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Larry Hagner

The Dad Edge Podcast is a movement. It is a strong community of Fathers who all share a set of values.

Larry Hagner, founder of The Dad Edge, breaks down common challenges of fatherhood, making them easy to understand and overcome.  Tackling the world of Fatherhood can be a daunting task when we try to do it alone.

The mission of The Dad Edge Podcast is to help you become the best, strongest, and happiest version of yourself so that you can help guide your kids to the best version of themselves. Simple as that.  

Everything you need and all of our resources can be found at thedadedge.com/podcast

The Dad Edge Podcast

In today's conversation, I sit down with Ian Cron — a psychotherapist, priest, bestselling author of The Road Back to You, and one of the world's leading experts on the Enneagram. This episode hit me far harder than I expected. Ian doesn't just explain the Enneagram… he helps us understand how our personality type shapes our marriage, our parenting, our leadership, and even the stories we tell ourselves.
 
 
 
But things get incredibly real when Ian puts me through a live guided inner-work exercise. Within minutes, he led me straight into one of the deepest beliefs I carry about success, provision, and worth — taking me face-to-face with the 12-year-old version of myself who still drives far more than I realized. It was raw, vulnerable, uncomfortable… and one of the most powerful moments I've had behind this microphone. If you've ever wondered why you do what you do, why you push so hard, or why your strengths sometimes undermine you, this conversation will stop you in your tracks.
 
 
 
 
 Timeline Summary: 
[0:00] – Introducing the episode and why today's conversation hit harder than expected.
 
[1:27] – Ian Cron's background as a psychotherapist, priest, and Enneagram expert.
 
[2:12] – Ian explains the nine personality types in plain language.
 
[2:42] – Why I chose to get vulnerable and let Ian guide me through inner work.
 
[3:25] – A moment of intense authenticity as I sit face-to-face with my younger self.
 
[11:51] – Nature vs. nurture — where personality comes from.
 
[13:34] – Why self-awareness is essential for good living, marriage, and parenting.
 
[15:31] – Applying Enneagram wisdom to understanding kids and their inner worlds.
 
[17:22] – How knowing my wife's type changed our marriage.
 
[18:27] – "What's best about you is also what's worst about you."
 
[19:59] – Ian analyzes my type (3w2) and explains why he knew so much about me instantly.
 
[21:42] – How threes may unintentionally run over people while chasing goals.
 
[22:50] – Parenting kids who aren't wired like you — and avoiding making them copies.
 
[24:12] – Why every type has strengths, weaknesses, and a path toward health.
 
[26:32] – Understanding your kids' Enneagram types and customizing your parenting.
 
[27:48] – When kids should take the Enneagram test.
 
[29:03] – My own reflections on turning 50 and becoming more self-aware.
 
[30:19] – How to begin inner work and understand your type's shadow side.
 
[31:21] – The shift from first-half-of-life achievement to second-half-of-life meaning.
 
[32:36] – Do Enneagram types change over time?
 
[33:58] – Ian shares the hard truths about being a Type 4 and the work it required.
 
[35:51] – What makes the Enneagram "painfully accurate" — and why it stings at first.
 
[43:03] – Why dating app "compatibility" algorithms may be misleading.
 
[46:16] – The danger of being married to someone exactly like you.
 
[47:15] – Why I talk to the "achiever" part of myself and how Ian explains this phenomenon.
 
[49:21] – Understanding internal "parts" and learning to lead them well.
 
[52:06] – The moment my 12-year-old self emerges during the guided exercise.
 
[1:02:14] – Why self-knowledge is the beginning of wisdom.
 
[1:03:27] – Ian's resources: assessments, coaching, books, and his Typology podcast.
 
[1:04:45] – Final reflections and directing listeners to the show notes.
 
 
 
 
 Five Key Takeaways 
 
 
 The Enneagram reveals core motivations, not just behaviors. 1. Understanding your type gives you a mirror into why you act, think, and feel the way you do.
 Self-awareness is foundational to healthy marriage and parenting. 2. When you understand your patterns, blind spots, and triggers, you show up more intentionally for the people you love.
 Your strengths also contain your shadow. 3. "What's best about you is also what's worst about you" — and growth requires facing both sides honestly.
 Inner-work exposes old parts still running your life. 4. The guided exercise revealed a wounded 12-year-old part of me still driving my need to achieve and provide.
 Your type doesn't change, but you evolve within it. 5. True maturity comes from learning to lead your personality, not letting it lead you.
 
