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Focus on the Family

Life is challenging for Christian singles. How do you balance work and personal life? How do you own your faith? How can you date with a purpose? And prepare for marriage? All while honoring God through it all? Hit up The Boundless Show, a Christian podcast for young adults, for some good, honest conversation. The young adult years are full of possibility and choices that shape who you become. Join host Lisa Anderson to discuss the highs and lows, lean on each other, and trust God in this important season of adulthood.

The Boundless Show

Taking the gospel to work, plus Kyle Idleman on what it means to guard your mind, and should you bring your significant other home for Christmas? 
 
Featured musical artist: Hollyn
 
Roundtable: Sharing the Gospel With Coworkers
 
If you work in a secular industry or environment, is it possible to make your faith known? What are creative ways to bring the gospel into how you show up on the job? Our guests have experience living out their faith in creative ways in everything from the corporate world to customer service to a counseling practice. They’ll give you the courage and tools to speak up, love your coworkers, and be the hands and feet of Jesus in the office, classroom, factory and beyond. 
 
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Culture: Thoughts Got You Stuck?
 
How do you keep your mind settled and sorted when too many things compete for your attention? Pastor and popular author Kyle Idleman explains what it means to guard your mind, and how fighting toxic thoughts, calming the chaos and fighting for truth makes a difference when fielding offenses and Satan’s lies. 
 
 Every Thought Captive: Calm the Mental Chaos That Keeps You Stuck, Drains Your Hope, and Holds You Back 
 
Inbox: Bringing Your Date to Christmas
 
You want to bring your boyfriend or girlfriend to meet your family at Christmas. But what are the dos and don’ts for doing so? Counselor Erin Smalley weighs in. 
 
Link to Counseling Services 
 
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Jesus on the Job: Episode 933

Friendships with the opposite sex, plus what we can learn from the elderly, and the difference between the Holy Spirit and your conscience. 
 
Featured musical artist: Phil Wickham
 
Roundtable: Platonic Guy-Girl Friendships
 
Is it possible for men and women to be “just friends”? There’s an ongoing debate on the topic, with some arguing it’s possible while others maintain that it inevitably leads to something awkward (or worse, inappropriate). Our guests break down the pros and cons and give tips for doing friendship with the opposite sex in a God-honoring way. 
 
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Culture: Practical Love for the Elderly
 
Whether it’s your parents, grandparents, neighbor or fellow church member, God’s call to love our elders is clear. But it isn’t always easy. Senior citizens may be slower than us, have different perspectives, and can even be critical or aloof. But if you have the patience and intention to dig deep, there’s potential for rich relationship and even the opportunity to learn. Isabel Tom lived her entire childhood and young adult years with her aging grandparents. She now works with the elderly and shares her thoughts on what you stand to gain by prioritizing time with the seniors around you. 
 
 The Value of Wrinkles: A Young Perspective on How Loving the Old Will Change Your Life 
 
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Inbox: Conscience or the Holy Spirit?
 
Venturing into a dangerous situation. Asking someone out. Knowing God’s will on a job offer. We all look for direction in various circumstances, but how do you know whether that prompting is your conscience or the Holy Spirit? Pastor Mark Bates weighs in. 
 
Link to Counseling Services 
 
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Just Friends: Episode 932

Responding to restlessness on the job, plus Dr. Henry Cloud on establishing boundaries, and wisdom with physical touch when dating. 
 
Featured musical artist: Je’kob
 
Roundtable: Why Am I So Restless at Work?
 
We all experience restlessness with our jobs or chosen career paths. But how do we discern when restlessness is discontentment or fear versus a sign that we need to move on to something new? Our guests share their own examples of feeling the “career itch” and how they’ve dealt with it effectively. 
 
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Culture: Lessons From a Boundaries Expert
 
Are you a people pleaser? Do you assume you can never say no for fear of disappointing others? Do you resent those who walk all over you, even as you let them do it? Dr. Henry Cloud wrote the defining book on boundaries and joins us with instruction for taking back our lives from our own fear, passivity and boundary busting. 
 
 Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life 
 
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Inbox: A Word About Touch
 
Physical touch may be your love language, but guardrails are still biblical and wise, especially with someone you’re dating. What should you know and do to honor God in this area? Counselor Andrea Vidano weighs in. 
 
Link to Counseling Services 
 
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Boundaries for People Pleasers: Episode 931

The rise of Friendsgiving celebrations, plus the real story behind Thanksgiving, and navigating grief during the holidays. 
 
Featured musical artist: Darlene Zschech 
 
Roundtable: Thanksgiving With Friends
 
For people who either can’t or won’t celebrate Thanksgiving with family, the trend of “Friendsgiving” is here. We interview three single young adults who’ve hosted and participated in Friendsgiving celebrations. They’ll provide tips for how to invite and include people, divvy up the food, plan activities around the meal, and keep thankfulness at the center. 
 
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Culture: What Really Happened at the First Thanksgiving?
 
