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The Big O: The ultimate sex and relationship guide from Twitter guru and LaidBare podcast host Oloni

6 Ratings

4.7

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10H 23min
Language
English
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Personal Development

With exclusive bonus audio material! Oloni discusses dilemmas from real women and imparts her indispensable advice.

‘The reigning sex and relationship guru of Twitter’ VOGUE

Are you ready to have the best sex of your life?

Oloni – Twitter’s famous sex and relationships educator – is on a mission to empower women to explore, express and embrace their sensual, sexy selves.

The ultimate sex-positive manifesto will show you how to reclaim and pursue your sexual desires, sensuality, autonomy, and pleasure. By breaking down taboos, rejecting shame, and refusing repression, we can all harness the power of sexual freedom and start enjoying the – sex – life we’ve always dreamt of.

With infectious energy, honesty, and humour, The Big O gives women a space to celebrate topics and conversations that have historically only been whispered behind closed doors. This book will inspire you – and educate you – on how to communicate with your partner (and yourself!) to have the best sex of your life, as well as debunking taboos and delving deep into important topics that need bringing into the spotlight; from masturbation and sex toys, to kinks, virginity, sexual identities, and sex positions you won’t know how you ever lived without.

Everyone and every body needs Oloni in their life, even if they don’t know it yet…

So ladies, shall we have some fun…?

© 2022 Thorsons (Audiobook): 9780008524166

Release date

Audiobook: 29 September 2022

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