 
 
 
 Links & Resources: Ian's website & resources: • 
https://www.ianmorgancron.com Ian's book: The Road Back to You: https://www.amazon.com/Road-Back-You-Enneagram-Self-Discovery/dp/0830846190 Bark x The Dad Edge: http://thedadedge.com/bark Show notes: • 
https://thedadedge.com/1410 
 
 
 
 Closing Remark 
 
 
If this episode gave you a moment of clarity, helped you understand yourself better, or challenged you to grow, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. From my heart to yours, thank you for listening — now go out and live legendary.

How the Enneagram Can Heal Your Marriage, Parenting, and Identity featuring Ian Cron

In this first solo show for December, the host, Larry Hagner, comes to the audience with anger and urgency to discuss a massive, sinister online threat targeting children through seemingly innocent games like Roblox and Minecraft. Drawing heavily from a recent Sean Ryan Show interview with ethical hacker Ryan Montgomery (Episode 255), the host alerts parents to the dark fringes of the internet and a dangerous group, 764, described as a dark web cult with an "indifference" belief that lives and families mean nothing.
 
 
 
The episode features the heartbreaking, public post from Adam and Amanda Tate whose 15-year-old son, Bryce Tate, tragically took his own life after being a victim of sextortion. The host details how these criminals build trust, escalate quickly (the Tate tragedy occurred in just three hours), and use threats of public exposure to manipulate vulnerable children. Beyond sextortion, the episode warns about extreme acts of self-harm, pet-killing, and even violence against family members being coerced for things as trivial as Roblox Robux.
 
 
 
The host emphasizes that parental awareness is the only defense. He strongly recommends using a parental monitoring software like Bark (about $15/month) to monitor online chats, text messages, and social media, allowing parents to get immediate alerts and intervene before tragedy strikes. This is a passionate call to action for fathers to educate themselves, have ongoing, fruitful conversations, and protect their children's lives.
 
 
 
TIMELINE SUMMARY
 
 
 
[0:00] Introduction
 
[1:47] Episode disclaimer for parents
 
[2:22] Alerting parents to the "massive threat" in games like Roblox and Minecraft
 
[3:35] How innocent games can be tampered with and made evil
 
[3:59] Introducing the Sean Ryan Show and the interview with Ryan Montgomery
 
[4:37] Episode 255 of The Sean Ryan Show: "Roblox and Minecraft. Hacker exposes the largest online video games."
 
[5:22] Warning: Roblox is not safe; introduction to the online group 764
 
[6:07] The 764 group's belief in indifference and not caring about the welfare of children
 
[6:51] Sharing the story of Bryce Tate (15) and his parents, Adam and Amanda Tate
 
[8:57] The discovery: Bryce was a victim of sextortion—a serious and growing threat 
 
[9:49] The extortion phase: demanding $500 and threatening to share photos. 
 
[10:22] Bryce, believing his world was destroyed, was manipulated into taking his own life
 
[11:11] The rapid timeline: the first message to the final tragic act occurred in just three hours
 
[12:02] Episode recommendation: Sean Ryan/Ryan Montgomery interview 
 
[13:13] Discussing extreme acts: forcing a 14-year-old girl to hang herself naked on video
 
[14:08] Forcing kids to tattoo usernames, burn themselves, and kill their pets or parents/siblings on video
 
[15:10] The shocking detail: kids are being coerced for Roblox Robux, not even real money 
 
[16:49] Bark: Parental Monitoring Software
 
[19:11] Call to parents: Make an effort to have ongoing conversations with your kids
 
[19:35] The modern threat: the bully can be in your kid's bedroom, 25 feet away, and you have "no idea"
 
[20:25] Conclusion: The only protection our kids have is us; a passionate final call to action.
 
