A Christian Guide to Preventing and Ending Men's Affairs: (Without Being Patient or Submissive)

Love and Restoration Are Things We Do—Not Things We Wait For

Can you be a faithful Christian without waiting silently while your husband cheats? Yes, you can. Patience alone won’t restore your marriage—God calls us to take action, not just wait for Him to fix things.

This book teaches boundaries and behaviors that prevent and end affairs while strengthening your marriage.

Many Christian women are told to be patient and submissive when husbands cheat. Some counselors blame wives for not meeting husbands' needs, leading women to please unfaithful men and allow affairs to continue. Secular counseling often overemphasizes assertiveness without balancing love and connection. A truly effective Christian approach combines love with strong boundaries—whether dating, married, or facing any relationship challenge.

In this book, you'll discover:

• The real reason men cheat—and how to prevent it • How to date to discourage infidelity • Key elements of a faithful marriage • How to make your husband feel loved while fearing losing you • The biggest threats to marriage and how to handle them • Common mistakes that contribute to affairs—and how to avoid them • Your five options when facing a husband's affair • What to say when confronting infidelity • How to use separation as an intervention • How to reconnect with your husband—even during his affair • Proven steps to rebuild your marriage after the affair

About the Author

Dr. Ito ("Coach Jack") is a Christian psychologist with 27 years of marriage coaching experience. A graduate of Fuller Theological Seminary, he has helped thousands restore love and reconciliation in their marriages. Learn more at coachjackito.com.

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Release date

Audiobook: 27 March 2025