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Transformative ideas from the best thinkers on the planet including guests like James Clear, Susan Cain, Michael Pollan, Deepak Chopra, Nicole LaPera, Yung Pueblo, Gabor Mate, Maggie Smith, , David Whyte, Macklemore, George Saunders, Anne Lamott, Frank Turner, Mark Manson, Tara Brach, AJ Jacobs, Oliver Burkeman, Ryan Holiday, Parker Palmer. It’s not about perfection; it’s about direction.

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In this episode, Yung Pueblo discusses relationship mistakes and how to love better. He explores how attachments can masquerade as love and how true connection requires flexibility, and shares this powerful insight: attachment is just a deep form of inflexibility—it can look like love, but it’s often about control. Diego also delves into why growth, kindness, and compassion are green flags in a partner, and how to advocate for personal needs without clinging too tightly to rigid expectations. This insightful discussion offers practical wisdom for anyone looking to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 Attachment vs. Love • – Attachment can often masquerade as love, but it’s really a deep form of inflexibility and control. True love allows for freedom and growth.
 The Power of Emotional Flexibility • – Our ability to adapt, shift perspectives, and embrace change is essential for healthy relationships.
 The Role of Personal Growth in Love • – Your relationship is only as strong as your willingness to grow. When both partners prioritize self-awareness, connection deepens.
 Kindness and Humility as Green Flags • – Instead of looking for perfection in a partner, look for their willingness to grow, their kindness in difficult moments, and their ability to see beyond their own perspective.
 The Danger of Comparison • – Social media can create unrealistic expectations in relationships. Instead of comparing, focus on what truly matters in your connection.
 Balancing Freedom and Commitment • – Love thrives when we allow each other to change and evolve while staying committed to the relationship.
 
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If you enjoyed this episode with Yung Pueblo, check out these other episodes:
 
How to Feel Lighter with Yung Pueblo
 
The Art of Poetry and Prose with David Whyte
 
Life Through Poetry with IN-Q
 
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Relationship Mistakes & How to Love Better with Yung Pueblo

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Adyashanti is a renowned and gifted spiritual teacher. He's written many books, hosts meditation retreats and speaks around the world to large audiences at a time. With such a wide audience, it's amazing that when you experience Adya's teaching, it's as if he's speaking directly to you - to your very heart. Whatever your experience with or preconceived notions of spiritual awakening, allow yourself to re-engage with the idea through this interview. As you turn the inquiry towards yourself this time, you may be surprised, moved and/or transformed by what you find - if you are brutally honest in the process.our inner life.

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In This Interview, Adyashanti and I Discuss...

 • Eric's awakening experience
 • The awakened state in perpetuity
 • The shift in perception that happens with awakening
 • The paradox of wanting something like awakening yet wanting it stands in the way of having it
 • Will gets you to the cushion and once there, it's important to let go of it
 • Does one need a spiritual teacher when seeking awakening?
 • The teacher evoking something from vs the teacher giving something to the student
 • How people work with unconscious patterns
 • How you can't not be awakened - even if you don't feel it, it's there
 • Emotional conflict
 • Paying attention to what's recurring in you
 • Anything that's happened to us that was too big for us to remain conscious while we experienced it, gets trapped in our system - turned into some other emotion or it just gets stuffed and is now just there waiting for you. The universe is now asking, "can you experience this now?"
 • Being fine with being sad
 • Let everything be exactly the way it is
 • How dealing with life's experiences as they come transforms you
 • A clinched fist vs an open hand metaphor
 • "Let" vs "Let go"
 • If you can't let it go, can you let it be
 • Failure as part of triumph
 • Failing your way through something consciously can cause a sort of transformation
 • What it looks like to build a spiritual practice
 • Daily quiet meditation, Engage in some precise self-inquiry (a wonderment of "being")
 • How spirituality is the direct investigation of YOUR experience
 • The only way to get self-inquiry wrong is not to be ruthlessly honest about what's happening in your experience
 • The fear of getting something wrong
 • Think of your spiritual teacher kind of like a college professor

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Adyashanti on the Process and Experience of Awakening (part 1)

Susan David is a psychologist on faculty at Harvard Medical School. She’s also the co-founder and co-director of The Institute of Coaching at McLean Hospital and is CEO of Evidence-Based Psychology. Her book is, Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life. Have you ever gotten hooked by a difficult emotion? In other words, have you ever felt compelled to act on a strong feeling without having any space to think about your action first? If so, you will find really helpful wisdom in this episode that you can take, apply today and live a more skillful, open-hearted life.