 
 
5 KEY TAKEAWAYS
 
 
 
 1. The Threat is Real and Sinister Online platforms like Roblox and Minecraft are being exploited by a large, sadistic group (764) on the dark web that preys on vulnerable children, escalating from sextortion to coercing extreme acts of self-harm and violence for Robux or recognition.
 2. Speed is Critical—Intervention Must Be Immediate. The sextortion process is incredibly fast. A child can be manipulated into a catastrophic decision in as little as three to six hours, as seen in the Bryce Tate tragedy, highlighting the crucial need for immediate digital awareness and monitoring.
 3. The Stakes Are Life and Death. These criminals are professionals who exploit children's innocence and sense of shame, often leading victims to take their own lives. The host argues this is a heinous crime, describing the acts as being "murdered... through his phone".
 4. Awareness is the Only Defense. Parents cannot protect their children unless they know what is happening. The host urges parents to research the topic (especially the Sean Ryan Show interview with Ryan Montgomery) to understand the depth of the technological and psychological infiltration.
 5. Protect Your Kids with Technology and Ongoing Conversation. While open, ongoing conversations are vital, parental monitoring tools like Bark are essential for a safety net. Bark monitors 30+ apps and texts, sending immediate alerts to parents, allowing intervention within minutes to stop a fast-moving threat.
 
 
 
LINKS
 
 • Podcast Shownotes: 
https://thedadedge.com/1409
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 • Bark: Parental Monitoring Software: 
https://thedadedge.com/bark
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 • #255 Ryan Montgomery - Roblox & Minecraft: Hacker Exposes the Largest Online Video Games: 
https://open.spotify.com/episode/2GPd36fFPuLsBSlZp6WUvc?si=7BfOCdNOTzuoW4LkvHzyAA
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 • #JusticeforBryce - Adam Tate's Official Announcement: 
https://www.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=32876961955250751&id=100000911118224&mibextid=wwXIfr&rdid=nnmVU8LFIdec2oLO#
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 • Pentester: 
https://pentester.com
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 • Ryan Montgomery: 
https://www.youtube.com/@0dayCTF

What Every Father Must Know NOW About The Dark Web Targeting Our Kids

In today's conversation, I'm sitting down with Tyler Moore—better known as Tidy Dad—and this one genuinely surprised me in the best way. We went way beyond "clean your room" tactics and dove into how clutter quietly taxes our patience, steals our mornings, and robs us of presence with the people we love. Tyler breaks down simple, doable systems that turn chaos into calm—especially for us dads navigating careers, marriage, and raising kids.
 
 
 
We talk about the launch-pad front door setup that ends morning scrambles, the capsule wardrobe that eliminates decision fatigue, how to get your kids on board without battles or tears, and how to choose the right starting point so you build momentum instead of overwhelm. If you want more laughter, connection, and leadership at home—and fewer frantic searches for keys—this episode will hit you right where you need it.
 
 
 
 
 Timeline Summary 
 
 
[0:00] – Introduction
 
[1:01] – Why "less mess = more presence" and how clutter taxes patience, marriage, and mornings.
 
[3:10] – Tyler on why tidying starts with accepting that life will get messy—and how systems prevent spirals.
 
[4:47] – The hidden cost of small daily stressors (like losing your keys) and why routines create mental clarity.
 
[7:21] – The extremes of "perfectly tidy" vs. "messy house, happy family"… and where most dads actually fall.
 
[17:05] – The front-door "launch pad": a simple system that ends the morning chaos for good.
 
[18:24] – Tyler's game-changing capsule wardrobe that eliminates decision fatigue (and why kids notice).
 
[26:30] – Why most big organizing projects fail—and how to start small by identifying the real pain point.
 
[33:24] – How to get kids involved without tears by starting with low-stakes categories and giving them ownership.
 
[47:09] – Lessons learned from the "bedroom switch meltdown" and communicating as a couple before changing systems.
 
[51:52] – Why intentional living beats comparison, and how to define "just enough" for your family.
 
