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Summary - Why Does He Do That?: Based On The Book By Lundy Bancroft

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Non-Fiction

SUMMARY

WHY DOES HE DO THAT?

BASED ON THE BOOK BY LUNDY BANCROFT

SUMMARY WRITTEN BY: BRIEF BOOKS PUBLISHING

CONTENT

Understanding the Abuser's Mindset

Deconstructing the Mythology of Abuse

Identifying Different Types of Abusive Men

The Progression of Abuse in Relationships

Control Tactics in Everyday Life

The Rewards of Abusive Behavior

Navigating Sex, Addiction, and Mental Health Issues

Breaking Up with an Abuser: Dangers and Strategies

The Abuser's Impact on Children and Custody Battles

General Analysis

ABOUT THE ORIGINAL BOOK

In "Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men," Lundy Bancroft explores the complex behaviors and thought processes of abusive men. The book analyzes the mentality behind abuse, offering insights into why abusers act the way they do in relationships. It challenges common myths about abuse and provides tools for women to recognize controlling behaviors, protect themselves, and understand the abuser's tactics. Bancroft delves into different types of abusers, how abuse begins, and the impact on relationships and children without revealing specific outcomes, focusing instead on unmasking the abuser's mindset.

© 2025 Brief Books Publishing (Audiobook): 9798347714841

Release date

Audiobook: 13 February 2025

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