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In This Interview, Susan David and I Discuss…

 • Her book, 
Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life • How emotions are a guidance system
 • That emotions can help us adapt and thrive
 • The thinking “unless I’m happy all the time, something is wrong”
 • Emotional Agility
 • Loosening up, calming down and living with more intention
 • The space between stimulus and response
 • Emotional rigidity
 • Allowing the story in our head to drive our actions
 • Being who we most want to be in this world
 • Moving away from the idea of “I have a thought and the thought is fact and I have to act on it”
 • Getting hooked – accepting thought as fact
 • That we are not our emotions – our emotions are a data source
 • The story that imprisons and keeps us from acting in an open-hearted way
 • How to get unhooked
 • Getting curious and compassionate about our emotions when we’re hooked
 • I’m noticing that I’m feeling ____
 • Creating a safe psychological space for ourselves
 • “Walking your why”
 • Choice points: do I move towards my values or away from my values?
 • Social contagion
 • Keeping your values front of mind
 • Discomfort is the price of admission to a meaningful life
 • That our difficult emotions (like anxiety, for example) don’t have to go away in order for us to live according to our values
 • Under our difficult emotions are signposts for our values
 • Premature cognitive commitment
 • Stories help us to make sense of our world
 • Naming our stories

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Susan David, Ph.D. - Emotional Agility

Richard Schwartz began his career as a systemic family therapist and an academic and has developed Internal Family Systems (IFS) in response to clients’ descriptions of various parts within themselves. He focused on the relationships among these parts and noticed that there were systemic patterns to the way they were organized across clients. Dr. Schwartz found that when the clients’ parts felt safe and were allowed to relax, they would spontaneously experience the qualities of confidence, openness, and compassion that he came to call the Self. He also found that when in that state of Self, clients would know how to heal their parts. Richard is a featured speaker for national professional organizations and has published many books and over fifty articles about IFS.
 
In this episode, Eric and Richard discuss his book, No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model
 
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Richard Schwartz and I Discuss Internal Family Systems and…
 
 • His book, 
No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model • Defining Internal Family Systems (IFS)
 • Understanding that we all have multiple “parts” within us
 • The parallels of family therapy work to internal family systems
 • Identifying the “Self” among our different parts
 • IFS work is trying to understand what burdens each of our parts is carrying
 • How the Self can take an active leadership role over our parts
 • The roles that our parts take on: exiles, managers, firefighters 
 • How our parts can transform into powerful allies to bring healing
 • Four goals of IFS: Transforming, Restoring Trust, Bringing Harmony, Becoming more Self
 • The 8 C’s – Creativity, Compassion, Confidence, Clarity, Connectedness, Curiosity, Calm, Courageous
 • Trailheads refers to thought patterns or impulses that lead to the part from where it’s emanating
 • How IFS is a type of spiritual practice in learning to access more of your Self
 • The problems with positive thinking in working with your parts
 
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If you enjoyed this conversation with Richard Schwartz, check out these other episodes:
 
The Energy of Emotions with Ralph De La Rosa (2021)
 
The Mind as Your Teacher with Ralph De La Rosa (2018)
 
Understanding Emotions with Susan David

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Richard Schwartz on Internal Family Systems

In this episode, Anders Hansen explains the purpose of emotions and how we’re not wired for happiness. Anders discusses the evolutionary nature of our minds and how our ancestor’s survival instincts have shaped our modern-day experiences of anxiety and happiness.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Understand how human emotions have evolved to serve a purpose in our lives
 • Discover the powerful impact of exercise on your mental well-being
 • Learn effective strategies to overcome feelings of loneliness and connect with others
 • Explore the role of inflammation in depression and its potential influence on mental health
 • Recognize the importance of nurturing relationships for your overall happiness and well-being
 
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The Purpose of Emotions and Why We're Not Wired for Happiness with Anders Hansen