 
 
 
 Five Key Takeaways 
 
 
 Clutter steals more than space — it steals presence. 1. Small daily frustrations compound into bigger emotional and relational consequences.
 Systems beat motivation. 2. Creating "launch pads," routines, and predictable spots for essentials protects your mornings and your mindset.
 Start tiny, not huge. 3. The big whole-house overhauls usually fail; momentum comes from solving one specific pain point at a time.
 Kids thrive when they're part of the process. 4. Beginning with low-stakes categories (like socks or pajamas) builds confidence, ownership, and calm.
 Define "just enough" for your family. 5. You don't need the fanciest home or the most stuff—intentional choices create more freedom, clarity, and connection.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 Links & Resources Tyler Moore (Tidy Dad) on Instagram: • 
https://www.instagram.com/tidydad Tidy Times Newsletter (Substack): • 
https://tidydad.substack.com Tidy Tidbits Podcast: • Search 
Tidy Tidbits • wherever you listen to podcasts
 Dad Edge Show Notes: • https://thedadedge.com/1408
 Dad Edge Business Boardroom: • https://thedadedge.com/mastermind
 
 
 
 
 Closing Remark 
 
 
If this conversation gave you practical ways to reclaim presence, connection, and calm inside your home, do me a favor—rate, follow, and leave a quick review. And share this one with another dad who could use a boost in simplifying his life and leading more intentionally. You guys are the best.

How Clutter Steals More Than Space In Your Home (It Steals Presence) featuring Tyler Moore

In this special Black Friday episode, I dive into a much-needed conversation about emotional reset. As the holiday season ramps up, many of us are carrying stress, tension, and unprocessed emotions that make us more reactive and less connected. In this short but impactful solo episode, I walk you through how to reset three vital areas of your life—your mind, your marriage, and your relationship with your kids—before the craziness of December takes over.
 
 
 
If you've felt overwhelmed, disconnected, or simply exhausted lately, this episode offers practical and heartfelt guidance to bring intention, clarity, and presence back into your home.
 
 
 
 
 EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS 
 
 
[0:00] – Introduction
 
[1:02] – Why this time of year can feel especially heavy and chaotic
 
[2:22] – The three things to reset before the holidays: mind, marriage, and kids
 
[3:04] – A tactical Black Friday shout-out and 50% off gear at thedadedge.com/shop
 
[3:58] – Resetting your mind: the power of a quiet, tech-free 30-minute walk
 
[5:03] – How constant busyness keeps us distracted and emotionally exhausted
 
[6:38] – Resetting your marriage with one simple and honest check-in conversation
 
[7:23] – Real-life example of how Larry leads open dialogue with his wife
 
[9:12] – Resetting your connection with your kids through gratitude and shared plans
 
[10:10] – What Larry's son said he wanted to do together before Christmas
 
[10:29] – Why you shouldn't wait until January 1st to reconnect with your family
 
 
 
 
 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 
 
 
 Resetting Begins with Stillness: 1. Unprocessed stress makes us reactive and distant. A quiet 30-minute walk without media can bring clarity, calm, and presence back to your day.
 Marital Tension Needs Check-Ins, Not Grand Gestures: 2. One intentional conversation with your spouse—asking how they're doing and what needs to be talked about—can diffuse tension and bring closeness back.
 Children Want Time, Not Things: 3. Asking your kids what they loved about the year and what they want to do together before Christmas creates meaningful connection during a busy season.
 Don't Wait for the New Year to Start Over: 4. You can recalibrate your emotional tone now. Waiting for January 1st delays the connection your family needs today.
 Great Dads Lead with Emotional Tone: 5. Your mindset, your calm, and your intention set the atmosphere for your entire home. Lead it with purpose—especially during the holidays.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 LINKS & RESOURCES 
 
 
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Black Friday Sale (limited time): https://thedadedge.com/shop – Use code FRIDAY for 50% off all gear
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Download the "25 Questions" PDF for better connection with your kids: https://thedadedge.com/25questions
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 Episode Show notes: https://thedadedge.com/1407 
 
 
 
 
If this episode resonated with you, take 30 minutes today for yourself—and 10 minutes with your family. Then rate and review the podcast, and share it with a fellow dad who could use a reset.
 
 
 
Live legendary.

The 10 Minute Reset to Strengthen Marriage and Parenting

In this special solo episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I take a moment to reflect on the power of gratitude, especially as we approach Thanksgiving. What started out as a funny story about a failed attempt to record with my nine-year-old quickly turned into a heartfelt message for the men who make this podcast possible. I open up about the lessons I've learned over the past 10 years of podcasting, leading the Dad Edge movement, and the importance of appreciating life's simplest blessings—even when the world feels chaotic.
 
