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This week we talk to Simon Sinek about leadership
Simon Sinek is an author best known for popularizing the concept of "the golden circle" and to "Start With Why", described by TED as "a simple but powerful model for inspirational leadership all starting with a golden circle and the question "Why?"'. He joined the RAND Corporation in 2010 as an adjunct staff member, where he advises on matters of military innovation and planning.
His first TEDx Talk on "How Great Leaders Inspire Action" is the 3rd most viewed video on TED.com. His 2009 book on the same subject, Start With Why: How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone to Take Action (2009) delves into what he says is a naturally occurring pattern, grounded in the biology of human decision-making, that explains why we are inspired by some people, leaders, messages and organizations over others.
His latest book is called Leaders Eat Last: Why Some Teams Pull Together and Others Don’t
 In This Interview Simon and I Discuss...

The One You Feed parable.
How good leadership is feeding the good wolf.
How good leadership fills the environment with love, empathy and kindness.
The four main neurotransmitters that regulate human emotion.
How oxytocin inhibits addiction.
The Rat Park experiments.
The Cost of Leadership is self-interest.
How leadership does not come with rank.

 
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Susan David is a psychologist on faculty at Harvard Medical School. She’s also the co-founder and co-director of The Institute of Coaching at McLean Hospital and is CEO of Evidence-Based Psychology. Her book is, Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life. Have you ever gotten hooked by a difficult emotion? In other words, have you ever felt compelled to act on a strong feeling without having any space to think about your action first? If so, you will find really helpful wisdom in this episode that you can take, apply today and live a more skillful, open-hearted life.

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In This Interview, Susan David and I Discuss…

 • Her book, 
Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life • How emotions are a guidance system
 • That emotions can help us adapt and thrive
 • The thinking “unless I’m happy all the time, something is wrong”
 • Emotional Agility
 • Loosening up, calming down and living with more intention
 • The space between stimulus and response
 • Emotional rigidity
 • Allowing the story in our head to drive our actions
 • Being who we most want to be in this world
 • Moving away from the idea of “I have a thought and the thought is fact and I have to act on it”
 • Getting hooked – accepting thought as fact
 • That we are not our emotions – our emotions are a data source
 • The story that imprisons and keeps us from acting in an open-hearted way
 • How to get unhooked
 • Getting curious and compassionate about our emotions when we’re hooked
 • I’m noticing that I’m feeling ____
 • Creating a safe psychological space for ourselves
 • “Walking your why”
 • Choice points: do I move towards my values or away from my values?
 • Social contagion
 • Keeping your values front of mind
 • Discomfort is the price of admission to a meaningful life
 • That our difficult emotions (like anxiety, for example) don’t have to go away in order for us to live according to our values
 • Under our difficult emotions are signposts for our values
 • Premature cognitive commitment
 • Stories help us to make sense of our world
 • Naming our stories

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susandavid.com

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Sarah Shockley is a multiple award-winning producer and director of educational films including Dancing From the Inside Out, a highly acclaimed documentary on disabled dance. Sarah is the author of a number of books on living with chronic pain, including the one discussed in this episode, The Pain Companion: Everyday Wisdom for Living with and Moving Beyond Chronic Pain.

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In This Interview, Sarah Shockley and I Discuss Living with Chronic Pain and…

 • Her book, 
The Pain Companion: Everyday Wisdom for Living with and Moving Beyond Chronic Pain • How it’s hard for us to heal when we’re in a battle with pain
 • The good wolf aspect of pain
 • Feeding into healing vs feeding in living with chronic pain
 • Her experience with debilitating pain
 • The many components of chronic pain – in addition to the physical component
 • How isolating chronic pain can be 
 • Chronic emotional pain
 • Seeing pain differently
 • Turning towards pain and asking it, “What could positively be your positive purpose here?”
 • What you resist persists
 • Becoming partners with your pain
 • Thinking of pain as the voice of something within you that wants to be healed
 • Creating a different relationship with pain
 • We lock pain in place when we get into a resistant mode
 • Giving pain a lot of space
 • Breathing into the pain
 • The messages that pain brought her
 • Asking pain, “What do you need?”
 • How her life has been transformed by changing her relationship and experience with chronic pain
 • That she wrote the book she wished she had been given in the midst of her struggle with pain
 • That being seen in your pain can be the beginning of healing
 • Living with chronic pain and what she imagined her pain looking like

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Sarah Shockley on Living with Chronic Pain

Carol S. Dweck, Ph.D., is one of the world’s leading researchers in the field of motivation and is the Lewis and Virginia Eaton Professor of Psychology at Stanford University. Her research has focused on why people succeed and how to foster success. She has held professorships at Columbia University and Harvard University, has lectured all over the world, and has been elected to the American Academy of Arts and Sciences. Her work has been featured in such publications as The New Yorker, Time, The New York Times, The Washington Post, and The Boston Globe, and she has appeared on Today and 20/20. 

In this episode, Carol and Eric discuss her book, Mindset: The New Psychology of Success.

