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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. 

 

Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.

 

From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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You've Got Decisions: Two Bold Empowered Women Helped Me Find My Freedom

In this 2025 Year-End Wrap-Up episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by a special roundtable featuring Deante Kyle, Jason “Jah” Lee, and JoJo Alonzo for a wide-ranging reflection on the defining political, cultural, and personal moments of 2025. The conversation opens with a sweeping review of the year’s political climate and cultural shifts [00:52], setting the tone for a thoughtful breakdown of how public policy, media narratives, and social movements shaped everyday life.
 
From there, the panel transitions into personal reflections on navigating 2025 as individuals [03:37], leading into an honest discussion around neurodivergence and identity [04:06], including how language, labels, and self-definition evolved throughout the year [05:22]. The group examines stereotypes and community dynamics [08:03], before unpacking the lasting societal impact of the pandemic [10:15] and how it reshaped ideas around corporate responsibility, humanity, and social justice [11:59].
 
As the conversation deepens, the hosts challenge modern ideas of victimhood and accountability [13:12], segueing into a critical analysis of celebrity involvement in politics [16:33] and the outsized influence public figures wield within Black communities [18:19]. They discuss the rise of controversial personalities [20:56], emphasizing the urgent need for stronger, more intentional Black voices in media [23:08] and increased investment in Black-owned platforms and storytelling [25:56].
 
The episode also interrogates celebrity idolization through the lens of figures like Diddy [27:48], expanding into broader conversations around cultural representation in entertainment [30:09], performative allyship [32:00], and the dangers of celebrity worship [34:19]. The panel revisits the complexity of victimhood narratives [36:34], questioning how money, power, and morality intersect in public discourse [39:12].
 
In the final stretch, the discussion turns toward the future—examining the rapid evolution of AI and technology [41:15], the environmental concerns tied to innovation [46:41], and what these developments mean for humanity moving forward. The episode concludes with reflective final thoughts on lessons learned in 2025 and the importance of individual action, community care, and accountability as society looks ahead [50:22].
 
This year-end conversation offers a layered, unfiltered look at politics, culture, technology, and identity—cementing Selective Ignorance as a space for critical thought, honest dialogue, and forward-thinking reflection.
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 42 | 2025 Year End Wrap Up (Sort Of) Part. 1 feat. Deante Kyle, JoJo Alonzo & Jason "Jah" Lee

This week the ladies are joined by comedian Tahir Moore for a conversation covering everything from food debates and big group dinners to navigating parenting moments like his daughter bringing a boy home. Tahir shares his experience living in an open and poly relationship, including how it started, traveling with partners, dealing with jealousy, going to therapy, and the reactions from his therapist and his children. The trio also talks about the dynamics within multiple-partner households, boundaries around voyeurism, partner disagreements, and how presence is shared among everyone involved. During Truth and Dare they explore desires, assertiveness, intimacy challenges, early experiences, and a vibrator sales dare before moving into Heauxtry and closing with Tahir’s biggest lesson from being poly.
 

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EP 451: Our Poly Family Getaway (feat. Tahir Moore )

You've Got Decisions: How Should I Feel? He May Have a Baby!

In this expansive episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B sits down with super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and Jason “Jah” Lee for a deep, multilayered conversation that bridges culture, technology, ethics, and identity. The episode opens with Mandii’s intro and book promo [00:00] before the crew dives into the evolving intersection of sci-fi and reality [00:54], exploring how futuristic concepts—from AI to virtual identity—are rapidly becoming part of everyday life.
 
They quickly shift into the impact of celebrity controversies and the algorithm-driven world of social media [02:17], highlighting how online behavior distorts public perception. This leads to a candid exploration of ignorance in social interactions [03:49], examining the blurred lines between intention, offense, and personal accountability.
 
The discussion broadens into cultural biases and stereotypes [21:25], unpacking how upbringing, environment, and media shape the ways people interpret the world. That conversation sets the stage for a rich breakdown of Apple TV’s Pluribus[31:45], where the group examines its philosophical themes, including collective identity [34:44], the pursuit of happiness [37:39], and the role of suffering in defining human experience [40:11].
 
As the hosts navigate cultural perspectives and language barriers [42:28], they reflect on autonomy, free will, and the human experience [45:18], tying these concepts to larger societal structures like capitalism versus socialism [48:09]. This flows into a discussion on the ripple effects of individual actions [51:34], especially in relation to convenience, overconsumption, fast fashion, and how happiness often comes with hidden ethical costs [54:38].
 
The complexity of choice becomes a major theme, as the group unpacks the illusion of choice and the manufactured nature of happiness [01:00:02], eventually highlighting why genuine choice remains essential to humanity [01:02:44].
 