 
 
Whether you're navigating challenging family dynamics over the holidays or simply want to deepen your connection with those you love, this episode is packed with encouragement and reminders about what truly matters.
 
 
 
 
 EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS 
 
 
[0:00] – Introduction
 
[1:22] – Why this solo episode almost didn't happen
 
[2:38] – Reflections on Thanksgiving and what it represents
 
[3:55] – How simple gratitude (like working fingers and toes) shifts perspective
 
[4:56] – The Hagner family Thanksgiving tradition of spoken gratitude
 
[5:35] – The importance of setting healthy boundaries around alcohol
 
[6:17] – A hilarious and humbling personal story from a past holiday
 
[7:37] – Deep gratitude to the Dad Edge community and listeners
 
[9:51] – Shout-out to men in the Alliance, Boardroom, and 1-on-1 coaching
 
[11:39] – Celebrating Wade Hendry as First Form Dad Edge Dad of the Month
 
[14:29] – How First Form's company culture mirrors our values
 
[15:20] – Where to find full show notes and resources for this episode
 
 
 
 
 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 
 
 
 Gratitude Doesn't Require Perfection: 1. Even in chaotic or stressful family situations, choosing to focus on small, simple blessings—like health or a working car—can reframe your entire experience.
 Holiday Traditions Can Be Powerful Tools: 2. Larry's family tradition of expressing specific gratitude around the Thanksgiving table serves as a model for meaningful connection, not just with family but with intention.
 Guard Your Energy and Presence: 3. The episode includes a candid and humorous warning about overindulging in alcohol during the holidays—a reminder that one night can become a story you regret for decades.
 Celebrate Your Journey, Even If It's Imperfect: 4. Larry shares how the 
Dad Edge Podcast 5. began as a passion project and evolved into a global movement—proof that you don't have to have it all figured out to make an impact.
 The Community Is What Makes This Possible: 6. From listeners to Alliance members to coaching clients, this episode is a heartfelt "thank you" to the men doing life together, growing, contributing, and showing up with courage.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 LINKS & RESOURCES 
 
 
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Full episode details: https://thedadedge.com/1406
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Download "25 Questions to Help You Connect with Your Kids": https://thedadedge.com/25questions
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Shop First Form and support the podcast: https://1stphorm.com/dadedge
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 • Podcast Shownotes: 
https://thedadedge.com/1406 
 
 
 
 
If this episode resonated with you, please rate, review, and share it with another father. Let's keep building this community of intentional men who lead and love well.
 
 
 
Live legendary.

Gratitude That Grounds You During the Holidays

In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Bryan Driscoll, a successful digital marketer and real estate investor who's also a devoted husband and father. Bryan opens up about his journey balancing business and family, the intentional decisions he's made to protect his time, and how he structures his life around his values—faith, presence, and legacy.
 
 
 
From tech startup burnout to creating a lifestyle that prioritizes family dinners and morning routines, Bryan shares the strategies and mindset shifts that helped him go from reactive to intentional. If you're a dad wrestling with how to succeed in business without sacrificing your family, this episode is a blueprint for building both.
 
 
 
 
 EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS 
 
 
[0:00] – Introduction
 
[2:04] – Bryan's background and unexpected pivot into entrepreneurship
 
[4:28] – How a college hack turned into a full-time digital marketing agency
 
[6:53] – Navigating growth while staying aligned with his faith
 
[9:46] – Building in boundaries to be fully present for his family
 
[12:12] – The moment Bryan decided to stop working nights and weekends
 
[14:25] – Why success means nothing if your kids don't know you
 
[17:00] – How he structures his day to serve his business and family
 
[20:42] – Creating a routine that includes daily prayer and gratitude
 
[24:31] – Why his calendar now includes "unmovable" family time
 
[27:18] – Final reflections: letting your family see your heart, not just your hustle
 
 
 
 
 
 
 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 
 
 
 
 
 Faith and Family Define Success: 1. Bryan isn't just building wealth—he's building a legacy rooted in faith, integrity, and presence.
 You Control the Calendar: 2. Intentional time blocking, morning routines, and family dinners aren't "nice to haves"—they're non-negotiables for lasting connection.
 Boundaries Are Leadership: 3. Saying no to work after 5 PM was Bryan's way of saying yes to what matters most.
 Kids Need Your Heart, Not Your Hustle: 4. Bryan reflects on how being physically present isn't enough—emotional presence is the real gift.
 Build a Business That Serves Your Life: 5. By designing his business around his family values, Bryan proves you don't have to choose between impact and intimacy.
 