Pilgrims, Squanto, turkey, corn, big hats and a New World: We think we know the details of the first Thanksgiving, but what’s fact and what’s fiction? Thankfully, Bill Petro has done all the research so we don’t have to. He’ll share what led up to the historic feast, who participated, what it meant, and why it matters in 2025. We’ll also discuss the commercialization of Thanksgiving and some of the more modern applications and traditions. 
 
 They Came for Freedom: The Forgotten, Epic Adventure of the Pilgrims 
 
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Inbox: Grief at the Holidays
 
Whether you’ve experienced a recent loss or not, the holidays are a trigger for grief and other big emotions. Using the example of his father’s recent death, counselor Geremy Keeton weighs in on how to process feelings of intense sadness. 
 
Link to Counseling Services 
 
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Happy Friendsgiving!: Episode 930

The “singles vacuum” at church, plus pastors discuss the church’s attitude toward single adults, and what to do about difficult bosses and coworkers.
 
Featured musical artist: Jeremy Rosado
 
Roundtable: The Singles Gap
 
Kids, youth, college-age, young marrieds and seniors: Most churches seem to have unique ministries for these demographics. But what about young professional single adults? Our guests discuss the seeming vacuum in churches when it comes to creating space for singles, and what we can do to foster belonging and impact among this too-often “lost” segment of the church. 
 
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Culture: Does the Church Value Marrieds More Than Singles?
 
Does your church seem to place a higher value on marriage than on singleness? Is there any truth to this claim, or is it just the skewed perspective of the unmarried and embittered? Two pastors, one married and one single, discuss both sides of the argument. They suggest how the church can better teach singleness as a unique gift while showing sensitivity and honor to the singles in their pews. 
 
 Single-Minded: Finding Purpose & Strength in Your Season of Singleness
 
Inbox: Dealing With Difficult Coworkers
 
How do you properly address problems with a boss or coworker? At what point do you confront bad behavior in the workplace? HR expert Marshonda Dixon weighs in. 
 
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Singles in the Shadows: Episode 929

Men who struggle in dating, plus determining a person’s growth potential, and how do you spot a false teacher? 
 
Featured musical artist: Daniel Bashta 
 
Roundtable: Guys’ Dating Struggles
 
We all know men who’ve tried to date well (or date at all), but with no success. If that sounds like you and you want to turn things around, take heart. Our guests were in the same boat, experiencing fear, rejection, dead-ends, and even a few broken engagements. Now married, they share advice for growth and self-awareness, plus courage to not give up hope even in the midst of disappointment. 
 
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Culture: Can This Person Change?
 
We all have room to grow, but when dating, how much can we expect a person to change? And in what ways? In light of this, how can we know when our expectations are unrealistic and it’s time to either adjust them or end the relationship? Dr. Bob Paul specializes in helping couples in crisis. He joins us to talk about relational expectations and how to discern whether two people have what it takes to go the distance. 
 
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Empowered to Love: Discovering Your God-Given Power to Create a Marriage You Both Love 
 
Inbox: Discerning False Teachers
 
It’s popular in Christian circles to label someone a false teacher. But what are credible signs that a pastor or influencer is truly anti-biblical and dangerous? Counselor Geremy Keeton weighs in. 
 
PDF: How to Discern a False Teacher
 
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Advice for Dateless Men: Episode 928

Boomers dispense advice for young adults, plus navigating sexual desire as a single in your 30s, and the hallmarks of a thriving faith. 
 
Featured musical artist: David Dunn
 
Roundtable: Life Lessons for Young Adults
 
What would Christians in their 60s and 70s tell their younger selves? We find out this week as our guests dispense some of their best life advice and perspectives. From spiritual rhythms to life hacks to navigating regrets to staying hopeful, listen in and get wisdom from those who’ve gone before you. 
 
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Culture: Sexual Integrity for the 30-Something
 
Counselor M.T. Wilson was single until age 38. He has great advice for navigating the tricky decade of your 30s as a Christian who wants to honor God with your sexuality. From stewarding sexual desire to understanding intimacy, longing for companionship, and struggling to trust God with His timing, M.T. shares lessons from his own journey as well as his expertise as a relationship and sex therapist. 
 
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Surrendered Sexuality: How Knowing Jesus Changes … Everything
 
Inbox: Is Your Faith a Blessing or a Bore?
 
Why do some people seem to have a thriving relationship with God, while others struggle? Pastor Mark Bates weighs in. 
 
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Advice From Seasoned Saints: Episode 927

How to respond when your friends deconstruct, plus creative ways for men to build friendships, and keeping healthy boundaries with coworkers. 
 
Featured musical artist: Nathan Tasker
 
Roundtable: Discouraged by Deconstruction
 
Your friend who once loved Jesus is struggling to keep the faith. He or she has written off parts of the Bible, or stopped going to church, or is excusing sin as not a big deal. All of us go through seasons of doubt, but how should you respond when you see someone drifting away from biblical truth and Christian community? Our guests have experienced this firsthand, and share how to love your friends and entrust them to God in the midst of their struggles. 
 