In this episode, La Sarmiento explores what it means to embrace imperfection to discover the path to true self-acceptance. La shares their journey of discovering and embracing identity, belonging, and the challenges of living authentically in a world that often demands conformity.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Learning to feed our “good wolf” through conscious effort and daily choices
 • Balancing the absolute truth of oneness with the relative truth of societal inequalities
 • The role of identity in spiritual practice and the complexities of the “no-self” teaching
 • Creating inclusive spaces in spiritual communities and the challenges of true integration
 • The transformative power of unconditional love through relationships, including animals
 
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Embracing Imperfection: The Path to True Self Acceptance with La Sarmiento

In this episode, Daniel Levitin explores the concept of music as medicine and how rhythm and melody can transform wellness. Delving into the origins of music therapy, he uncovers its historical significance in ancient healing practices and its gradual resurgence in modern times. Daniel illustrates the connection between music and the human brain, emphasizing its ability to evoke deep emotional responses and aid in treating various neurological and psychological conditions.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Discover the transformative power of music for emotional expression and stress relief
 • Explore the therapeutic potential of music for improving movement and coordination in individuals with movement disorders
 • Uncover the profound impact of music in bringing comfort and joy to individuals living with dementia
 • Learn how music can serve as a powerful tool for reducing and managing chronic pain
 • Delve into the role of music in enhancing memory retention and cognitive function
 
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Music as Medicine: How Rhythm and Melody Transform Wellness with Daniel Levitin

In this episode, Kimmy Culp explores how we can transform our inner dialogue to heal and connect. The discussion includes the complexities of mental health, personal identity, and the power of self-talk. Kimi also shares her journey with bipolar disorder as she emphasizes the importance of community, shared experiences, and the healing power of recognizing one’s struggles.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Exploration of mental health and personal identity
 • The impact of self-talk on well-being
 • The importance of community and shared experiences in healing
 • The complexities of labels and identity in relation to mental health
 • The concept of comparative suffering and its implications
 • The role of gratitude in mental health and healing
 • The significance of authenticity and vulnerability in relationships
 
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How We Can Transform Our Inner Dialogue to Heal and Connect with Kimi Culp

In this episode, Chris Bailey discusses how to break free from the “more” trap and find balance in a busy life. He explores the concept of ‘stimulation heights,’ the challenges of constant digital stimulation, and practical strategies for creating meaningful, intentional experiences. Chris also shares how learning to cultivate presence can lead to greater calm, focus, and fulfillment in your modern lifestyle.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • The misconceptions about calm and its crucial role in productivity
 • How our pursuit of “more” impacts our ability to be present
 • The concept of “super stimuli” and their effect on our brain chemistry
 • Practical strategies for creating boundaries and finding balance
 • The power of savoring and its impact on our overall well-being
 
Connect with Chris Bailey: Website | Instagram
 
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How to Break Free from the 'More' Trap and Find Balance in a Busy Life with Chris Bailey

In this episode, Meghan O’Rourke discusses how to find joy and healing while living with chronic illness. Meghan shares her personal journey through years of unexplained symptoms, misdiagnoses, and the frustrating search for answers. She delves into the intricate relationship between mind and body, exploring how our thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations intertwine in ways that challenge conventional medical understanding. We examine the role of stress, expectations, and societal pressures in shaping our experiences of illness and recovery.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • The importance of viewing the body as an interconnected system rather than isolated parts
 • How empathy and understanding from healthcare providers can significantly impact patient outcomes
 • The challenges of managing symptoms like brain fog and fatigue, which can be harder to address than physical pain
 • The need to balance advocating for oneself while resisting catastrophic thinking
 • Rethinking what “healing” means in the context of chronic illness
 
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How to Find Healing with Chronic Illness with Meghan O'Rourke

In this episode, Tami Simon shares what it means to be true to yourself and how to discover what matters most in work, life, and love. We also discuss…
 
 • How we all have inherent goodness inside us
 • Realizing there’s no destination in life but an unending journey 
 • Learning to find balance in our internal and outer experiences
 • Understanding that our body’s feedback will indicate when things are out of balance
 • The five keys to living in integrity and being true to ourselves
 • How being supported helps us to have the courage to bridge the gap between knowing and doing
 • Learning to stay open and experience what expanded awareness feels like
 
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How to Discover What Matters Most in Life with Tami Simon

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