 
 
 
 LINKS & RESOURCES • Connect with Bryan Driscoll and explore real estate investing tips: 
https://motivatedleads.com • Download the 
Questions for the Car • PDF: 
https://thedadedge.com/25questions • 1st Phorm: 
www.1stphorm.com/dadedge • Podcast Shownotes: 
https://thedadedge.com/1405 
 
 
 
 
If you enjoyed today's episode, don't forget to rate, review, and share the podcast. Let this conversation be the spark that helps you lead your family with intention.
 
 
 
Live legendary.

Building a Business That Serves Your Life with Intentional Boundaries featuring Bryan Driscoll

In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Adam Schafer, co-host of the popular Mind Pump Podcast, for a vulnerable, authentic, and deeply reflective conversation on fatherhood, healing generational trauma, and building connection through presence—not performance. Adam opens up about his own childhood trauma, how it shaped his identity, and the intentional work he's done to break the cycle and show up differently for his son.
 
 
 
We dive into the power of emotional safety, why performance-based love doesn't work, and the simple but powerful practice of being fully present. Whether you're a father looking to lead with more empathy or a man learning to love from a healed place, this conversation will resonate deeply.
 
 
 
 
 EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS 
 
 
[0:00] – Introduction
 
[2:07] – Adam reflects on his father's absence and the pain of unfulfilled promises
 
[5:45] – How unresolved trauma shaped his early identity and choices
 
[8:10] – The pivotal moment he realized his success was masking deeper wounds
 
[11:28] – Why he decided to show up differently for his son
 
[14:42] – The importance of building emotional safety, not just structure
 
[17:36] – Why "being there" is different from being present
 
[20:03] – Teaching through modeling instead of controlling
 
[22:14] – Using breathwork, journaling, and awareness to stay grounded
 
[25:11] – Why your kids don't need perfection—they need you
 
[28:55] – Adam's approach to leading with grace and empathy at home
 
[31:30] – Navigating self-doubt and letting go of old patterns
 
[35:07] – Final reflections: leading with love, not ego
 
 
 
 
 
 
 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 
 
 
 Unresolved Trauma Shows Up in Fatherhood: 1. Adam shares how his unprocessed childhood pain impacted how he first approached success, relationships, and parenting—until he consciously chose to heal and grow.
 Presence Is More Than Proximity: 2. Simply being around isn't enough. Kids need engaged, emotionally available fathers who are attuned to their needs.
 Breaking Generational Patterns Starts With Awareness: 3. Adam emphasizes that healing begins when we're honest about what shaped us—and we choose to respond differently moving forward.
 Your Kids Need Safe, Not Perfect: 4. It's not about being the perfect dad. It's about being the one your kids feel emotionally safe with—where they can be seen, heard, and loved unconditionally.
 You Can't Teach What You Don't Practice: 5. Breathwork, journaling, emotional regulation—Adam models these daily so he can parent from a grounded and connected place.
 
 
 LINKS & RESOURCES 
 
 
 • Connect with Adam Schafer and Mind Pump Media: 
https://mindpumppodcast.com • Download the 
Questions for the Car • resource: 
https://thedadedge.com/25questions • Explore more episodes and resources: 
https://thedadedge.com/podcast thedadedge.com/soulmates • Podcast Shownotes: 
https://thedadedge.com/1404 
 
 
 
 
If this episode helped you reflect, reframe, or reconnect, don't forget to rate, review, and share the podcast. One conversation can change everything.
 
 
 
Live legendary.

Breaking Generational Trauma to Become a Present Father featuring Adam Schafer

In this heartwarming and hilarious episode, I sit down with my 9-year-old son Colton for a spontaneous and deeply connective conversation. Using our brand-new Questions for the Car resource, we explore everything from nightmares and Dog Man books to space rides and secret lemonade recipes. It's a candid glimpse into father-son bonding, full of laughter, surprises, and those unscripted moments that truly matter.
 