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In This Interview, Carol Dweck and I Discuss Fixed and Growth Mindset and …

 • Her book, 
Mindset: The New Psychology of Success • How in the growth mindset we believe in our ability to grow and change
 • In the fixed mindset we become afraid to not know or to fail
 • Listening to and accepting what our minds think
 • Learning to talk back to our default mindset
 • Recognizing that we have a choice of our mindset
 • How we can have a fixed and growth mindset in different areas of our lives
 • A growth mindset doesn’t say that there aren’t differences in skills and ability
 • How people with the fixed mindset are not inspired by role models
 • The mindset approach can be used in regards to personality
 • That teenagers that are taught the growth mindset are less likely to become depressed
 • Learning to use the growth mindset
 • In a growth mindset we can see criticism as feedback, as a way to change
 • Relationships grow better in a growth mindset

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Mindset Works

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Carol Dweck on Fixed and Growth Mindset

In this episode, Anders Hansen explains the purpose of emotions and how we’re not wired for happiness. Anders discusses the evolutionary nature of our minds and how our ancestor’s survival instincts have shaped our modern-day experiences of anxiety and happiness.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Understand how human emotions have evolved to serve a purpose in our lives
 • Discover the powerful impact of exercise on your mental well-being
 • Learn effective strategies to overcome feelings of loneliness and connect with others
 • Explore the role of inflammation in depression and its potential influence on mental health
 • Recognize the importance of nurturing relationships for your overall happiness and well-being
 
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The Purpose of Emotions and Why We're Not Wired for Happiness with Anders Hansen

In this episode, La Sarmiento explores what it means to embrace imperfection to discover the path to true self-acceptance. La shares their journey of discovering and embracing identity, belonging, and the challenges of living authentically in a world that often demands conformity.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Learning to feed our “good wolf” through conscious effort and daily choices
 • Balancing the absolute truth of oneness with the relative truth of societal inequalities
 • The role of identity in spiritual practice and the complexities of the “no-self” teaching
 • Creating inclusive spaces in spiritual communities and the challenges of true integration
 • The transformative power of unconditional love through relationships, including animals
 
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Embracing Imperfection: The Path to True Self Acceptance with La Sarmiento

In this episode, Daniel Levitin explores the concept of music as medicine and how rhythm and melody can transform wellness. Delving into the origins of music therapy, he uncovers its historical significance in ancient healing practices and its gradual resurgence in modern times. Daniel illustrates the connection between music and the human brain, emphasizing its ability to evoke deep emotional responses and aid in treating various neurological and psychological conditions.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Discover the transformative power of music for emotional expression and stress relief
 • Explore the therapeutic potential of music for improving movement and coordination in individuals with movement disorders
 • Uncover the profound impact of music in bringing comfort and joy to individuals living with dementia
 • Learn how music can serve as a powerful tool for reducing and managing chronic pain
 • Delve into the role of music in enhancing memory retention and cognitive function
 
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Music as Medicine: How Rhythm and Melody Transform Wellness with Daniel Levitin

In this episode, Kimmy Culp explores how we can transform our inner dialogue to heal and connect. The discussion includes the complexities of mental health, personal identity, and the power of self-talk. Kimi also shares her journey with bipolar disorder as she emphasizes the importance of community, shared experiences, and the healing power of recognizing one’s struggles.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Exploration of mental health and personal identity
 • The impact of self-talk on well-being
 • The importance of community and shared experiences in healing
 • The complexities of labels and identity in relation to mental health
 • The concept of comparative suffering and its implications
 • The role of gratitude in mental health and healing
 • The significance of authenticity and vulnerability in relationships
 
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How We Can Transform Our Inner Dialogue to Heal and Connect with Kimi Culp

In this episode, Chris Bailey discusses how to break free from the “more” trap and find balance in a busy life. He explores the concept of ‘stimulation heights,’ the challenges of constant digital stimulation, and practical strategies for creating meaningful, intentional experiences. Chris also shares how learning to cultivate presence can lead to greater calm, focus, and fulfillment in your modern lifestyle.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • The misconceptions about calm and its crucial role in productivity
 • How our pursuit of “more” impacts our ability to be present
 • The concept of “super stimuli” and their effect on our brain chemistry
 • Practical strategies for creating boundaries and finding balance
 • The power of savoring and its impact on our overall well-being
 
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How to Break Free from the 'More' Trap and Find Balance in a Busy Life with Chris Bailey

In this episode, Meghan O’Rourke discusses how to find joy and healing while living with chronic illness. Meghan shares her personal journey through years of unexplained symptoms, misdiagnoses, and the frustrating search for answers. She delves into the intricate relationship between mind and body, exploring how our thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations intertwine in ways that challenge conventional medical understanding. We examine the role of stress, expectations, and societal pressures in shaping our experiences of illness and recovery.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • The importance of viewing the body as an interconnected system rather than isolated parts
 • How empathy and understanding from healthcare providers can significantly impact patient outcomes
 • The challenges of managing symptoms like brain fog and fatigue, which can be harder to address than physical pain
 • The need to balance advocating for oneself while resisting catastrophic thinking
 • Rethinking what “healing” means in the context of chronic illness
 
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How to Find Healing with Chronic Illness with Meghan O'Rourke

In This Episode, You'll learn:
 
 • Why outer order contributes to inner calm and how we can use this to create a sense of energy and focus.
 • Why monitoring our existing behavior can be a useful strategy
 • How creating"Ta Da" lists (things we have accomplished) can be energizing and encouraging
 • Why it's important to create safeguards for when you slip so that you can keep going
 • How we can have an emotional attachment to our possessions and strategies to let go of things
 • Take Gretchen's 
4 Tendencies Personality Quiz 
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How to Find Inner Calm and Happiness with Gretchen Rubin

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