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Culture: Finding Great Friendships as a Man
 
How do men, especially single men, find meaningful friendships in church and beyond? Ty Dannenbring and Jeff Dillon learned how to cultivate community by sharing activities they love, being more visible in their spheres of influence, and reaching out to neighbors. Because guys do friendship differently than women, the practical ideas Ty and Jeff bring to the table are immensely helpful and attainable for men who crave meaningful connection. Ladies, we dished out friendship ideas for you last week!
 
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Party in the Front!: Overcome Loneliness and Build Community Right Where You Are 
 
Inbox: TMI on the Job
 
What’s appropriate to share at work, and what’s TMI (or worse)? HR expert Marshonda Dixon weighs in. 
 
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When Friends Leave the Faith: Episode 926

What it takes to be a full-time missionary, plus creative ways for women to find friendship, and should you be involved in a church plant? 
 
Featured musical artist: Aaron Shust
 
Roundtable: Are Overseas Missions Meant for Me?
 
All Christians are called to fulfill the Great Commission, but not everyone is meant to be a missionary in a foreign country. How can you find out if you are? This week’s panel features seasoned missionaries, a missions agency leader, and a prospective missionary to share their journeys toward serving overseas, plus the unique temperament and qualification needs of a missionary, and what to expect in the preparation and candidating process. 
 
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Culture: Finding Great Friendships as a Woman
 
How do women, and especially single women, find meaningful friendships in church and beyond? Melissa Zaldivar has creative ideas that focus on being intentional, asking questions, meeting needs, and being open to women in other stages of life. She’ll also list some qualities that are necessary for a real friendship to thrive. Men, next week we’ll have ideas for you!
 
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Get Over Here: A Single’s Guide to Building Meaningful Community 
 
Inbox: Should I Help Plant a Church?
 
How do you know if you’re supposed to join a church plant? Pastor Mark Bates weighs in. 
 
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Missionary Mode: Episode 925

How churches are reaching 20- and 30-somethings, plus a woman’s quest to love her sisters in Christ, and tips for paying off student loans.
 
Featured musical artist: Mosaic MSC
 
Roundtable: What Does Your Church Do for Young Adults?
 
Does your church have a strong young adult ministry? Does it have one at all? Regardless of your specific scenario, young adults belong at church, and it’s the responsibility of church leadership plus young professionals (that’s you!) to ensure that you’re fed, included, serving, giving and committing. What does that look like? What are some creative ways to reach and enfold 20- and 30-somethings into the life of your local body of believers? Our panel of two young adult leaders and one pastor to young adults gives tips for being seen and heard and then engaging with your church community. 
 
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Culture: The Power of Women Helping Women
 
As a former worship leader, Natalie Runion has lots of experience with the highs and lows of Christian service and culture. But when her pastor offered her a women’s ministry role, she panicked. “I don’t even like women!” she blurted in response. Over time, God changed her heart, and she’s now seen God use her role in women’s ministry in ways she never expected. In our candid conversation, Natalie gives inspiration and advice for women to nurture and lift up other sisters in Christ — and then see what God does. 
 
 I Don’t Even Like Women: And Other Lies That Get in the Way of Sacred Sisterhood
 
Inbox: Strategies for Paying Off Student Loans 
 
Many grads spend years, if not decades, paying off their student loans. Is there a way to short-circuit the process and get ahead? Financial expert Jay Blackman weighs in. 
 
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Young Adults at Church: Episode 924

Ideas for a successful first date, plus popular misconceptions about dating, and the dangers of seeing every guy as a potential spouse.

Featured musical artist: Austin Stone Worship 

Roundtable: First Date Strategies for Success

You’re going on a first date! Just the thought sparks more questions than answers. Will we have a good conversation? Will he be a gentleman? Is she who I think she is? To help make your first date experience better, we brought in a group of friends to share some dos and don'ts for making a good first impression, infusing fun into whatever you do, having a meaningful interaction, and determining whether a second date is a good idea.

Culture: Common Misconceptions About Dating and Marriage

Last spring, Boundless’ show engineer, Alex Seeley, got married. For he and his wife, Megan, it’s been a fun and eye-opening journey of learning to adjust to married life. Looking back on their dating days, Alex and Megan share common myths people believe about dating and marriage (they even admit a myth or two that tripped them up). We’ll discuss dating choices, being “too picky,” maturity in marriage, and more.

Roots Episode: Debunking Popular Myths About Dating and Marriage

Busting 10 Christian Dating Myths

Inbox: Not Every Man Is a Potential Mate 

How can she stop viewing every cute guy as a potential spouse? It’s making her kind of crazy, and she wants more balance in the way she approaches the men she meets. Counselor Jenny Coffey weighs in.

How to Have an Amazing First Date: Episode 778

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