work, and developing a Scripture-reading habit. 
 
Featured Resource (GOAA): Grace at Work: Redeeming the Grind and the Glory of Your Job 
 
Guests: Jesse Florea, Jonathan Jenkins, Rachel Pfeiffer, Marshonda Dixon, Bryan Gilman, Jenn Scheck, Lisa Anderson
 
Featured musical artist: Jonathan Cain 
 
Roundtable: Sports Fandom Gone Too Far
 
Fall is synonymous with football, so consider this your friendly reminder that in addition to your commitment to your favorite team, you also have a job, friends, family and a life. Seriously, whatever your sport of choice, it’s easy to get caught up in your team’s schedule, stats, players and performance. Sports are fun, but is there a way to be a fan without compromising your emotional, relational, financial and even spiritual health? This week we’re hearing from almost-addicts who’ve learned to temper their love for the game with a sense of priority and balance. They’ll talk their favorite teams (and athletes and events), but also strategies for staying grounded in a sports-filled life. 
 
Guests: Jesse Florea, Jonathan Jenkins, Rachel Pfeiffer
 
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Culture: Dealing With Problems at Work
 
Workplace relationships can be tough. Even if you work from home and your only coworker is your cat, you still have bosses, vendors, clients and competitors. Most of us would love to be part of a healthy work culture, but what does that entail? How do you handle issues with a fellow employee or client? Should you confront them directly? Get your boss involved? Take it to HR? What’s a strategy for addressing office gossip or sabotage? How can you assert yourself at work without being labeled a jerk? Our panelists are experts in workplace performance and relational dynamics. They’ll share their best tips for winning at work — interpersonally and beyond. 
 
Guests: Marshonda Dixon, Bryan Gilman, Jenn Scheck
 
GOAA Offer: Grace at Work: Redeeming the Grind and the Glory of Your Job 
 
Inbox: Discipline for Reading Scripture
 
How do you cultivate a consistent habit of Bible reading? Do certain tactics work for some and not for others? How do you find a good rhythm and stick to it? Lisa Anderson weighs in. 
 
Guest: Lisa Anderson
 
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Sports Idolatry: Episode 918

What makes someone a best friend, plus research on why men fall in love more quickly, and is our listener trying hard enough to find someone? 
 
Featured musical artist: Kerrie Roberts
 
Roundtable: Who Is Your Best Friend?
 
Who is someone you consider a best friend? Getting to that level of relationship with another person takes time, intention, and the willingness to resolve conflict and give grace. Our guests share about their best friends, what makes a best friend, ways to overcome relational barriers, and how to take friendship to the next level. 
 
Read Lisa’s Article: What is a Best Friend?
 
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Culture: Can’t Help Falling in Love
 
Recent research indicates that men statistically fall in love more quickly than women. Why is this and how does it play out? Glenn Stanton is a family researcher at Focus on the Family. He shares findings from a study on the subject and what they mean for the world of dating and relationships. 
 
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 The Sacred Search: What if It’s Not About Who You Marry, but Why? 
 
Read Glenn’s Article: Who Falls in Love Faster, Men or Women?
 
Inbox: Am I Trying Hard Enough to Date? 
 
Have you recently been asked why you’re still single? And does it make you wonder if you’re trying hard enough to find someone? A counselor shares some encouragement. 
 
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Why Men Love Sooner: Episode 906

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