 
 
Whether you're a dad looking for creative ways to connect with your kids or just need a smile today, this episode is a reminder of the magic that happens when we slow down, ask meaningful questions, and just listen. Colton brings the energy and honesty only a 9-year-old can, and the stories he shares will absolutely make your day.
 
 
 
 
 
Episode Highlights
 
[0:00] - Introduction
 
[1:10] - Introducing Colton and the new "Questions for the Car" resource
 
[3:35] - The big move from Facebook to our private Dad Edge Alliance platform
 
[5:00] - Colton shares his outfit of the day and his excitement for Black Friday merch
 
[6:00] - Colton's wild dream involving spooky gray eyes and… Mr. Doo Doo?
 
[8:45] - Talking books: Colton breaks down his latest Dog Man read (spoiler alert!)
 
[11:00] - Reflecting on romance, weddings, and seeing parents show love
 
[13:10] - Favorite family memory: Disney World and the magic of Space Mountain
 
[15:45] - If he had a magic wand… Colton's Paris dreams and golden chocolate
 
[17:03] - What makes a good friend, and Colton's trampoline generosity
 
[18:00] - Why asking fun questions builds better conversations and memories
 
[20:00] - The best lemonade in the world (and the secret ingredient Colton won't tell!)
 
 
 
 
 
5 Key Takeaways
 
 
 
 Ask Better Questions 1. – Engaging your kids with meaningful questions opens the door to unforgettable conversations.
 Connection Over Perfection 2. – Conversations with younger kids might "squirrel," but the real gift is in the connection.
 Create Fun Family Rituals 3. – Resources like 
Questions for the Car 4. can turn everyday drives into bonding moments.
 Celebrate the Small Things 5. – From dreams to books to lemonade, everything is an opportunity to connect.
 Lead by Example 6. – Showing love, presence, and intention as a father shapes your child's inner world.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Links & Resources
 
 
 
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Questions for the Car: thedadedge.com/kidquestions
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Closing Thoughts
 
 
 
Even the shortest chats with our kids can leave lasting impressions. Whether you're talking about books, dreams, or lemonade recipes, remember—it's not about the topic, it's about the connection. If this episode inspired you, made you laugh, or gave you new ideas to connect with your kids, please rate and review the show, and don't forget to share it with another dad who might need it.
 
 
 
Stay legendary.

Why Fun Conversations Build Deeper Father-Son Bonds featuring Colton Hagner

In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Candice Horbacz, a former adult film star turned mindfulness advocate, podcaster, and homeschooling mother. Candice brings a rare blend of candor, introspection, and wisdom to this deeply personal conversation. We explore how she navigated radical life transitions, healed from childhood trauma, and created a home rooted in authenticity, curiosity, and emotional safety.
 
 
 
Candice opens up about her own upbringing, the dysfunction that shaped her early worldview, and how she found her way to a new version of identity after walking away from the adult industry. This episode is about reclaiming power—through parenting, partnership, and personal evolution.
 
 
 
 
 EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS 
 
 
[0:00] – Introduction
 
[1:36] – How Candice's childhood shaped her early sense of self
 
[4:18] – Growing up in a home where emotions weren't safe
 
[7:03] – Her path into the adult film industry and what it masked
 
[9:55] – Why the lack of secure relationships drew her toward unhealthy dynamics
 
[12:30] – How she began to explore healing, trauma work, and self-awareness
 
[14:49] – The role of her partner in helping her see her worth
 
[17:01] – What led her to leave the adult industry behind
 
[18:57] – Shifting identity and rebuilding trust within herself
 
[21:04] – Navigating marriage with vulnerability and truth
 
[23:15] – Creating emotional safety for her son as a homeschooling mom
 
[26:40] – Why curiosity is her #1 parenting tool
 
[29:21] – Helping kids navigate their own triggers without shame
 
[32:09] – Final reflections on how to lead with authenticity at home
 
 
 