Race, identity, and internal community dynamics surface next, with an honest conversation about colorism and its impact within the Black community [01:11:55]. From there, the hosts turn to tipping culture and stereotypes [01:17:06], exposing how social expectations shape perceptions of class, service, and respect. That leads to a humorous yet pointed discussion on punctuality [01:23:45], exploring the deeper cultural meanings behind being late—or being on time.
 
The episode wraps with a reflection on accountability and growth in public discourse [01:28:59], and finally, the complexities of family dynamics, misinformation, and how beliefs evolve over generations [01:37:11].
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 41 | AI vs. Autonomy, Decade Old Tweets & Non-Apologies feat. Jason "Jah" Lee

This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Chy & Winter of the Behind The Likes podcast to talk break-ups and make-ups, how reading the signs and picking up the energy on tour affects relationships,the moments when advice given on the mic goes left, and why 86% of married men are married. The ladies tap into their playful side with a round of Heauxtry, where they guess songs and let their inner heaux sing through, before diving into their favorite parts of “corn” and just how petty things can get after a breakup. They also get real about dealing with violence, feeling attacked by a friend, setting boundaries within a friendship and business, and how Chy & Winter work through their most recent argument while keeping their bond and partnership solid.
 

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EP 450: The Pettiness (feat. Chy & Winter)

You've Got Decisions: Side Chick-ship

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and special guest Jason “Jah” Lee for a sharp, unfiltered deep dive into politics, celebrity accountability, cultural contradictions, and personal moments of ignorance. The conversation kicks off with a breakdown of the newly released Epstein files, as the crew explores their political and cultural impact [00:52]—from what the revelations mean for public trust to how power and privilege shape the narrative in America.
 
The group then pivots into real-life chaos with a series of “ignorant moments,” where Mandii and the fellas share candid stories about heated confrontations and the trials of unreliable cleaning services [11:01], offering humor alongside relatable frustrations. The discussion picks up intensity as they examine celebrity accountability, spotlighting public figures like The Game and Matt Barnes [24:01], and questioning how much transparency we truly expect from those with massive platforms.
 
The Epstein files resurface later in the episode [38:50], this time through the lens of political manipulation, media spin, and shifting public perception. From there, the crew delves into Nicki Minaj’s controversial alignment with the Trump administration [48:45], unpacking the broader implications of celebrity influence, political endorsements, and fan-driven loyalty.
 
The conversation takes a spiritual turn when they explore Young Thug’s surprising decision to seek guidance from a rabbi [01:06:36], sparking a broader discussion about personal resets, faith, and unexpected paths to clarity. The episode closes with a provocative “Am I Ignorant?” segment [01:16:24], challenging cultural norms around inheritance, family dynamics, and whether cousins are entitled to a caregiver’s final wishes.
 
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Selective Ignorance : Ep. 40 | Public Outrage: Blowing Bubba, Guilt &"The Files" feat. Jason "Jah" Lee

This week the ladies are joined by author & sex therapist, Dr. Donna Oriowo to talk all about her new book Drink Water & Mind Your Business and the real-life choices that inspired it. From unpacking “texturism” and Weezy’s hair salon horror stories to the dangerous narratives around “fat body genocide” and why health has become just another weapon to judge people, the trio gets into how our bodies, beauty standards, and self-talk shape the way we move through the world.
They also dive into asking to go raw, communicating honestly with yourself, and why giving yourself the love you deserve is the prerequisite for any relationship.The ladies play a little Truth & Dare to tap into their inner phone seggs operator. Plus, Dr. Donna breaks down situationships, “shut up” rings, and the biggest takeaways from Drink Water & Mind Your Business so you can protect your peace, your heart, and your edges.
 
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EP 449: Drink Water & Mind Your Business (feat. Dr. Donna Oriowo)

You've Got Decisions: Plug Or Nah? (feat. Eddie Della Siepe)

This week Mandii & Weezy are SOLO! First the ladies deep dive into the limits of quality time with their own partner with Mandii limiting a vacation to only 4 days with a significant other or friend. After that Wolf joins the conversation by giving an insight of how a man feels when their girlfriend has a male “best friend” ,why another woman shouldn’t be cooking for a man who is in a relationship, and why the male/female dynamic in a friendship could be finicky. Then Mandii & Weezy give the breakdown on how to tell your significant other if you were in the same room with a past fling. Last but not least, the ladies go over the true difference of boundaries vs insecurities. 
 
 
 
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EP 417: Putting A Limit On ‘Quality Time’ & Insecurities Vs. Boundaries

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