 
 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS Early Dysfunction Often Masks Itself in Achievement or Escape: 1. Candice shares how a childhood without emotional safety pushed her to find validation in unhealthy spaces, including adult entertainment.
 Self-Awareness Begins with Naming the Pain: 2. Her healing journey started by recognizing how trauma shaped her reactions, her self-worth, and her definition of love.
 You Can Reinvent Your Identity Without Shame: 3. Leaving the adult film industry was a reclamation of agency, and her story proves it's never too late to rewrite your narrative.
 Parenting with Curiosity Builds Emotional Safety: 4. Rather than reacting with control, Candice leans into curiosity when her son struggles—inviting connection instead of conflict.
 Partnerships Flourish in Vulnerability, Not Performance: 5. With her husband, Candice found safety to explore who she truly was—laying the foundation for a conscious, present, and authentic marriage.
 
 
 LINKS & RESOURCES • Learn more about Candice and her work: 
https://www.chattingwithcandice.com • Candice's Website: 
http://candicehorbacz.com/ • Discover our free 
Questions for the Car • download: 
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Rewriting Your Story After Trauma and Identity Loss featuring Candice Horbacz

Ever found yourself trying to fix a problem with your spouse or kids—only to make it worse? Yeah, me too. In today's episode, I sat down with Josh Davis, a neuroscientist, author, and master of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), to explore how the way we communicate—our words, tone, body language, and mindset—can shape the emotional responses of those we love most.
 
 
 
Josh didn't just explain NLP; he showed it in action—by putting me in the hot seat. We talked real-life scenarios that dads like us face daily, from explosive moments with kids to feeling emotionally disconnected from our spouses. Josh walked me through powerful, science-backed communication tools that shifted my perspective in real time. Trust me, this episode isn't just about theory—it's a game changer that could transform how you show up in your marriage, fatherhood, and even your inner dialogue.
 
 
 
 
 
Timeline Summary
 
[0:00] - Introduction
 
[1:19] - Common communication missteps with our wives and kids
 
[2:07] - What is NLP and why every dad should care
 
[6:56] - Josh's background and why NLP is his passion
 
[12:06] - Comparing NLP to cognitive behavioral therapy
 
[14:10] - Real-world examples of how NLP creates breakthroughs
 
[23:25] - Josh's personal story about improving his marriage through NLP
 
[33:21] - A deep-dive NLP coaching session with me as the guinea pig
 
[40:00] - Identifying limiting beliefs and how they shape our behavior
 
[42:00] - The surprising power of body language in father-child connection
 
[45:04] - How to build rapport with your kids through posture and tone
 
[54:12] - Reframing limiting beliefs our kids express
 
[57:00] - Simple language tweaks to open emotional doors
 
[1:01:20] - A tactical breakdown of how to validate emotions without enabling
 
 
 
 
 
Key Takeaways
 
 
 
 Stop Fixing, Start Connecting 1. – Your instinct to solve may actually be creating distance; connection begins with emotional validation.
 NLP Isn't Magic—It's Strategy 2. – Small shifts in language, posture, and tone can create big breakthroughs in how others respond to you.
 Meet People Where They Are 3. – Emotional safety starts with joining your child or partner in their current state before trying to lead them somewhere else.
 Your Body Talks Too 4. – Mirroring posture and energy isn't manipulation—it's subconscious empathy that builds trust.
 Change Begins with You 5. – Whether it's marriage, parenting, or personal beliefs, the transformation starts by examining your internal dialogue and behavior.
 
 
 
Links & Resources
 
 
 
 • Josh Davis' Book: 
 https://www.amazon.com/Difference-that-Makes-Science-Positive/dp/1250349087 thedadedge.com/soulmates joshdavisphd.com/dads • Podcast Show Notes: 
https://thedadedge.com/1401 
 
 
 
 
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How to Be Heard, Seen & Understood at Home featuring Josh Davis

Join Larry and Jason MacKenzie as they riff on questions from the Dad Edge communities!
 
Here's what to look forward to in this episode:
 
 • What are your rules about video games and how do you keep them open-minded about real life activities?
 • How have you found a heal your emotional trauma from growing up and if so, how did you do it?
 • What did you least expect to find at the Dad Edge 
summit • ? What was the biggest surprise?
 
JMack's podcast is Inquisitive Souls. You can find it here. We live in the world our conversations create.

Dad Edge Q&A - Episode 2

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